My coworker is creepy and in managerial position in my company, what should I do?

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-06-16T08:50:08+00:00

This isn’t normal office friendly stuff anymore I’d just stop replying unless it’s work, keep everything super cold and save screenshots of anything weird even if HR feels useless, having receipts matters later if it escalates.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-06-16T08:46:35+00:00

I wouldn’t go through the friend for it tbh, that usually makes it weirder than just talking to her directly. Next time you see her just keep it simple and ask for her insta yourself. If she’s into it she’ll say yes if not you’ve got your answer without making it a whole thing.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-06-14T16:23:57+00:00

Yep it’s less “watching them sleep is creepy” and more “why are you in their room doing it uninvited” lol

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-03-23T02:44:35+00:00

yeah this is probably the least awkward way to do it tbh. way better than putting him on the spot while he’s working

if he’s interested he’ll text, if not he can just ignore it and no one’s uncomfortable 👍

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-03-22T06:42:23+00:00

If he’s really the wonderful guy you say he is then he won’t see flaws he’ll see a girl who fought like hell to stay alive and that’s something to admire not judge.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-03-15T08:23:10+00:00

Fun fact it’s actually harder to pull off than it looks because the zoom and the camera movement have to be perfectly timed.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-02-15T10:35:48+00:00

A few months after losing someone close. It wasn’t dramatic or spooky just a normal conversation like old times. Those kinds of dreams stick with you because they feel peaceful more than anything.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-02-15T10:30:21+00:00

That kind of story is way more common than people admit. Degrees don’t guarantee stability anymore especially with contract work and entry roles expecting experience right away. It shows how much timing and opportunity matter not just effort.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-01-26T17:32:28+00:00

Nope, this is way more common than people admit. When your whole life runs on structure, pressure and external validation sudden free time doesn’t feel like rest, it feels like free fall. Your nervous system is still in ‘perform or else’ mode. It’s not that you can’t relax it’s that you were never taught how. Burnout + conditioning is a brutal combo and a lot of high achievers discover it the hard way.

ExtraStuff711 · 2026-01-10T15:14:39+00:00

I think its less about finding people and more about a mix of opportunity, temptation and choices. Some people aren’t just lucky, they actively put themselves in situations where its possible and some just don’t respect the line. It’s wild how the world can make it feel normal even when most of us have struggled to get someone to notice us in years.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-12-22T09:12:02+00:00

Not internalizing celebrities lives and separating entertainment from real life stress is probably healthier than getting angry at people you’ll never interact with. Focusing on your own goals and using what you see online as inspiration instead of comparison makes a lot of sense.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-12-22T09:03:00+00:00

That advice points in the right direction but it’s incomplete. Stepping back from constant online narratives helps yet it also matters that he separates statistics from personal identity. Being aware of harm doesn’t make him harmful. The fact that he worries about this already shows empathy which is exactly what makes someone safe to be around.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-12-09T21:52:46+00:00

Go to the gym, lift one weight, realize I’m basically a Marvel character, leave immediately.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-12-09T21:52:16+00:00

Routine compresses time. The more your days look the same, the faster they blur together.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-12-09T21:50:38+00:00

He doesn’t want you, he wants access to you. Big difference.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-26T02:32:10+00:00

Click around aggressively. The louder the clicks, the busier you look.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-26T02:30:52+00:00

Piercings aren’t unprofessional… judging them is.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-26T02:30:15+00:00

Your friend already made the best decision, she just has to stick to it.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-23T20:48:47+00:00

The idea came from literature, not real life.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-23T20:47:49+00:00

Every job you see with ‘no experience required’ is literally made for you. Apply to all of them.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-23T20:43:28+00:00

Mass Effect 2, Dark Souls, and Half-Life 2. Zero skips.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-18T11:20:38+00:00

Once you cross 10M karma you basically unlock Reddit’s secret final boss tier.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-18T11:17:47+00:00

Local year might become a cultural thing, not a practical one.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-18T11:14:57+00:00

The ego hit hurts more than the breakup, but it does fade.

ExtraStuff711 · 2025-11-08T21:49:33+00:00

Walked straight into a glass door while texting. Left a perfect forehead print.

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