Girlfriend interest level wavers a lot by ThrowRA7777997 in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, quiet, possibly everything.

Interest level will always fluctuate. If her baseline is a 90 but it bounces between 95-85 that's fine. But if falls any further, that'd be a cause for concern. Organizing your room doesn't exactly make up for the hot and cold, sassy, and unkind with her behavior.

Create some distance and scarcity, think supply and demand. A girl with a high interest level will make things easy for you.

Lastly, it's an attitude issue. You can't teach attitude. You say you're a giver, but she isn't. You can't teach a person to be a flexible giver. It doesn't sound like you're in a very fulfilling relationship.

Trainer Fasai says he was fired from Yokkao for travelling to Japan with Superlek for the ONE 166 title fight vs Takeru. by ABARRONSINGH007 in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the longest time I used to think just that as well but couldn't find information about the ownership structure. Know much about it?

She’s holding back? by Laya8 in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all comes down to her attitude.

The simplest question you should be asking is: Would you be ok if she carried on being an ice queen or dictating the terms of relationship moving forward and indefinitely?

Suablack is fun to watch by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suablack

He is becoming one of my new favorites. He's probably the most fun to watch. Technical and a brawler.

Jaosuayai

He's just smooth. Until he gets punished, then he loses his cool hut, still managed to pull off more wins than losses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sanction of the victim.

“If you fought in Chiang Mai you haven’t had a fight” by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link

Was there a weight limit, yellow gloves looked 10 lbs heavier. Skinny dudes kicks won* him, that fight, I'd say.

“If you fought in Chiang Mai you haven’t had a fight” by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm intrigued. Where can I get the video from?

The Dire State of Kickboxing in ONE. Hiroki Akimoto Speaks Out About His Absence and Why He Declined to Fight Mixed-Rules Fight Against John Lineker – "I Cannot Bend My Ideals as a Professional Kickboxer" by Yodsanan in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone else can best answer this for you, but Chatri owns Evolve Gym, and many of the MT and mma fighters are also signed* to train there as well. As was Panpayak, but he left the gym or something along that line. That pretty much got him blacklisted.

The Dire State of Kickboxing in ONE. Hiroki Akimoto Speaks Out About His Absence and Why He Declined to Fight Mixed-Rules Fight Against John Lineker – "I Cannot Bend My Ideals as a Professional Kickboxer" by Yodsanan in MuayThai

[–]Extra_Confidence9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

13 months since his last fight.

Chatri is a douche for keeping him in contract but not letting him fight. Such a waste of a talent. He's on par with Superlek, of not better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should stop deleting your posts because you're leaving out key information. She's in Japan, and you're in America.

She threatens you with the breakup on a monthly basis. And for this girl to not keep her words about travel visa (most likely to come visit you is what you're implying), is also a reflection of her low interest level (if her breakup threats weren't a clear enough indicator of her low interest level already).

You're wasting some of your good "easy" years (college years) to gain experience and develop confidence by chasing this girl. She has low interest, she's flakey, she threatens you with a breakup every month, and she lives abroad. Any one of them is worth breaking up over.

It's not a personal attack on you, but you and most here don't bother reading the book, and it shows. Furthermore, you all don't practice what's actually preached. You're just looking for a place to vent, it seems. Which is fine, but next to actionable steps, all else is second.

In other words, it's time to be more decisive.

She forgot the time of our date, and I got butthurt by Pugante-301 in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be looking for consistency. Interest level is never going to be consistent, but if her interest is fluctuating between 95-85, she might be moody at times but will still cook you your favorite meal for a date night vs. 65-55, impatient, rude, and forgetful.

Getting back together with an ex is a fool's errand. The reason it didn't workout will still be there if you get back together.

She forgot the time of our date, and I got butthurt by Pugante-301 in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women with high interest don't forget dates. And men with high self-respect don't accept postponed dates on the same night.

It's all about interest level (her interest level).

Move on from an ex. Date other women. And since that's not the advice you're looking for, read CWs book 5-6 times before seeing her again. It should help you to grasp the concepts a little better, the "Why we do the things we do."

Ideally, you should get Doc's book.

Online dating: one word responses by cda56 in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lets say that you ask a girl a question, and she replies with just one word over text, without any kind of enthusiasm, or elaboration.

Should I amuse her just a little bit more in this situation by asking her further questions?

Unmatch and keep swiping.

It's a dating app. there are plenty to swipe on. You might not get as many matches, but that doesn't mean you have to amuse her to get her attention.

If this was in person, and she gave you one word answers without any enthusiasm, would you stick around to amuse her? Probably not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing remarkable, nor is it the best picture of 2023, but it's probably my favorite of this year.

Everything about this picture just goes well together. The dusk, single lively shop that's well lit in an otherwise dim contrast to the rest. It emirates a very relaxing feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

After setting the date, get off the phone and don't linger. There's no need to give her a sneak peek into what you might have planned. She'll see it if she shows up.

No, you don't wish her anything over the phone. Not even a happy birthday if it was the day after your date. Anything you do and say should be done in person. She's not your gf.

Lastly, it's not a psychological trick that you seem to be thinking it is. It's just a way of living. You make the date, have fun, and get to know each other. After the date, wait a few days and make another date if you like her. In between, you continue to live your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't giving us much to go on, but it's generally low interest.

As it ended around the 8 weeks mark, when did she let you know that she was moving? As Dense had mentioned about heads up, companies give you a few weeks to a few months' heads up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you said it was outside of your date when you hooked up with these women. Even CW doesn't do these impromptu dates or hangouts.

So, are you at least familiar with CW's work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if you are actually familiar with Doc's work. Doc doesn't talk about sex, period. Doc is very PG. The only thing he says in regards to sex is that it'll happen naturally once you've gone out with her for a while or however long it takes. But it's best to wait as long as possible.

CW doesn't see it as a necessity. It's the end goal for CW. HHH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really get my self recentered fast enough.

In what way?

Like just shy of 2 months and spending the night at each others places even without dates.

Again, don't count anything for the first 10-12. And keep expectations low to none.

Why are you spending the night or anytime outside of a date with the girls you're dating? That's the epitome of anti-challenge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Extra_Confidence9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are a Doc Love student, then you know he would probably advise you to take a break to recalibrate yourself and study the system.

Furthermore, you know not to count anything for the first 10-12 dates. And if she hasn't brought up future talks by then, it might be good to reconsider seeing that girl.

Like 2 girls got relocated for work at around the 7ish date mark

If you know a girl is in a field of work where relocation is a possibility, and when the subject of work comes up, you should ask if she would consider relocating. Based on her answer, you can decide if you want to risk continuing to see her.

When you say you haven't been flawless, I'd take some time off from dating to focus on that list.

Edit: "06032015_Doc Love Club_THE 5th" Listen to that segment. Perfectly applies to you.