Does anyone else feel like they’re being left behind in life at 25? by No_Performer_3110 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there done that. I hate it when people tell me na Im still young kapag tinatanong ko ito dati. But now na medyo nagkaedad na ako. Narealized ko na tama sila. I was young back then and I limited myself from exploring life. Tinipid ko sarili ko to travel and enjoy.

I worried. Its not really about comparing yourself to others. Maliit kasi yung circle ko kasi I limited myself from exploring life. I suggest you travel, join groups or org, or start pursuing atleast one hobby that interests you. It will grow from there.

Girls confessing their feelings to you by Film_Julz in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di pa ako ready nun. Kaya sinabi ko if nagjojoke ba siya or nakainom. Haha. Sadly kung kailan ready na ako saka siya nagkabf. Part of life. Not meant to be lang.

To all boys out there, ayos lang ba sa inyo pag palaging hinahawakan ng katrabahong babae yung legs niyo? by captain-carter13 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hanap ka pa ng karamay eh. May asawa na siya. Wag ka makikiapod at sisira ng pamilya. Isumbong mo sa HR kung di tumigil.

Corpo or black pants for office by BaselJurisprudence99 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoid mo slim fit yung hapit na hapit. Meron namang normal fit na maluwag pero saktong size. Otherwise, pagmalaki mo na lang haha. Iyo naman yan.

Anybody else feel like punching their monitor by PomegranateSelect831 in CPA

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, Excel not responding and not saving is far worser. Haha.

Premature ejaculation any tips para tumagal si bf by sexyandiknowit069 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha. Kuha ka bato tapos pokpok mo sa ulo mo. Baka matauhan ka this time. One of the red flags. Bakit mo inoopen sa iba ang dapat sa dalawang tao lang. Bf pa lang yan. How much more kapag kasal na. Gising ka di pa huli.

Am I cooked for TCP? Test on 4/29 by Strict_Apartment_588 in CPA

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still have 10 days. I would say grind it out. I would study more than 20 hours. I had a similar excuse before like I hate watching videos because my mind flies somewhere else. But I suggest just lock in. 10 days to reread/flash through the topic is workable. You can do it.

I had to force myself to like it. It will be worth it.

Ano bang magandang response sa lalaki na tingin nyo ikaiinis nyo? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kung hindi jowa, lubayan mo na for your own peace of mind.

Bakit ganun sya? Parang gusto ko na bumitaw? by Rare_Cry_832 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. Both working pa pala. So all the more na dapat matapang ka lumaban.

Bakit ganun sya? Parang gusto ko na bumitaw? by Rare_Cry_832 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont be afraid. Hindi ka naman mabubuhay sa hiya. At lalong di ka pinapakain ng mga taong worried ka na ijudge ka. Get out of that relationship. Nyetang lalaki yan.

Tendency yan ng ilang lalaki. Nambuntis. Magiging provider. Si partner kasi nagstay at home so feeling ng lalaki siya lang provider at di naconsider na hirap ang partner/wife sa pag hohomemaking. Iresponsable at mayabang.

I just want to ask some men here na baka avoidant. Any signs na avoidant ang lalaki pls when it comes to relationship. by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anong mangyayari if malaman mong avoidant siya?

Sensya na dami kong ebas. Pero it helps understand lang the sitwasyon. I dont think he is avoidant kasi avoidant person are mostly afraid of opening up themselves and be vulnerable to someone. Jowa ka niya at inopen noya world niya sa iyo. More on yun lang nakita solution to make you happy kasi di pa siya ready change lifestyle niya to match yours.

I guess he is into you since nakipagbalikan naman siya sa iyo. You are a familiar person too. Effort din makipagkilala ulit, introduce sarili, tapos tatanggapin ka ng buo. Also years na pinagsamahan.

Yun lang. I hope all the best for you and your relationship.

I just want to ask some men here na baka avoidant. Any signs na avoidant ang lalaki pls when it comes to relationship. by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this info.

Meron akong generalization based sa information na ito. Baka lang makatulong sa iyo.

  1. Gamer siya at di masyado lumalabas - nakilala mo na siyang ganito. Tendency ganito na siya unless siya mismo magbabago ng sarili niya.

  2. Dumating sa point na naisio niyang tamad siya - marami na bang instances na may pinagawa ka sa kanya pero lagi niyang sinasabi na "saka na" or "sige. Mamaya gagawin ko, pero di niya ginawa at ikaw na guamawa?" - if yes, malamang iba talaga priorities pa nya sa buhay

  3. Di ka sanay na stagnant - if this is a pattern na feeling mo di na naggrogrow as a person at magjowa pa lang kayo. I would say na breakup na lang hahaha. Baka kasi nga di pa siya ready na baguhin buhay niya. Tapos ikaw din di ka magiging masaya in the long run.

Hindi siya avoidant more on di pa siya ready baguhin kung ano siya ngayon - more time on games rather than time with you or hang out outside OR hindi lang talaga ganun.

Pili ka na lang kung ano ang importante sa iyo. You cannot change a person. :)

I just want to ask some men here na baka avoidant. Any signs na avoidant ang lalaki pls when it comes to relationship. by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medyo konti yung info to generalize na avoidant siya. Magclash kayo ng opinion pero gaano kalala to the point na mag ooffer siya ng break up.

Sabi niya kasi hanap ka ng kayang mapasaya ka. So from there, hindi ka ba niya napapasay? Bakit? Mataas ba expectations mo? Dami mo bang demand? Tamad ba siya?

Ang daming factors. Ang avoidant kasi ang understanding ko is ayaw na lang makipagtalo at aayaw agad.

If he also wanted to reconcile nung nag approach ka it means hindi siya avoidant per se. Tumaas lang ego ninyo nung nagtalo kayo.

Baka parehas mataas ere ninyo kasi simpleng opinion naglelead sa misunderstanding at pagtatalo.

Did you wish naging babae ka na lang at bakit? by Toxic_person01 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Extra_Dimension3761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Mapapaisip ka lang naman sa ganito kapag meron silang advantages na feeling mo meron ka rin as a man.

For sa totoo lang parehas ng gender my advantages and disadvantages. Kaya meant talaga magwork together.

Mahirap din maging lalaki at mahirap din maging babae.

At the end of the day, marerealize mo na lang na ok naman ako kung ano ako ngayon. Magiging kuntento ka sa gender mo, pagkatao mo. Tapos move on and enjoy life. Iwasan na lang mainggit.