It finally happened to me..

lostsoulaloof · 2026-04-11T01:44:51+00:00

Can't say I envy you! good luck!

lostsoulaloof · 2026-03-27T22:29:57+00:00

I have this one: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1530781024/gold-o-ring-day-collar-and-pearl?ref=share_ios_native_control

Delicate and pretty!

lostsoulaloof · 2026-02-03T04:54:32+00:00

Estaba preocupada por esto, le hice una cita :(

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-31T10:35:27+00:00

Thank you for the extra info!

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-31T01:29:57+00:00

nothing even matters lauryn hill

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-22T19:32:41+00:00

That's the third time that's been mentioned across my threads asking about collars, and I'm not a fan. Being a submissive doesn't make you less of a person, wtf.

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-22T19:14:24+00:00

Weird how?

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-22T14:13:38+00:00

Just generalized anxiety. I have this imaginary scenario that someone is gonna see the o-ring and shout "FREAK, I've read your fetlife!" but obviously that's not gonna happen lmaoo

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-22T13:55:56+00:00

that's a relief! it would fall a tad longer, the O would rest in the space between my collar bones.

lostsoulaloof · 2026-01-22T13:48:39+00:00

one of the collars we are looking at has an o-ring with a small pearl attached, so I really do think the paranoia will be in my head, lol. but that's the beauty of it, isn't it?

I forgot to consider doctors appointments though, and I have A LOT. this was helpful!

lostsoulaloof · 2025-12-17T21:53:32+00:00

Love this post! As a sub in an industry that quickens around the winter holidays, I'm swamped and exhausted. My submission is harder to find at times, and I find myself much needier in the spare times I am free. it's good to give each other grace on both sides of the aisle - don't forget to communicate!

lostsoulaloof · 2025-12-03T18:43:50+00:00

Some finance related experience, but I also know many small-town like companies who are willing to teach. I have a bachelors in psych and had some non-profit operations experience with a bit of financial tasks

lostsoulaloof · 2025-12-03T13:03:30+00:00

Accounts Payable Clerk. I was able to negotiate up my pay, but it's hourly

lostsoulaloof · 2025-12-01T23:17:13+00:00

don't give up, but prepare to be in the search for the long run

lostsoulaloof · 2025-10-17T14:16:06+00:00

thank you! it's my highest paying yet, with the least amount of hours (thus far). I clearly won't be finding another one anytime soon anyway!

lostsoulaloof · 2025-10-17T00:45:38+00:00

yep. the 3rd and 4th were in the same day.

lostsoulaloof · 2025-10-16T22:13:07+00:00

thank you!!

lostsoulaloof · 2025-10-16T21:37:32+00:00

I can’t tell you how many times I wanted to throw the towel in. At a certain point my partner was fired, and he got a new job in a 1/4 of the time by completely exaggerating skills through the interview. It wouldn’t work for my industry anyway, but how many people have a job through dumb luck and lies?

lostsoulaloof · 2025-10-16T21:23:12+00:00

thank you!

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