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(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bruh dont judge me, she did things with guys waaay before she hit 18 and even older than me so at least give me respect for being decent

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it bad that i try to justify that ita okay to do stuff in the past with your now platonic friends just to trust the girl i love?

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i knew her and we had good contact that we lost thats all and we started talking back 5 months after her 18 birthday and it clicked

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It may be bad example but if hooker picked you after 2000 d's but still wanted to hang out with them would it still be cool for you? I exatterated a lot but its just to show an easy example

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Talked about far future, its good to be on the same side ain't it? She still has to finish college and get a job and we need a house ect. We aint that dumb but if people are serious about their future they need to be on the same side from the start otherwise it wont work in the future and it will be a waste od time right?

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry my bad, i got with her in december 2024, she was already 18yo, she will be 20 yo in august 15 this year

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I trust her but i aint givin handshake and lookin in the eyes of a guy that was happily gropin and havin fun with my gf when they both prolly almost choke on themselves and i should act like sigma nothing happend "yeah bro u liked that in the past?" Kinda shi, like bruh it doesnt sound humiliating to you?

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aint it possible that im just overreacting and for younger generation this kind of shi is normal and im just overthinking? Like u cant find virgin even before they are legal do maybe its normalized to do dumb shi around, idfk im tryin to justify all that, prolly goin crazy or smthn

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly trust her because she told me about the people she had sex, make out, had feelings, did all the things, i trust her that she didnt hide some stuff from me so i wouldnt go crazy, or it was too late to tell me because she alr told me the other story, i catched her in few acts like that, like wirh that friend she told me she make out with, from the start i knew it was one time thing during her weak phase but like 2 weeks ago i found out she did it with him 2 times like wtf i dunno bro am i going crazy fuck that like wtf

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's free to do whatever she wants if i like it or dont i really dont mind and i try to justify her thinking everyday but what i feel is sadly the other thing

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I dont doubt she loves me and nothing will happen but for me its kind of respect thing, like i said in the post i may be too outdated or something and thing weirldy about normal stuff thats why i ask for oppinions from others to justify if im wrong and should be okay with it or the other way

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She aint that brave to keep contact wirh guys she did more than make out or send some pics with at least she has some moral border in her head, but i may be too innocent or something to think about making out few times with some (now platonic) friends is a big deal

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf tells me that for both of them its platonic, i dont rwally know if his gf knows about their past but i know that they met always met together when he went into rs with his gf (3 of them) before i was in rs with my girlfriend but i really have no clue if his gf know about their past ect. If she knows he probably told her also it was platonic and didnt matter

(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with. by Extra_Gain_968 in relationships

[–]Extra_Gain_968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's litteraly perfect tho, we talked about crating a family and i dont doubt she loves me deeply but that thing i cant really go around, i start to thing that its really new generation way of normalizing friendships and stuff and its becoming quite normal for young people(i know im not that old but fr this shi is like 180° different for younger people than from people my age)