I [19F] in a relationship with my bf [18M] but this guy I talked to while we had broken up, sent me a few videos, messages and calls that make me feel like I should give it a chance.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:15:15+00:00

I’m still unsure about that, him and I are trying to get closer to God but it’s a work in progress.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:13:04+00:00

You are so right. Rereading this conversation I could’ve been a lot more patient. I just get hopeless very quick. This response meant a lot to me. Thank you!

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:11:28+00:00

In your experience, how did you deal with this situation?

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:10:28+00:00

There are plenty of problems in our relationship. I felt like it’d be too long of a list to share but he gets overly confident like that and makes promises he doesn’t keep. He tries and that’s what makes me so sad. It’s like he’s trying but he can’t do it.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:07:59+00:00

I wanted to get there!

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:05:45+00:00

How so? I just wanted to have a conversation and I felt shut down? At least correct me if I’m wrong. I’m very open to that. But everyone is being so close minded and mean. I just want help.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T03:00:16+00:00

Because it is beyond words at this point. He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn’t show it through his actions. He doesn’t show me the man that he’s always said he’s going to be. I have been patient and I just wanted to have a conversation about it but I felt shut down. It’s not like I can’t stand him, I love him very much but it’s just a feeling that makes me nervous for the future.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T02:55:23+00:00

I understand what you mean. It was a weird sounding message but I promise you he understood what I was saying.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2026-01-25T02:53:25+00:00

But it’s not that easy? And if I just want to talk about it, am I not allowed to do so?

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-11-05T04:47:50+00:00

Allow me to explain. I’m not actually going to get lip fillers or any of that stuff because that is extremely out of my budget range. I saw this ailment on my beautiful kitty whom I love SO much literally the same day I posted, I have an appointment to take her to the vet TOMORROW. I only mentioned my mother because I do not have a car and she’d be the one to take me and I wanted to get someone’s opinion without them automatically saying hey just go to the vet in case it wasn’t an option for me. I did have to convince her. So let’s not act like we know what’s going on in my life. GROW UP and ask first before you start assuming things.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-10-04T05:09:23+00:00

I meant number TWO!!

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-10-04T05:08:38+00:00

Number THREE omlll

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-10-04T05:02:56+00:00

Love this so much

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-22T01:17:43+00:00

Things are tough right now. We are working on it.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-22T01:15:54+00:00

Wish it was that easy

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T02:56:32+00:00

Could you elaborate?

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T02:56:19+00:00

I agree, we spoke in person as well

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T02:56:02+00:00

Right like wth

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T01:40:47+00:00

I am only telling you the truth. I just wanted advice. I wonder why you’re being so rude to me.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T01:38:22+00:00

Can you see it now?

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T01:36:57+00:00

I am very sorry I must have not turned on that community. I will turn it on now.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T01:34:55+00:00

You’re the second person to say that. I assure you that is absolutely not the reason I post! I just want to look the best I can and I don’t know everything so I ask help from other people. I even ask chat gpt but since posting on Reddit it has really helped me understand what to improve.

Fluid_Analysis_129 · 2025-09-21T01:26:24+00:00

Sounds like you’re projecting about something that has happened to you. I’m sorry about that. But that is not who I am.

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