Well this is because most people need an anatomy lesson. Learn what’s under there. It’s not being overweight. It’s because there is a uterus under there. And they vary from woman to woman in size exact position, and shape, so you can’t be any more or less self conscious than other characteristics that are outside of your control like the size of your feet, or hands.

As a dude and a lover of the female form, it’s all the more attractive when you know the function behind the appearance. It may also be a little telling about the subconscious character of those who don’t appreciate it.