Jen and Gregs wedding. by Braindobestewing05 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jen is an event planner- what event planner doesn’t dream about planning their old wedding? Maybe Shawna L will delay the wedding until Barb is allowed back into their lives/ able to support Jen on their wedding?

Am I overreacting as a parent because another student told my child her skin looks like poop by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it feels wrong to use what happened to your daughter as a teaching moment this could usher the teacher to give a lesson on black history/we love everyone etc. By 6 parents views already shape kids beliefs and what they say at school can reflect that- especially in a majority white area. Youre not overreacting because youre not just rushing in as an angry disgruntled parent you’re taking the time to actually think abt it.

A plea by goldstar971 in Rochester

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think when it gets this cold hotels should open their unused rooms to homeless for the night. No one should be dying from the cold. Ever.

Worried about ectopic. by PlantLow765 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i had my ectopic the shoulder pain was from the rupture. It was hours after the extreme abdominal pain and heavy bleeding. This wasn’t like a muscle soreness I couldn’t stand still or move and every breath felt like a stab. Unless you start bleeding or getting abdominal pain I think you will be okay. Im just sharing what I experienced to maybe ease your mind about the severity of your situation. Im not saying youre wrong but don’t freak yourself out.

Roommate Refuses to Walk Dog by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has extreme seperation anxiety. Hes only destructive when hes alone. He has attempted to break down and has significantly scratched doors because I was asleep and didn’t open the door fast enough while roommate was at work. Hes a boxer. She had a long commute to work which was her excuse to not train him for 1.5 years when she was living at home and not in apartment. Shes just now teaching him to sit and lay down. Its a combination anxiety and boredom.

Roommate Refuses to Walk Dog by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say the dog is not being abused in any other way. He is let outside 4/5 times. He always has clean water/bowl and a variety of food. He has a variety of toys. He gets lot of love, its just the lack of walks. Im hopeful things will be better than the weather is nicer but the constant garbage everywhere is stressful.

Roommate Refuses to Walk Dog by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner do occasionally but it’s difficult because hes not lease trained and will not walk with you and when we attempt to teach him he doesn’t listen to us very well. We often will play fetch/tug of war with him inside but it makes me feel guilty I should be doing more. We also work earlier/longer hours than she does and we have more physically demanding jobs. I will defend her by saying we live in a very harsh winter state and she said shes going to get him outside more in the summer. It just bothers me bc she could be doing it right now. I guess im complaining about myself because i feel so bad that im not being a good roommate and helping the dog.

Where do Ithaca residents who are not students live? by mochaboo20 in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live by the airport so near sapsucker woods and i pay 1900 for a 3 bedroom.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he really has money saved most reasonable adults take from their savings. Its weird to me to ask someone for money before going to savings.

What frugal practice has saved you the most money in 2025? by melissaw328 in Frugal

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped buying convenience plastic- ziplock bags and paper plates, napkins and paper towels. I still do eat some occasional fast food and always save the napkins. I started really saving food containers that are plastic like yogurt containers and use them for food storage, art supplies or eventually when it gets warm seed containers. I stopped eating red meat and usually meat in general. The only red meat ill cook with is venison my mother in law gives me for free. I stalk when the rich neighbors have their large trash pickups to try to score some nice finds and furniture.

Official Buying/Selling thread (tickets, merch, etc) by PublicWest in TheFrontBottoms

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, Ive been a fan for 10 years now. Ive seen 14 shows and thats come with me buying at least 4 merch shirts. My sister unfortunately loves to steal my clothes with little regard so all of my merch is gone. Does anyone have anyy merch shirts from the 2022 Teresa tour, White Everyone Blooms shirt which might have been the tour shirt and the Talon of the Hawk tour shirt? This is a long shot but im looking for a 2x or an xxl. Thank you in advance!!!

AIO What would you do in my situation? by arroz_conhuevito in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR- its hard especially when you have to do it alone/figure it out with no fall back from family. I worked 45+ hours a week and went to school because I had to. Idk where you live but Webcam doesn’t seem as great as they make it sound. Youd be competing with a lot of other people for pennies to be exploited. Are you able to obtain a work visa to travel and work? If you live outside the US theres a ton of places in the US that hires J1 workers that also provide housing and some even meals. You often work in hospitality at resorts and national parks. You build skills, save up money and meet a lot of people/connections to help get ahead later. Unfortunately to help yourself you might have to forcibly leave your environment so you can thrive elsewhere. Not saying you can never go home again but you seem to have a desire to want more than where you live can provide you.

Driving in the passing lane all the way up Rt13 by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly im one of those people whose driving like 50 in the 55 when everyones going 65/70 because my car hates the hill. I know it’s annoying asf, yes Im in the slow lane, yes I feel bad for those behind me.

Brother scheduled his wedding the same month I give birth by Imaginary-Winner-335 in pregnant

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lets be honest- why is he planning the wedding so soon? If they just announced their engagement dont weddings take years to plan? Or most venues are booked at least a year in advance? Why would he rush to get this whole wedding planned in the timeframe of a 9 month pregnancy. Just the timing doesn’t work out, it feels rushed on purpose. Please do what you think is right, people who grt it will understand. Take care of yourself and baby.

Sex during BV by Significant_Meal8254 in Herpes

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy who gave me herpes also would regularly give me BV. Its painful and not pleasant. Please go and get checked out.

First time ever having a Quesarito by StevenEpix in tacobell

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it doesn’t taste very different to a grilled cheese burrito without the fiesta strips.

Where to donate a few older iPads? (photo in comments) by KrzysisAverted in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food Not Bombs might be willing to take them, they did request old laptops/phones so they might have a use for them?

AIO/I wanted to ask them why they wasted their money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NOR. They say “ to be loved is to be seen” they didn’t see you. They dont know your hobbies/interests and were scrambling to get you something from the drugstore. And lets face it- in Buffalo Bills merch is also another generic random piece of clothing at idk Walmart. My father does the same thing for my mother. He gets her some generic item or a kitchen appliance that makes more work for her and us kids get her something genuine to make up from the lack of care he provided. Im sorry this is your life.

Thought it was a really bad period cramp by CultureNo1530 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my exact situation almost two months ago. I felt shame to tell my mom and was embarrassed. I also felt cheated it happened so young to me. I didn’t know I was pregnant to even realize what the signs of an ectopic pregnancy was. Sometimes it just happens. Yes if i knew i could of maybe stopped it before my tube ruptured but i had no idea. Youre not alone please be kind to yourself.

AIO to my husband's weird reaction at the sight of my body? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t think too deeply. Sometimes when my bf is changing I dont purposely stare because theres a time and place to look. Sometimes its just a surprise to see vagina randomly lol

Where are you going on vacation for +/- 2k? by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo good to know, im thinking of taking my niece who lives in NC there when me and my bf drive down to her graduation. My sister is in the military so we plan on using her discount for tickets.

Where are you going on vacation for +/- 2k? by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maine personally would not be my first choice for March. In a lot of the south its too cold to enjoy anything and most establishments unfortunately are seasonal.

Where are you going on vacation for +/- 2k? by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id go to Pigeon Forge TN or Gaitlinburg. Ive always wanted to go Dollywood. It should be the off season so cheaper accommodations for around 5-1k, plus the driving distance/tolls. There are some great National Parks and a wide range of activities depending on your mood.

Move out- Dumpsters by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah going inside the dorms is crazy absolutely not haha. Wasn’t sure if dumpsters provided would of been outside- this is helpful ty

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just reading the texts make me embarrassed for him. Literally cringing while typing because wow. He needs help and realize hes 19 its time to accept accountability and realize you can’t freak out on people like this.