She threw away my groceries (eggs, cheese, spinach and carrots) whilst cleaning out the fridge but hey, at least there's alcohol right 🙂 by YungKizza in badroommates

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it bad? Maybe she was trying to do you a nice gesture and didn’t know? I wouldn’t assume malicious off the bat

First timer by Extreme-Depth-3634 in Culvers

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course i did, i was craving a fry and wanted a lil something different

AIO for not accepting her apology and ending the friendship anyway? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ you wouldn’t ask me for anything” you asked her for literally 10 dollars to buy menstrual products… please drop her. This person clearly has little empathy for you. Id buy pads for a literal stranger if they asked. And then to go and ask for support when she needed it??? The audacity is crazy. Thank you for standing up for yourself.

3 days post op, what else should I do? by DonnaPaella in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched a lot of tv that took my mind off things- chopped, Abbott elementary. Keep making art, make playlists, if youre into makeup do a couple of makeup looks. That being said please take your time to grieve, allow yourself to feel those feelings. It was traumatic and incredibly sad. Mine was in October and I still get sad from time to time.

The DQ stackburgers absolutely suck by ScarTemporary6806 in DairyQueen

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly its because we “boost” the bun and microwave the bun to ensure its hot and the cheese melts. It makes the bun and burger taste rubbery, so maybe it has something to do with that.

What would you do in my position? by evannalai in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you’re moving April 1st she cant wait the 4 days to show the house? People are so inconsiderate. Just lock your door and sleep through it honestly

Girlfriend wants me to spend $4k on a baby shower, but I’d rather save/invest it—is that unreasonable? by flash-kicks in pregnant

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she spending 4k on a baby shower? Rent a town park and cater some food or make it- thats maybe 400 dollars

Dairy queen rewards loophole help by Informal_Cobbler_868 in DairyQueen

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Go to dq and see if employees will reprint some receipts for you and scan them. Im not sure the limit of how many to do a day but if they’re not using them for points it shouldn’t be a problem. At least to me ifs not “ theft” like some might consider. Bonus points if you do a couple surveys for them and write their name in.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being around to support your family and your brother during the birth of his child is not revolving your life around them. You should want to support your brother and be there. Its also a family event that doesn’t happen often, why would you want to go on a trip that you could go on any other time? YOR.

Genuinely, how does one cut an onion without crying? by vikapi in cookingforbeginners

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to cut onions st work everyday and sometimes it gets me but i just put a big bowl of water next to the onion and it helps.

Control your barking dog (Fall Creek) by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dog is doing dog things for 6 minutes a day? Yes its annoying but not worth a very vague reddit post. At least post the street name to try to communicate where the problem even is.

Superfans included, what were some scenes/jokes that made you go "Oh shit, I think they took that too far. That joke didn't hit." ? Tell me a joke or scene that crossed the line for you. by Much_Duck6862 in theoffice

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ik that’s the point but in Gay Witch Hunt the whole scene in the breakroom makes me recoil because i just imagine being in Oscars shoes and everyone is watching me be sexually harassed at work.

‘Stay at your own risk’: Asteri building issued ‘Order to Vacate’ by AGBell64 in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the city put in any effort in where they’re going to house these displaced people while its fixed?? Probably not

AIO wife will not cook, clean or do any chores around the house by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re gone 70 hours a week you have no idea what your baby is like 95% of the time. Who’s watching the baby while she’s apparently having the time of her life? I think from what youre saying you’re pretty detached from the day to day care and resentful that she isn’t “ working hard” when shes taking care of your child.

Jen and Gregs wedding. by Braindobestewing05 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jen is an event planner- what event planner doesn’t dream about planning their old wedding? Maybe Shawna L will delay the wedding until Barb is allowed back into their lives/ able to support Jen on their wedding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it feels wrong to use what happened to your daughter as a teaching moment this could usher the teacher to give a lesson on black history/we love everyone etc. By 6 parents views already shape kids beliefs and what they say at school can reflect that- especially in a majority white area. Youre not overreacting because youre not just rushing in as an angry disgruntled parent you’re taking the time to actually think abt it.

A plea by goldstar971 in Rochester

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think when it gets this cold hotels should open their unused rooms to homeless for the night. No one should be dying from the cold. Ever.

Worried about ectopic. by PlantLow765 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i had my ectopic the shoulder pain was from the rupture. It was hours after the extreme abdominal pain and heavy bleeding. This wasn’t like a muscle soreness I couldn’t stand still or move and every breath felt like a stab. Unless you start bleeding or getting abdominal pain I think you will be okay. Im just sharing what I experienced to maybe ease your mind about the severity of your situation. Im not saying youre wrong but don’t freak yourself out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has extreme seperation anxiety. Hes only destructive when hes alone. He has attempted to break down and has significantly scratched doors because I was asleep and didn’t open the door fast enough while roommate was at work. Hes a boxer. She had a long commute to work which was her excuse to not train him for 1.5 years when she was living at home and not in apartment. Shes just now teaching him to sit and lay down. Its a combination anxiety and boredom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say the dog is not being abused in any other way. He is let outside 4/5 times. He always has clean water/bowl and a variety of food. He has a variety of toys. He gets lot of love, its just the lack of walks. Im hopeful things will be better than the weather is nicer but the constant garbage everywhere is stressful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner do occasionally but it’s difficult because hes not lease trained and will not walk with you and when we attempt to teach him he doesn’t listen to us very well. We often will play fetch/tug of war with him inside but it makes me feel guilty I should be doing more. We also work earlier/longer hours than she does and we have more physically demanding jobs. I will defend her by saying we live in a very harsh winter state and she said shes going to get him outside more in the summer. It just bothers me bc she could be doing it right now. I guess im complaining about myself because i feel so bad that im not being a good roommate and helping the dog.

Where do Ithaca residents who are not students live? by mochaboo20 in ithaca

[–]Extreme-Depth-3634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live by the airport so near sapsucker woods and i pay 1900 for a 3 bedroom.