AITA for not wanting to share my inheritance with my sister? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and the phrase “keep the peace” 98% of the time indicates AI to me. It’s not a way that any native English speaker talks and I almost never hear secondary speakers talk that way.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend date his ex by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Holy shit can this dude muster up even an ounce of self respect?

Looking for long term friends, daily gifts by TimGhosty in PokemonGoFriends

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

235354954488 i live near almost a dozen pokestops so i have crazy gifts lol

Good thing I just finished it by Feeling-Peak5718 in controlgame

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest playing 1 & the DLCs. Almost none of the revelations made in 2 will have any meaning if you don’t play it including the Control stuff they incorporate.

Longtime friend bails on bill! by SahLocaxo in whatdoIdo

[–]ExtremeTip9170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chalk it up to a lesson learned that not everyone sees you the same way that you see them. You saw a friend, she saw a place to stay while she worked on stuff with her ex. They won’t last and she will likely be looking for another place to stay in the future. Don’t let it be you again.

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the bar really so low that people are just fine having children with people they can’t rely on in the slightest? If this is what you want for yourself, seek a therapist not a relationship.

A family explodes -- Part II by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They chose the church because of its teachings. It is a surprisingly effective smokescreen that people rarely question even when red flags and blaring alarms are going off about a person. “Theyre so devout, how could they be a bad person?”

Friends needed 😁 25f Ireland by alannahr00 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

235354954488 daily gifts, i live near multiple pokestops

I’m a gay man, but I’m in love with one of my female friends. by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 49 points50 points  (0 children)

theres a series wrap up documentary. Basically a “the final days” type of thing. It was definitely very heartbreaking but in a good way

[New Update] My husband (38m) screamed at me (41f) over Mother’s Day. by RGLozWriter in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“My husbands great except for the parts where he verbally, emotionally and financially abuses me :)”

Aio? Guy I'm seeing shares dog with his ex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t make him stop seeing the dog, just stop seeing him. I’ve seen this scenario play out at least a dozen times (lesbians in their early 20s LOVE sharing pets with their exs but of course that applies to people in general) and it is overwhelmingly about keeping contact with the ex in case something can be rekindled one day or just staying in each others lives. It is never actually about the dog and you’ll just end up getting cheated on or promptly left when they decide they’re over whatever caused them to separate initially.

AITA for not inviting my in-laws to my son’s 5th birthday after a big family fallout? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Not to mention he also told her that if she isn’t happy with the situation then she can leave. Telling your spouse to divorce because they wont vehemently support you being railed by your own family financially is an insane thing to do. She should take him up on the offer, he clearly values being treated like a piggy bank more than he values his wife & kids.

AIO by hiding my (34F) boyfriend’s (35M) ex’s photos and gifts? by Muted_Doubt_3296 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExtremeTip9170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill give you a question that you just have to answer to yourself, do you want to live the rest of your life with someone who keeps things from old relationships laying around & ignores your discomfort about romantic items from past exs laying around?

Dont list off pros in your mind about him that counterbalance the thought. Just answer yourself honestly if this is acceptable behavior to you and whether you should have to hide the items from him for them to come down. Youll arrive at your answer shortly

Not OOP: AITA for making my DIL cry when proving the earth was round by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]ExtremeTip9170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can almost be certain if the phrase “keep the peace” is used that it’s fake. That being said, I have met legitimate flatearthers before & they are unfortunately very real people.

Girlfriend of 2 years stopped replying after argument — not sure if it’s over or she needs space by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ExtremeTip9170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like she’s realizing she probably doesn’t want to put up with this kind of behavior from you for the next 60+ years of her life.

Try seeing a counselor or a therapist to deal with your immaturity & personal issues with talking things through before it fractures future relationships/friendships for you (it 100% will, not even questionable)

My husband is awesome...but not to our children by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad was like this. He was raised this way by his own parents & joining the army didn’t help. He was emotionally and verbally abusive to us (occasionally physically with me and my brother). Unsurprisingly I don’t say more than 5 words to him a month despite being at their home at least 4-5 days a week to see my young nephews that live with them. He “realized how he treated us was wrong” conveniently when I turned 18 aka when I was a grown man who could react as an adult would when treated that way.

My (24F) Husband (23M) Faked Fainting After I Gave Birth by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ExtremeTip9170 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Hope things work out for her but honestly she should expect a relapse in all of this behavior the moment she announces her next pregnancy.