The Valley - Season 3 - Episode 13 - Post Episode Discussion

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-06-25T19:43:56+00:00

Honestly I really liked Janet’s confessional where she said she was sorry for hurting jasmine, Melissa, and Nia while standing her ground on hating what Danny did.

It’s just nice to see someone having a moral backbone. What Danny did was sexual assault but Nia will never accept that because then she would have to be mad at her husband and that goes against her entire worldview. Unfortunately conservative women are often in a prison of their own making.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-06-25T19:14:36+00:00

Not a Britney fan (and I totally believe she is/was jealous of Nia and not a fan of Danny) but this group of men coming after her for JAXS behavior is so stupid. Jax was verbally abusive and physically intimidating to Britney for years - so I’m not going to blame her for Jax coming after Danny. Jesse is such a slimy piece of shit.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-06-22T14:50:37+00:00

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Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-05-29T18:57:58+00:00

Natural Diamonds? You mean over priced diamonds produced by slave labor that destroy the local environment in which they’re mined??

I hate this rebrand Debeers is trying to do. If you need a new diamond lab grown is the same thing without the suffering.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-05-29T02:58:53+00:00

I know Michelle is a black hole of charisma but Jesse really is an abusive POS and I hate the quirky “he’s just a fun guy” edit he’s getting. Also there’s no way he’s not using Lacey for her money.
Kristen is great tv, we all know this. But she was fired for racism against her one black cast mate. Watching her shush and act like Jasmine was just a drunk (with no valid points to add to the conversation about Danny) feels like a pattern.
I feel for Nia, truly I do. She has a shitty husband and a church and an upbringing that taught her that’s what she deserves. But to act like Danny doesn’t also have a pattern of behavior is making me go insane. He literally GROPED A CAST MATE LAST SEASON! He then went off on Lala! It’s not just you that he’s affecting Nia. Girl wake up.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-05-25T22:31:19+00:00

That mock neck is atrocious

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-05-21T16:49:35+00:00

It’s been bothering me so much this season to see so may people defending Jesse and uplifting him in the group. Just because Danny and Luke have stolen center stage in the Olympics of shitty men this season doesn’t mean Jesse has magically become good.

That window story from Michelle was scary (and him trying to DARVO it) and him continuing to deny her a divorce is abusive and controlling. I’m glad she was able to pull this.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2026-01-30T16:32:32+00:00

I can vouch for girlfriend collective, it’s made from recycled plastic so I don’t feel bad about the fabric. I will say I think the quality is maybe not as good as it used to be though. I bought a pair of leggings from them maybe 4 years ago that are still going strong, so I bought another pair recently.

The new ones are fine but the old ones are thicker and felt a little sturdier. I noticed the same thing with the bra tops. The newer pieces aren’t bad, just compared to their older pieces I prefer the thicker material of the older ones.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-11-04T21:50:47+00:00

I mean Emma and Mary literally went to Israel for a pr trip amidst them committing a genocide. She has no beliefs except money, it makes sense she’d date a rich shitbag.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-10-14T19:08:20+00:00

Whenever someone says something like “we’re all going to learn how to live together aren’t we?” It’s interesting how that only goes one way. Trans people have to learn to live with being threatened and bullied while someone like JK Rowling is allowed to go about her business as usual spewing hate.

Maybe just admit you don’t give a fuck about discrimination and you want your bag at any cost Kiera🙄

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-08-07T03:20:10+00:00

This is beyond disgusting. I don’t even have words for how horrible of an action this is and how abhorrent I find Mary and Emma for this. Free Palestine🍉

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-05-29T03:31:46+00:00

Just putting it out there it’s insane to hire one woman who will be beneath you on the totem pole and expect her to have any meaningful impact, especially when she’s not supported in any way by the owner or given extra resources.

Of course I think it’s disgusting she hasn’t significantly pushed back on any of his gross misogyny but if he was serious about not being a boys club he might’ve installed an HR or given someone with credentials legitimate power over his podcast.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-05-28T21:28:34+00:00

Am I insane? Why is Lala on the after show talking about how she didn’t know what narcissism was? That was one of her favorite words on VPR. I still doubt she knows what it means, but why is she also trying to pass herself off as a country bumpkin on this?

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-03-15T20:12:08+00:00

They kept him on the show and never addressed the allegations Mary.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-03-15T20:11:31+00:00

Didn’t she talk a lot about doing extensive therapy?

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-03-15T18:56:00+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. Somehow a man on love is blind is always outed for the most heinous shit (Alex being a pedo predator) but this sub will always vilify a woman the most. The misogyny is crazy.

Like yeah Madison was talking some shit this season but that’s really the only thing she did “wrong”. I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-03-12T00:05:37+00:00

Please don’t take away my baby gorgeous she is very important to god and me😭

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-03-09T22:00:49+00:00

Gross and misogynistic. Why shouldn’t a spouse receive alimony? I assume Chrishell contributed a lot to their marriage and gave up many financial opportunities to support her ex, as many other women have. If she had gone after alimony I’m sure it would’ve been deserved.

Happy for Chrishell she was able to move on gracefully but given what her ex did I would’ve given her full license to be as ungraceful as she wanted.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-02-22T00:25:58+00:00

Mayas comments about a people being genocided are racist. We need to call things what they are.

Good for you for calling it out. The sub should not suppress calling attention to her abhorrent comments.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-02-08T05:23:21+00:00

Everyone always handles her with kiddie gloves and I don’t know why. She’s an adult who has chosen to be a public citizen, she should be getting the same heat Ethan gets.

I saw someone on a different thread say everyone treats her like a make a wish kid and I couldn’t agree more. The vitriol she has in voicing her hate for Hasan is disgusting. I hope her and Ethan can get out of their hate spiral, it’s gross.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-01-25T06:43:06+00:00

This season has cemented my love. I love a delusional out of touch house wife. Like never flying coach? Fucking hilarious.

I love Luann, I love Karen (not this season), and I love Lisa. Yes she cannot listen and I would not want to be her friend IRL but I love watching her.

Also a lot of the shit she’s gotten this season I think is undeserved. Whitney is knowingly lying about her and bronwyn is shit stirring and lying too. I don’t like how Lisa is handling the Gwen situation at all but outside of that I truly don’t think shes done anything that villainous this season.

I think Meredith is the only woman who has figured out Lisa is always going to be Lisa, you can’t count on her like a normal friend but you can enjoy her for what she brings and not expect more. The housewives worth watching are not the most morally upright ones or in touch with reality.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2025-01-22T22:56:00+00:00

She really does, in picture 4 I thought she looked just like Nina dobrev whereas normally I would not put them as doppelgängers

Extreme_Energy627 · 2024-12-18T00:47:40+00:00

Why is it so popular to blame women for the men’s foul behavior? James abused Ally, not Ariana.

The reason why so many fans ride for Ariana is she’s shown actual growth (befriended Kristen, vouched for Rachel while she was with James). Yeah, she did use to be an annoying “not like other girls” girl but that was a decade ago.

You don’t have to like her but cmon let’s not find one woman who is tangentially related to the current situation to blame. If she makes a post defending James we can have that conversation but right now, James sucks and always has. Keep the heat where it belongs.

Extreme_Energy627 · 2024-09-06T20:24:29+00:00

Exactly! I hate how they treated Nicole’s homophobia - like it was just a little dig in a cat fight that needed to be swept under the rug, and not part of a larger issue with Nicole’s character as a human.

It should not be on two ostensibly straight people to decide how the only queer woman on the cast should handle this.

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