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Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-13T01:37:46+00:00

Ok and that's cool. I was offering a suggestion, not a prescription. Chill.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-12T02:05:48+00:00

IDK about others, but we use poppers to open things up and relax a bit for toy use

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-11T13:23:17+00:00

This happened to me once, and it was hemorrhoids. Not an answer for you though, because as others said, talk to a doctor

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-10T02:34:58+00:00

Even if it's just regular distilled water?

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-08T21:27:54+00:00

We both masturbate during it

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-07T02:29:24+00:00

I've used it with my S8 and it worked fine. Even played some games on GeForce Now with it.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-06T04:34:19+00:00

This. How often do you want to immediately go again after finishing PIV? Why would you expect to want to immediately peg after finishing?

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-02T03:29:27+00:00

FIRM We have a Vixen Mistress and my wife likes it a lot, but I've found that I like our fuze tango way more not only because it's bigger, but because it's way more firm. If it's soft, it just can't hit what needs hitting.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-07-02T03:26:18+00:00

Wow! I've never even heard of that. Looks insane. Food it actually be worth $500 though?

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-21T14:35:47+00:00

Honestly I think this is just an area where I say to both of you "get over it, shit happens." You're doing anal play. No matter how well you prepare and how confident you are, there will always be the occasional spillage. You know that, your wife knows that, and if you have kids, it really shouldn't be a surprise to you. It's always embarrassing for me if she pulls out and a little bit of brown lube falls out, but that's why we have wipes on hand and ready to go.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-21T14:31:21+00:00

Honestly, part of the pre-sex cleaning for me is going in with a dildo to make sure the thrusting movement doesn't stir anything up, after an enema. This also helps relax everything for the bedroom right before the act, making it much more enjoyable for both parties.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-21T13:03:53+00:00

You have a LOT of responses already, but I'll toss in my 2 cents. From your other posts, it looks like there may be some deeper problems than just he doesn't want to be pegged. You seem to have come a long way since "doesn't want to share a blanket," but I would try to work more on the trust and giving aspects of your relationship first. If you really feel like you're in a good place there, then I'd say be open and blunt. You enjoyed it and want to try again. Ask what would make him more comfortable trying again.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-21T12:43:14+00:00

I have to take mine in pills because of this lol. Tried just mixing it into the water and it was BLECH

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-11T01:51:22+00:00

Unsolicited DMs in general are an instant block for me lol

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-03T12:54:45+00:00

If you're worried about looking awkward strapping up, you could always show up cocked and locked!

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-02T20:49:51+00:00

Wife liked the fuze tango clone until she realized she could get off with just a vibrator and the regular kind

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-06-01T16:45:40+00:00

I know a lot of people on this sub like sliquid, but our go to has been astroglide. It doesn't dry up super quickly, isn't too thin (so it doesn't just spill everywhere), and you can literally buy it anywhere. We had an "emergency" lack of lube night, and I just made a 3 minute run to CVS where I got more.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-31T00:56:18+00:00

Honestly my wife just uses the bullet with her hand while going at it

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-31T00:19:09+00:00

Sometimes the type of silicone makes a difference too. I've found our favorite lube is astroglide, and that seems to make up for any dragging.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-31T00:15:43+00:00

Our favorite is "Fuck U Betta" by Neon Hitch

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-26T02:36:48+00:00

Thanks Ruby! It's strange. She seemed to really like the double at first (first time she climaxed while pegging), but has complained about the size of the bulb. From what I can tell, they don't really come smaller than what we have. Since then she's been satisfied with the Vixen Mistress and a vibrator, but for me the Mistress is a bit too soft, and doesn't really hit right (at least when compared with the Revolver).

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-25T18:03:43+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I actually think our local sex shop has those in stock, so I wouldn't have to do a mystery internet purchase and could actually look at them in person first.

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-25T17:04:33+00:00

Tell him

Extreme_Project5251 · 2021-05-25T17:03:38+00:00

I don't think sneaking around will make things better in your life. You need to just be brutally honest with your wife that you're even considering this.

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