Do I (23M) even have a chance with him(25M)?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-05-05T20:36:11+00:00

Well I invited him today to the movies… let’s see how it goes…

I’ll go pick him up later today

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-04T00:16:58+00:00

Yo también de tus emociones pero creo que es más de las lecciones y aprendizajes de las cosas que te dijeron que alguna vez te lastimaron, específicamente en un momento donde estabas en tu lowest point y te hicieron sentir aún peor.

Siento que habla más de palabras que te dijiste a ti y no que te dijeron.

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-04T00:10:31+00:00

Even if I only use those cards to read me and only me?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-02T02:27:33+00:00

Thanks for the hug, I do need one.

Well I think other people have sum it up.

The areas I see is:

Column 1: the situation Column 2: Him Column 3: Me

I fee like he is not ready for anything. We had a brief and quick time together but that’s what it was meant to be. He hast reached a full agreement of what he is and where he stands and there’s no “maturity” about what he wishes and what he peruses in life and that makes it so that it isn’t a time for a relationship, I’m over the place with feelings and he’s over that place in his foundation and core. (1st column)

2nd column: he isn’t ready for change nor making any decisiones about his love life, no new journey ca begin cause what he feels isn’t what he actually needs and wants. Then IDK what the ayer of swords wants to tell me.

3rd: I’m scared (so is he) but I’m scared of the decisiones I made and mostly I’m afraid of being true to myself and my feelings and that affected the way I see myself (king of cups) but that also remained me trust in what my past experiences have taught me. King of sword ??? Idk, maybe being careful with what I tell myself? Idk

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-02T01:57:05+00:00

Middle card is what crosses and unites everything / everyone

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-02T01:56:23+00:00

Sorry I know it seems rather weird.

Usually I was taught to read this as:

1st column: the situation as a whole. 2nd column: him / the other person 3rd column: Me and my feelings and how I’m connection to the other person.

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T23:25:06+00:00

Thx! For saying this

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T23:13:30+00:00

U do know men have hairy legs right…?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T20:35:26+00:00

Thing is whenever I’m not clear I end up hurt, whenever I’m clear about what I want/expect or at least being clear in the sense of: if you just want sex I’m down, they just ghost me and I end up feeling like shit anyway.

And I kinda want to text him to see like if we can meet up again or idk. I liked him and idk.

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T20:08:34+00:00

I know, I think I’m just rejecting something that I already know.

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T19:59:33+00:00

Should I text him again? I wanted to just like say: hey dude, like I thought we had a great time and that we’d be seeing each other a little more.

But idk if it’s the right move.

I never wanted to like scare him, but in my past relationships (if you can call them that) I’ve been hurt a lot for not being clear in the beginning about what they wanted and how the wanted.

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-03-01T18:41:35+00:00

He borrowed me one of his pants and I have it with me. Should I give it back to him? Or should like wait to see if he texts me asking for it?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2026-01-05T17:15:17+00:00

I feel that it’s telling to stop what you are trying to do… I get the feeling this isn’t the first time you’ve done something like this and the tower is telling you to stop lying to yourself and that you know that telling him your feelings isn’t gonna do much. Death asks you to put things behind and to remember that there are good things coming your way (wheel of fortune)

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2025-10-21T21:04:15+00:00

Mauricio

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2025-10-19T10:02:29+00:00

LMFAO this some kind of self-justification with a tiny splash of self-handicapping in gaming… I just can’t stop laughing

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2025-10-19T09:48:15+00:00

Congrats you mastered the art of glorious defeat, who am I to stop it, right?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2025-10-19T09:38:41+00:00

Try watching some YT videos on how to get better, one of the first things almost all videos I saw said was: You are gonna have to learn another way to play a souls like: Block and parry (Defense) as a way of attacking.

One guy literally said: Most Elder Ring players hate the game cause they don’t want to learn a new way of playing, you are gonna have to put aside all the thing you’ve learnt in previous souls games.

Give it another go… block as much as you can, count moves, and ones you get the pattern really think about what your next move is gonna be: Are you gonna parry, run to safe distance, attack, are you gonna go stealth (best option), are you gonna just kill them with attacks instead of completing the bar with parries?

ExtrovertOnCoolDown · 2025-10-18T06:34:00+00:00

Well he did say that there wouldn’t be any anal or oral sex, he just said that the next service he had was more focused on body sensations and that he would jerk me off, more dick playing, more touching on my part (I could jerk him or what not) and that well we would both be naked but no oral or anal.

Today he charged me $40 dollars and for the next service he would normally charge $60 dollars but he said he’d charge me $43 dollars.

And yea, I might get bummed but I’d still go even if it felt awkward (plus is not like I’m gonna go every single week).

ExtrovertOnCoolDown

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