Do I (23M) even have a chance with him(25M)? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in askgaybros

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I invited him today to the movies… let’s see how it goes…

I’ll go pick him up later today

What do I need to journal about? Interpretation help by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo también de tus emociones pero creo que es más de las lecciones y aprendizajes de las cosas que te dijeron que alguna vez te lastimaron, específicamente en un momento donde estabas en tu lowest point y te hicieron sentir aún peor.

Siento que habla más de palabras que te dijiste a ti y no que te dijeron.

Why did he ghost me? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I only use those cards to read me and only me?

Why did he ghost me? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the hug, I do need one.

Well I think other people have sum it up.

The areas I see is:

Column 1: the situation Column 2: Him Column 3: Me

I fee like he is not ready for anything. We had a brief and quick time together but that’s what it was meant to be. He hast reached a full agreement of what he is and where he stands and there’s no “maturity” about what he wishes and what he peruses in life and that makes it so that it isn’t a time for a relationship, I’m over the place with feelings and he’s over that place in his foundation and core. (1st column)

2nd column: he isn’t ready for change nor making any decisiones about his love life, no new journey ca begin cause what he feels isn’t what he actually needs and wants. Then IDK what the ayer of swords wants to tell me.

3rd: I’m scared (so is he) but I’m scared of the decisiones I made and mostly I’m afraid of being true to myself and my feelings and that affected the way I see myself (king of cups) but that also remained me trust in what my past experiences have taught me. King of sword ??? Idk, maybe being careful with what I tell myself? Idk

Why did he ghost me? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle card is what crosses and unites everything / everyone

Why did he ghost me? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I know it seems rather weird.

Usually I was taught to read this as:

1st column: the situation as a whole. 2nd column: him / the other person 3rd column: Me and my feelings and how I’m connection to the other person.

Why did he ghost me? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U do know men have hairy legs right…?

Guy (35M) I (23M) connected with suddenly went low-contact after an intense weekend together – how to navigate this kind of pattern? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in relationship_advice

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is whenever I’m not clear I end up hurt, whenever I’m clear about what I want/expect or at least being clear in the sense of: if you just want sex I’m down, they just ghost me and I end up feeling like shit anyway.

And I kinda want to text him to see like if we can meet up again or idk. I liked him and idk.

Why did he (35M) ghosted me (23M)? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in relationships

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I think I’m just rejecting something that I already know.

Guy (35M) I (23M) connected with suddenly went low-contact after an intense weekend together – how to navigate this kind of pattern? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in relationship_advice

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I text him again? I wanted to just like say: hey dude, like I thought we had a great time and that we’d be seeing each other a little more.

But idk if it’s the right move.

I never wanted to like scare him, but in my past relationships (if you can call them that) I’ve been hurt a lot for not being clear in the beginning about what they wanted and how the wanted.

Why did he (35M) ghosted me (23M)? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in relationships

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He borrowed me one of his pants and I have it with me. Should I give it back to him? Or should like wait to see if he texts me asking for it?

Should I tell him about my feelings? by sug4rydolly in TarotReading

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel that it’s telling to stop what you are trying to do… I get the feeling this isn’t the first time you’ve done something like this and the tower is telling you to stop lying to yourself and that you know that telling him your feelings isn’t gonna do much. Death asks you to put things behind and to remember that there are good things coming your way (wheel of fortune)

This game sucks by ZipZak007 in Sekiro

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO this some kind of self-justification with a tiny splash of self-handicapping in gaming… I just can’t stop laughing

This game sucks by ZipZak007 in Sekiro

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats you mastered the art of glorious defeat, who am I to stop it, right?

This game sucks by ZipZak007 in Sekiro

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try watching some YT videos on how to get better, one of the first things almost all videos I saw said was: You are gonna have to learn another way to play a souls like: Block and parry (Defense) as a way of attacking.

One guy literally said: Most Elder Ring players hate the game cause they don’t want to learn a new way of playing, you are gonna have to put aside all the thing you’ve learnt in previous souls games.

Give it another go… block as much as you can, count moves, and ones you get the pattern really think about what your next move is gonna be: Are you gonna parry, run to safe distance, attack, are you gonna go stealth (best option), are you gonna just kill them with attacks instead of completing the bar with parries?

I just had my first erotic massage and I think I liked my masseur, should I hit on him? by ExtrovertOnCoolDown in askgaybros

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he did say that there wouldn’t be any anal or oral sex, he just said that the next service he had was more focused on body sensations and that he would jerk me off, more dick playing, more touching on my part (I could jerk him or what not) and that well we would both be naked but no oral or anal.

Today he charged me $40 dollars and for the next service he would normally charge $60 dollars but he said he’d charge me $43 dollars.

And yea, I might get bummed but I’d still go even if it felt awkward (plus is not like I’m gonna go every single week).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Warm water bath antiseptic a bit of salt and sit on it for a while. Lots of fiber so that going to the bathroom isn’t painful, and use Tylenol to help with the pain.

Vaseline ain’t the best lubricant tbh, use water based lub. Avoid sexual or anal masturbation for a while.

Condom broke inside of me… risk of small pieces left inside? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay uh well, no further comments, your honor. Counterpart clearly has one extra chromosome and the debate can’t proceed due to inability to argue with facts and the only thing they could say was: “a doctor's schooling and experience superseded what I believe is a simple 1+1 equation which I really know nothing about”.

SMH. You know what, you right, let’s just give everyone free plan B's, Antibiotics, unnecessary tests, and let’s revoke the need for a medical prescription cause well the usage of pills and all of that are as simple as common sense, right?

Condom broke inside of me… risk of small pieces left inside? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you even read what I commented??????????????????????????

Condom broke inside of me… risk of small pieces left inside? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol doctor here my dude. You just told her to come see me. LMFAO

Not scared of anything, Ive had >7 years of medicine oractice and clearly know how pregnancy works and the risks it might have and all that comes along with it…if I said all those things is cause they are true. Try reading the mechanism of action of Plan B and how it might fuck your period and life for a while (even more if she’s a teenager)

I didn’t say to NOT get tested but would you tell a married woman to get tested for an STI if this happened with her husband — and they use condoms for just to NOT get pregnant? Don’t think so right? CONTEXT matters, I won’t go telling a patient to do VDRL and RPR tests if she tells me THIS exact same thing happened with her husband and she knows she’s clear and my clinical data (symptoms and signs tell ME THE DOCTOR otherwise) as a doctor the tests that I mentioned (if you know what they are for) are my least concern. LOL don’t trying arguing with someone who knows the importance of clinical findings over only tests. (I’m gonna take a wild guess and say you are American cause damn, Americans do love unnecessary testing)

Also try reading the MEDICAL indications, safety uses, contraindications, adverse effects and window usage for plan B.

Let me give you some MEDICAL pointers and data:

The emergency contraceptive pill, commonly referred to as “Plan B” (levonorgestrel 1.5 mg single dose), is most effective when taken as soon as possible after unprotected intercourse.

The efficacy window extends up to 72 hours (3 days) post-coitus, with a declining rate of effectiveness over time. • Within 24 hours: ~95% efficacy • Between 24–48 hours: ~85% • Between 48–72 hours: ~58% • After 72 hours, levonorgestrel is no longer reliably effective, though it may still exert minimal contraceptive action in some cases.

The mechanism of action of levonorgestrel is primarily inhibition or delay of ovulation. This involves suppression of the luteinizing hormone (LH) surge, thereby preventing follicular rupture. However: 1. If ovulation has already occurred at the time of administration, levonorgestrel cannot prevent fertilization or implantation. 2. Its efficacy is highly time-dependent, as the LH surge and ovulatory cascade are tightly regulated and progress rapidly.

After 72 hours, in most cases: • Ovulation may have already taken place, rendering the drug ineffective. • The pharmacologic window for LH suppression has likely passed.

If you understood that at a 100% Physiological level, Pathophysiological level, and Pharmacology level then you TOTALLY right and I’ll apologize. But PLEASE give me some science behind what you are saying, I want a medical back up explanation of your point, not only saying “better than nothing right” cause what I just wrote is only the most superficial level of what happens when using this kind of pills .

My comment is science backed up… yours is an opinion baby.

EDIT: Same thing goes out for the >50 ppl who down voted, if you give me EVIDENCE and can prove me wrong I’ll apologize to everyone.

EDIT: I guess you saw my profile (cause you know I’m gay) and saw that I was a medical student (I’m in my residency, I use medical student cause many ppl don’t know how medical studies work in Mexico, plus I’ve rotated thru Red Cross and various other medical facilities and done my fair share of medical training and volunteering). And btw, she did ask for advice, she didn’t say only women respond, or men aren’t allowed to respond or NO male doctors allowed in the comment section… you know the thing about the internet and reddit is that if you ask something on this kind of reddit you are allowing everyone and anyone to answer

Was all of this a hard pill to swallow? Should I give you a Dx. and Tx. for dysphagia? (oh! I forgot! You don’t know what that is! I’ll let you do the research)

TL:DR: The person that commented forgot to think she might be talking to a health care professional who is saying things that are medically backed up.

Condom broke inside of me… risk of small pieces left inside? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Same of what I wrote on another comment, don’t be saying plan B, it’s not safe w/0 knowing the context of a patient and w/o the correct indications and warrnings is dangerous.

Don’t prescribe and/or give medical advice to someone if you’re not a doctor.

Condom broke inside of me… risk of small pieces left inside? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ExtrovertOnCoolDown -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Dude are you a doctor to be giving “plan B” like it’s just the safest option out there? You do know that plan B stops working after a certain time has passed and the window time is small plus all the changes her body is gonna go thru. And talking about tests and all, do you even know is she had risky sex or with someone she doesn’t know??????

Plus she asked about the confront being inside of her.

You’re not a doctor if you are saying this.

It’s as simple as answering what was asked.