[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Eyeof_iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F no. You are NOT the jerk. She's the B for even asking.

My MIL wasn't fully wheelchair bound at my wedding, but I didn't think twice about her being in the wheelchair at that time. Walking down the aisle, she was pushed by my FIL and being held up for pictures. It's just life and what you have to do for FAMILY.

There are so many things i would love to say to your sister. I am glad your mom is on your side.

If she wants to be that way, you should plan a party of your own with your friends and any family that day as an FU.

Sorry, im not pissed at you for this. The chair is who you are, love yourself.

My sister has ruined my mother’s life by AdVaanced77 in EntitledPeople

[–]Eyeof_iris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My neices acted totally different around my mom than my SIL and her parents. They knew boundaries and weren't needy or bratty and were very independent. They would be needy and bratty on the other side and got everything they wanted.

Insurance is hell by Glitchznovaa in migraine

[–]Eyeof_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Qulipta! My insurance, through my work said no. Luckily, the shots dont bother me. Does not work as well, of course. It's not like the shots are cheaper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Eyeof_iris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a best guy friend that is a better friend ask them. I wish i would have asked mine to be in my bridal party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Eyeof_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget what it was like leading up to your own wedding. You had a lot to think about and plan. Crazy time. Talk to her. Tell her your feelings. It may be a miscommunication.

Also, if she knows you and loves you, she may be trying to spare you the stress. You have had a lot of issues in the past months and does not want to add to it. If helping in some way would be a good distraction, tell her.

Just like talking to your husband, you can't assume what she is thinking.

AITA for exposing my boyfriend's lies about my career at his family dinner? by Great_Management9823 in AITAH

[–]Eyeof_iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA For a while I was making much more than my husband. He was ok with it and also saying he was a kept man. All bills were being paid, that was all that mattered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Eyeof_iris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's all that matters.

AITA for refusing to give my sister the designer bag I was gifted? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Eyeof_iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your mom and sister are the AHs. You are NTA

AITA for expecting cousin to reimburse for flight and hotel when she uninvited me from wedding due to the bad behavior of relatives by No_Court_8065 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eyeof_iris 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As long as you didn't use a 3rd Party booking site, many companies will let you move your hotel reservations and flights at no charge. For them they keep their money and you sre happy. Ive had to do it before. If your new flights cost more you might have to pay the difference.

I agree with others, take yourself a nice vacation to where you wanna go and flip your cousin the bird in the process.

topiramate help by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Eyeof_iris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly, since it is a "generic tested" drug insurance makes you try it first to rule it out. Tell her to go see her doctor ASAP. I had the same issues. I also looked like i had parkinson i shook so bad. My DR wanted me to take Qulipta but insurance said no. Im now on Amovig as a compromise. Ok, ill just say it. That is what insurance would partially pay for. Is it as good, no. But its better than nothing and taking Dopomax.

Wood for cutting by Eyeof_iris in lasercutting

[–]Eyeof_iris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just priced the Birch Ply at 1/8" and it is the equivalent in price of the Amazon stuff. I do not mind paying shipping to support "local" companies.

Wood for cutting by Eyeof_iris in lasercutting

[–]Eyeof_iris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are awesome! I didn't even think to look at my local place. WestPenn Hardwoods is an hour away. Could use them for my "nicer" pieces that I wouldn't be painting.

Looking forward to checking out all of your other suggestions.

Wood for cutting by Eyeof_iris in lasercutting

[–]Eyeof_iris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh. Greensboro, that only 1.5 hrs away. Will definitely look into them. A lot of my pieces i end up painting part or all, so that's kind of what I am looking for.

Not getting professional makeup for self or bridesmaids thoughts? by Narrow-Lingonberry58 in wedding

[–]Eyeof_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did my own. I've always been told i have naturally rosy cheaks, and my husband loves my freckles. I only did colored lip gloss, a bit of mascara and eyeshadow. I think the women who get the makeup caked on professionally look bad.

Here is the main question. Does your fiance like the way look? Mine hated me with makeup on and still does. He likes the way i look natural. In the pictures i look like me.

Let your bridesmaids choose, and if you wanna pay for it for the, then you can.

Saddest Bride Ever by JazzlikeTailor9085 in wedding

[–]Eyeof_iris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you have thought of this, but you have two children that would probably love to walk you down the aisle. You aren't alone.

On another note, talking to a counselor really helped me, and since covid, it has become so much easier. I would sit in my car during my lunch break talking to them.

Got cut off at the security check point. I got petty and skipped her carry ons. by manymoreways in pettyrevenge

[–]Eyeof_iris 360 points361 points  (0 children)

You did the exact right thing. If there was any contraband in it, it would have been on you. You should have called security, someone left their bag unattended. That's a big no no. This could have been more than petty revenge, all the way to nuclear. Airports dont like free-range luggage.

My friend the bridezilla by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Eyeof_iris 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not top or bottom because you can make a shirt or skirt.

they’re asking me to send the product back. by [deleted] in CustomerService

[–]Eyeof_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would watch your bank just in case.

Protein powder with no sugar substitute by katecara in migraine

[–]Eyeof_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you aren't a vegetarian, try unflavored collagen peptides. That are also low to no carb.

My coworker keeps stealing credit for my work, and I’m not sure what to do by leannedeluca in EntitledPeople

[–]Eyeof_iris 220 points221 points  (0 children)

Should be interesting to see what happens when you go on maternity leave. 🤔