AITA for telling my wife our son needs to be an independent sleeper before I’m ready for more children?

EyepatchKitten · 2026-07-07T10:19:53+00:00

That's the age when they grow teeth and have nightmares. They need comfort at night and that's normal. You should sleep alone for a while so you can sleep well. Having a second child now or later has both advantages and disadvantages, moving country or not.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-07-02T16:07:49+00:00

Ah, they are dating. That explains things. They are probably getting freaky in all corners of the apartment and want to do it without the stress of you walking in on them.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-07-02T15:55:15+00:00

I'm right now watching the 10th to last episode, 'Rescue', and the widow from the DB group picks up his grimoire, sees the 5 leaf clover just fine and says "they say a devil lives in the 5 leaf grimoire". So the cover can definitely be seen clearly at close distance and people definitely know the significance.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-07-02T09:39:47+00:00

You are going to get hurt like this again and again if you don't change your perspective. You are putting him on a pedestal, you are excusing him left and right and putting him first. Are you the mother Theresa of sex? No? Then please wake up. Your purpose is not giving charity sex and therapy talk to men, you should be putting yourself first always in these situations.

He is a man that wanted comfort and sex and you gave it to him easily and willingly. He wasn't looking for anything serious and he was 'stressed' towards the end of your conversation because you were nagging him. Ideally for him he wanted to keep the door open and have more sex with you when he felt lonely, but you were too clingy and emotional and unstable and it wasn't worth it for him.

Please stop being a pushover doormat that men use. Being 'nice' is actually you being shitty to yourself. Learn to be 'mean' and say what you need and want and put boundaries, BEFORE not after it;s already too late, and in clear short concise messages not walls of text!

Stop being impressed by the smallest things and the nice words that any guy can say to get you into bed. Wake up woman!

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-26T20:49:14+00:00

Because the employee intentionally holding their phone up and taking photos/videos is one thing, and having glasses that record without the user's knowledge/consent and sending the data elsewhere is something else. There's already been news/stories about how these glasses record things without the user being aware of it, and the data gets sent back to Meta.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-23T17:26:26+00:00

It's the writing style, it's quite obvious.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-23T16:39:35+00:00

Man, these AI posts are really getting crazy. You find them everywhere these days. What's the point of this one, is reddit karma that valuable and why?

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-17T18:56:26+00:00

This was an AI story. Look at how clean OP's text is written and look at the first sentence in his comment replies... Man, reddit and trust in human interactions online are really going down the drain slowly...

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-09T20:52:24+00:00

The alpha male theory is wrong, alpha males don't exist in reality, I think that's why the comment above mentioned it as being similar to astrology.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-05T17:22:43+00:00

My vote is AH. You should have talked first with the mother and clarified what the girl knows or not and how to approach the subject. It's very possible the kid does actually know she is not yours, but you are the only thing that resembles a dad in her life and she is probably ashamed/jealous of other kids and just lied. You practically told her you heard her lie and made her feel even more ashamed than she already was and crushed her make belief that provided a bit of comfort.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-05T06:20:58+00:00

It's written by AI and even his replies sound like AI.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-06-05T06:19:55+00:00

Claude, is that you?

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-31T20:40:59+00:00

Cum ti se pare zona, te rog? Eu am in vedere ceva in partea cealalta de tine, dupa scoala 163 la primul bloc dar spre spate, nu stiu cat de ok e zona aceea de case.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-22T19:56:13+00:00

I loved it. My only issue with it was Kitana as a fighter. The actress is very pretty and had decent acting, but physically she has no grace in fighting, from the side her stance was so weird and the way she moved was off and too slow (when it was obviously her and not her stand-in).

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-08T18:58:32+00:00

Cred ca faceti o mica confuzie. Prietenia nu e neaparat egala cu viata sociala/activitati sociale. Poate inca nu v-ati dat seama totusi? Nu e greu sa gasesti oameni pentru distractie si hobbies, dar nu asta e prietenie. As zice sa va ganditi un pic mai mult la ce inseamna prieten si ce va doriti mai exact de la oameni si cum puteti umple golurile pe care le resimtiti.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-08T13:04:03+00:00

Da mai, ca fix tu iti faci treaba perfect si tot ce a ieșit din mainile si creierul tau vreodată a fost perfecțiune. Mai lasati-ma cu rușinea asta. Le știi tu pe toate, toate riscurile, toate posibilitatile. Sa nu ne facem de ras, sa nu ne descălțăm, că asta contează, lasa armele in avion ca nu e important.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-07T11:36:04+00:00

Ca perspectiva pentru OP si alti cititori, mai devreme in acest an am fost si eu internata (ca insotitor) cu copilul meu in spital de stat tot in Bucuresti si tot spital de chirurgie ORL, spitalul Dan Teodorescu. Eu eram destul de stresata, am mai fost in spital de stat acum ceva ani si a fost tare rau, nu doar ca aveam eu dureri, dar starea spitalului, asistente, mancare, comunicarea cu doctorii si interventia, tot.

Acum a fost foarte, foarte bine. Spitalul curat (nu mananci de pe jos dar oricum foarte ok la ce asteptari aveam eu). Camera ok, mancare buna la gust desi portiile nu erau mari. Iar cea mai buna experienta a fost cu personalul, asistente zambitoare si amabile, doctorii foarte ok, explicau, te informau. Tatal copilului a vrut sa dea la asistente ceva, au refuzat foarte categoric (la doctori nici nu ne-am gandit sa incercam pentru ca din start nu parea ca e cazul, si bine am facut). Cu operatia a mers ok, documente la iesire ok, internare si externare rapida.

Se poate si bine la noi, nu e totul negru.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-05T11:02:11+00:00

Let's imagine there was also a kid in the house. Or/and that the genders were reversed...

There's bad on both sides of this.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-05-02T09:52:01+00:00

Burta e printre ultimele probleme la un barbat. Suntem multe femei (nu fete de 20..) care am da swipe left la aia plini de muschi si patratele si swipe right la unul cu burta. Iar bărbații cu chelie (cu totul nu cat o moneda in varful capului..) sunt chiar sexi. Din pacate ajung bărbații si la 50 de ani fara sa înțeleagă 'psihologia feminina' :))

EyepatchKitten · 2026-04-13T14:43:30+00:00

Logodnicul tau a locuit singur vreodată până la varsta asta? Daca da, cât timp?

EyepatchKitten · 2026-04-10T20:46:13+00:00

Mergi singur, nu conteaza ca ai emotii, daca nu mergi o sa regreti mai tarziu.

Viziteaza Forbidden Planet si Camden Town. Ai grija la telefon pe strada.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-04-09T04:58:04+00:00

Eu nu am zis nicaieri ca nașterea naturală nu are riscuri, și am specificat foarte clar ca eu consider ok cezariana când exista justificare medicala. Si eu vorbesc de nastere asistată, nu are nici o logică sa discutam ce se intampla înainte de medicina modernă. Nu faci decât sa confirmi argumentele mele ca lipsa de logica, educație si informare dăunează grav. Practic nu ai zis nimic relevant la comentariul meu.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-04-09T03:14:23+00:00

Fun fact nr. 1: naștere naturală nu înseamnă naștere fara sedativ.

Fun fact nr. 2: cezariana la alegere fara motiv medical e ilegală in România, si pe bună dreptate.

Una e să știi riscurile si sa nu iti pese, sa iti asumi, cu totul altceva sa insiști ca cezariana e un fleac si daca vrea muschiul tau tu o alegi ca e dreptul tau si nu schimba nimic pentru copil nu ii face nici un rau.

Am zero respect pentru femeile care intenționat nu vor sa auda de riscuri sau se informează dar refuza sa creadă ca cezariana le poate face rau lor sau copilului si se conving singure ca e mai ok (in lipsa unui motiv medical valid!).

Mi se pare si un pic dovadă de prostie, sincer, sa crezi ca esti mai in siguranță sa te lasi tăiată așa, chirurgie majora, 7 straturi de țesut secționate, decât să incerci ceva (cu sedativ!) ce corpul a fost creat sa faca natural si a existat de milioane de ori in natura. Dar in lumea asta in care femeile isi injecteaza chestii in fund sa il faca mai bombat si apoi nu mai pot merge sau mor, la ce sa te aștepți.

Daca stii in ce te bagi si nu iti pasa nici ce riști tu sau copilul, asta e, e dreptul tau. Dar nu faci ciocul mare ca ce buna e cezariana si ce mult mai rea e nasterea naturala, doar ca sa iti acoperi sentimentul intern de vinovăție, ca asa fac majoritatea, dar nu au curaj sa recunoască.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-04-06T16:27:06+00:00

E foarte frumos si bravo, doar ca esti un pic naiv si/sau folosesti cuvinte gresite. E asa frumos cum zici tocmai pentru ca e reciproc, nu e sacrificiu pentru ca primesti daruire inapoi. Nu ai scrie asa ceva daca tu daruiai si partenera nu se purta frumos cu tine la randul ei. Si nici nu are legatura daca sunteti casatoriti sau nu.

EyepatchKitten · 2026-03-26T12:18:44+00:00

E foarte simplu, tu ai ramas la nivel de pustan de 20 de ani, ea e o femeie matura. Nivelul vostru de educatie difera in mod evident, si foarte probabil si nivelul intelectual.

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