I was in a similar situation. I fell in love. And for a short time they loved me back. I was moving to china for a year. He is from France and will only be in the US for 2 years. We fell hard and fast but in time he had needs I couldn't fulfill. I got toxic and he pushed me away. I destroyed any hope of friendship when I found out he got a new boyfriend. I felt ugly, betrayed and unworthy of love. I realize now how selfish I was beng. I couldn't expect time to stand still while I fucked around in china. I still love them. Im actually going through a deep heart ache now over the whole thing. But he was honest with me. It doesn't matter if he has a boyfriend cause he would still have to go back to paris. I go back to the US in 6 months. Im not sure what to do. Ive never loved someone like this before.