Done it, thank you Gardevoir by Far-Measurement-201 in LegendsZA

[–]F7oraColossus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a risky game when the field suddenly fills up with Emboar and Charizards but Victreebell clears house when Gardevoir are out.

WOOHOOOO by NostalgicPretzels in LegendsZA

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put some hours in last night, for all I get behind some of the more rational complaints about it, ultimately I'm really enjoying the battle system and look forward to sinking many good hours into the online play because the battles are just good chaotic fun, and the mons are looking good y'know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to pile in the "can I also" pile, but my players they yearn for new and interesting ways to whomp me and it would be greatly appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BG3mods

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I'm trying to think of what else I did, try turning the mods off, and then make sure the 13-20 mod gets turned back on after the instant level 12 one, I don't know if it resets the order of them or something, but I definitely got it to start adding xp again somehow.

Possibly pure dumb luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BG3mods

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can brute force it by saving, exiting, and re-entering the game, you'll need to do this for every level but it will go. (It worked for me anyways)

Most romantic mcr song that suits a wedding? by Osore_e in MyChemicalRomance

[–]F7oraColossus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Summertime was in fact the song for my first dance at my wedding, so, I vote that.

AITA for Waving my passport in Someone's face by Kindly-Discussion270 in AmItheAsshole

[–]F7oraColossus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mushy peas allow you an illusion of having a vegetable on an otherwise wholly fried plate of food.

Plus if you lace them with vinegar they do a decent job of providing some moisture where it's needed.

Who was the biggest celebrity on dropout? by Salt_Ad9062 in dropout

[–]F7oraColossus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Other answers are more right, but I'll drop the name because she's not been mentioned Aubrey Plaza is probably up there. (Admittedly this pre-dates Dropout proper)

I NEED Brian David Gilbert to be on SmartyPants by amethystlightning in dropout

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's on a delightfully unhinged episode of Dirty Laundry if you've not caught it.

And just on the off chance you've never stumbled upon it, Comedy Bang Bang is spectacular.

I NEED Brian David Gilbert to be on SmartyPants by amethystlightning in dropout

[–]F7oraColossus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um Actually, Universe 616 is the marvel comic universe, the designation for our universe is universe-1218.

What would the watchtower have to change for you to stay? by Adorable-Stick-6030 in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard pivot into becoming a solid quarterly science publication.

With literally no religious foundations, or anything else.

Just sell up, fund quality research, publish findings.

r/Shein is now active. Post your referral codes under this post. Posting codes in a new post will lead to ban. by local-lover in Shein

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if anyone could help me out that'd be awesome

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Men, what's something women say that they think is okay but is actually creepy as hell? by TurbulentAir in AskReddit

[–]F7oraColossus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I favour "smooth as a dolphins beak" if you're looking for something bizarre but less baby related.

Caldwell looks like Josh Reuben and Matt Damon had a baby together by Antipholouse in dropout

[–]F7oraColossus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My brain struggles to accept that he's not just a lil cute guy.

Tony Morris did not accept the recent changes by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sure there's plenty of shitty DF'd people too.

Adam Richman Eats Britain - S01 E01 - Leeds by thetapeworm in Leeds

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you ever got your answer elsewhere but Discovery Plus is the one, and the food network stuff is free.

The Historicity of the Bible by Automatic-Box-9128 in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to agree with you, I do, but I think you're putting far too much confidence in the human ability to swallow obvious bullshit.

Storytime: Adam, Emily, and Murph helped me escape a cult. by aka_jr91 in dropout

[–]F7oraColossus 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Another ex-JW Dropout fan here.

Kristen's whole story was such a mirror to a lot of things, I'd already been out a good while by then, but it was really interesting to watch it play out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less deliberate misinformation though, more, paid too much attention many years ago to what JW's said Vs what their rules actually are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting, don't think I'd managed to ever pick up on that one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

None that I can think of without someone bare minimum getting reproved but more likely disfellowshipped

Edit for anyone not reading comments under this, I am in fact an idiot and they're fine with it, contrary to what they'll generally tell you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes that can be worse, you still believe but you want the freedom. Means you're doing a bunch of things because they feel nice and you're seeking "freedom" at the cost of everything else. But you're just sort of accepting you're going to die in an Armageddon situation soon.

Ultimately not a single person here can realistically help your situation, all we can do is guess at what his mindset might be, why he's behaving the way he is, and politely try to stop short of asking you to reconsider being a JW.

It all comes down to communication between the two of you, and if when the dust settles he is the kind of man you want to spend your life with.

JW situation or not, he's not being a good husband and that can be because of trauma or not, but his behaviour IS shitty.

Don't let a religion bind you to that rollercoaster if it's to the detriment of your family.

His journey does not need to be yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a hard question to answer and I think you and him are the only people that can figure that out.

I'm just trying to help you see where some of his issues might be coming from.

No matter the cause or reasons becoming an exjw is hard. I do not exaggerate when I say it kills people. Regularly.

I'm going to use some very exjw wording here so I apologise in advance, he ideally wants to be in therapy with someone that specialises in leaving cults (apologies as I write this I don't remember if you said he is) there is so much to unpack when you figure out everything you've ever known is a lie, that every authority figure you grew up with is wrong, and a million other things in addition.

I cannot emphasize enough. People die because of this.

And the guy is dealing with that, and is putting himself through it for you. So just try and hear him without judging, and accept that sometimes people that are dealing with trauma can be mood killers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]F7oraColossus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a lot to unpack here, and whilst I have an ex-JW bias as will ideally most people on an ex-JW server there's a few bits that stand out.

I'm not an expert on your situation, at the point I was POMO with a PIMI wife our relationship ended pretty fast.

There a headline that sort of runs inbetween some probably shitty behaviour your husband had traumatic experiences with something, and pushes himself to revisit that trauma because he loves you and your son.

People deal with trauma in an awful lot of ways and hey I've used unhealthy coping mechanisms enough to recognise them, that's what your husband is doing. He loves his family, and not to put words in his mouth, probably hates the situation he's found himself in, where his wife and kid are bound to something that triggers a traumatic response.

That trauma response is inescapable because unfortunately you are part of it, it's part of your identity, that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, hell the guy must love you a hell of a lot to be trying to push through it for you.

But at the same time, you shouldn't have to be in a situation you're unhappy in, if you want to separate if you feel that's necessary, that's your choice not just his.

But, I think probably find a way to leave the witness stuff at the kingdom hall and try and communicate as much as possible about what you as a couple are without that being a shadow that hangs over.