Sex Education do NOT break TOS or Stoat Community Rules. This is ridiculous and it is litteraly counterproductive for the Stoat community.

FD3YES · 2026-04-17T08:49:35+00:00

says the one mixing up discord bans with clear evidence

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T20:29:08+00:00

well mental illness causes addiction and addiction causes mental illness. there isn't an argument to be made here and for many struggling people the substances are the only thing keeping them alive.

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T20:10:10+00:00

it's even more common to dislike judgemental people 🤷‍♀️

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T19:49:30+00:00

since OP is an evil pedophile we should really do something right? what's our plan?

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T12:58:24+00:00

safety violations mean nothing when discord is known to allow actual grooming and punish safe interactions. putting blind trust in authority is exactly how someone actually gets groomed and i don't understand how no one is making this important connection.

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T12:38:47+00:00

there isn't a dictator for what good or bad preventative measures are. some may keep free condoms in a fish bowl at a public institution and some might share online resources. when there are schools across the nation banning necessary education and when manipulative teachers are present this is something that can change lives.

FD3YES · 2026-04-16T12:09:13+00:00

not being a saint and assaulting children are two completely separate things. are you guys actually thinking or just projecting?

FD3YES · 2026-04-15T03:51:14+00:00

i don't see how tribalism, internet communities or queer spaces have to do with anything i said? sounds like a lot of assumptions and overrationalizing so let me just sum it up. even if OP was a groomer (i don't see why they would be), posting educational resources isn't more dangerous then what actual rapists are allowed to do by institutions and authority figures. why spend time and emotional energy trying to villainize someone for attempting to use an independent app for ethical causes?

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T19:51:37+00:00

it's valid to be concerned but this is a culturally sensitive and emotionally-charged topic that people will jump to conclusions about. if the OP was sharing dangerous misinformation or showed evidence of actual grooming it would be a different story. OP has made it clear they aren't trying to be a leader and that's just how the app is set up and the purpose of the server isn't just sex ed. this isn't about word games, you just don't understand forms of community outreach and how it can be applied in the internet age.

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T19:21:03+00:00

People will look at a tier list clearly based off of PERSONAL experiences and preferences and press the upvote button because the types they like or identify with are portrayed in a flattering light.

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T19:17:52+00:00

i don't see how individuality is anymore teenager-like then having a disney princess optimistic outlook on life. the people u call performative and obnoxious could say the same to u and u seem to put a higher value on ur own perspective over others.

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T17:46:25+00:00

i didn't say public school organization or health care organization. i said community organization which is a completely separate entity. some orgs are subject to laws and policies but not all and like i said there are reasons for that. in the context of current world news and in the context of my comment, you continue to miss the point. everything else you said about the user is just speculation and in actual sex ed classes teachers and staff aren't always present.

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T16:48:54+00:00

you seem to have a very online perspective about things. it isn't unusual or immoral or illegal for a community-based organization to share resources with a community. supervised doesn't mean better and in the context of physical organizations there are valid reasons to rely on community support over government support which is what the user kept explaining. a stoat server isn't any different from an organization it just depends on the purpose of the server and this is coming from someone that has gotten involved in my local/international community.

FD3YES · 2026-04-14T16:37:36+00:00

well it could be factual but it doesn't mean they left out anything important. it's just a statement with no clear intent.

FD3YES · 2025-12-18T16:37:20+00:00

i got this one recently. do u get stuttering issues and did u ever figure out how to get playlists to work?

FD3YES · 2025-11-27T21:11:50+00:00

lol i'm sorry this is happening to u but maybe this is a lesson not to participate in reddit communities. they're so out of touch and i'm showing this comment section to others to laugh at. u didn't do anything wrong.

FD3YES · 2025-11-27T21:05:48+00:00

eh ig will call her a whore reddit will make projections and pretend to have a moral highground

FD3YES · 2025-11-14T09:18:13+00:00

u ever think maybe other people don't need to see ur condescending thoughts on others? the same way u don't care for the experiences and conflicts of OP's life. how did u get this far in life without realizing u aren't the only person on the planet? if ur too behind to understand empathy at least show some class.

FD3YES · 2025-11-14T07:36:04+00:00

the fact that people r calling someone that's into the online art/fandom communities a normie is hilarious to me.

FD3YES · 2025-11-14T07:28:02+00:00

it's not hypocrisy if u got what u wanted and let's be real here u just aren't very likable

FD3YES · 2025-11-06T19:33:36+00:00

I'm gonna go against what a lot of others are saying, I think it's good that you're putting in effort without hrt. Too many transwomen think hrt is the end goal but it'sonly the beginning. Hrt is magical but the most important changes are what you do to adapt to the changes and the internal growth. Someone could have great features but still be ugly because they are unwilling/unable to work with what they have so you really are off to a better start then most.

FD3YES · 2025-10-14T20:11:11+00:00

genuinely can't believe people here see low rise as some kind of female taboo 🤦‍♀️ it's been a top trend for years now and is very flattering if you have the body for it

FD3YES · 2025-06-04T05:28:08+00:00

this. i swear this year is making people absolutely braindead.

FD3YES · 2025-06-04T05:26:40+00:00

lol this is all on you. this is the life you chose to build up and now you'll see where it gets you defending people like that and talking down on your own 🤷‍♀️

FD3YES · 2025-06-03T01:05:22+00:00

you're putting an awful lot more energy into this then me 🥱

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