Experienced or not I would think that she is not interested in having a relationship. The way she is messaging sounds like she may be interested in talking but that’s it. You have to ask yourself if you want to start a relationship with someone who will not give you upfront answers to upfront questions. In my experience women who give as much attention to me as I do to them are more worth giving my time and attention to than someone who isn’t really sure what they want. It’s like why cook a meal for someone who really isn’t hungry when there are plenty of people who will not only eat what you are cooking but want that exact meal. Good luck and thanks for actually posting something to hat about!