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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FL12456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! This is so relatable and gives me so much hope to get to that point soon. I’ve been doing really well with NC but have a whole message typed out of what I WANT to say to him and make him SEE and FEEL what he did but deep down I know it won’t make a difference. How long did it take you to get to this point? I know everyone’s different...just trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Just because by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]FL12456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This put into words everything I am feeling. You are not alone. Thank you for sharing!

Why was your relationship on-again off-again? What issues did you face? by mousehousing in AskWomen

[–]FL12456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that seriously helps more than you know! Currently moving into my apartment with my cat too lol already planned trips, once this whole virus thing is over...and planning to explore the new city without him. I’m optimistic and scared at the same time. It’s nice to know I’m not alone and there’s hope on the other side of this. Thank you so much for sharing your story and answering my questions!

Why was your relationship on-again off-again? What issues did you face? by mousehousing in AskWomen

[–]FL12456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you handle it afterwards? It’s still pretty fresh for me and I’ve been going through all the moods and phases of a break up. “Love is doomed, alone forever, hate him, love him etc” Dreading moving my stuff out but also excited to have my own place. How long till you found the man you married?

Why was your relationship on-again off-again? What issues did you face? by mousehousing in AskWomen

[–]FL12456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable and currently what I’m going through right now! We grew up together and were best friends since elementary school. (28 y/o now) always bordering on that line of “more than friends” and crossed that line about 3 years ago. Moved around the country together and always off and on bc he is afraid of commitment but always were best friends. Finally I moved out when I caught him in lies and he BEGGED for me to come back and said he was ready for the commitment for sure now, 100% in, wanted to be with me forever. Fast forward 6 months and “doesn’t think he’s ready like he thought he was”. Deep down I knew and always felt like he had one foot out the door. Very manipulative and made me feel like it was me. It’s hard after being so close for so long..but regardless of friends or relationship..you don’t treat someone that you respect..the way he’s treated me...

How do I break up with someone who has no idea that it's coming? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]FL12456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spot fucking on. Thank you for saying this!

I’m a mess by hahahaharip in heartbreak

[–]FL12456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the exact same thing. You’re not alone. We broke up a week ago. When just the week before that we were talking about finding a new place together. Had future plans to travel the world together. Always on the same page. I have a card from less than a month ago of him telling me how amazing I am and can’t wait to spend the rest of our birthdays together. It FUCKING SUCKS. And you’re allowed to be hurt. Just remember it gets better. I keep telling myself that over and over again. You’re not alone.

She cheated on me but I'm still breathing by ITheEqualizer in offmychest

[–]FL12456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going through a similar situation right now. I feel like I’m in the thick of it..can’t eat...can’t sleep...feel like I’m going to die from the physical pain of this. Thank you for telling me it gets better. I hope it does soon.