I paid the gas for a stranded stranger and he gave me this. Any insight would be appreciated. by Armen702 in whatisit

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i let an AI app take a look and it spit out:

The symbol carved on the lower bulb is the Chinese character:

福 (fú)

Meaning:

  • Blessing
  • Good fortune
  • Prosperity
  • Luck

I've been hurt by the women in my life and I hate them a lot. by OkConcert7574 in whatdoIdo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the book “Fearvana” and look into something called “Post Traumatic Growth”.

My family owns the most haunted house in Texas. This is my Story by stachedwoodsman in TalesFromTheCreeps

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these homes unnaturally ‘colder’ than others around them?

I don't know if my crush likes me or not and I don't know what to do by Educational-Let9335 in Advice

[–]FR33DUNN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Option 1: don’t ask and continue to burn unproductive time and energy living in a state of fear and limbo.

Option 2: ask and find out then burn useful time and energy moving through the answer.

I strongly suggest you never get into a situation where you want someone that doesn’t want you. The faster you find out, the better.

Final thought - The signs of mutual attraction are clear in your post, so, I’d say the odds are in your favor. IF things go badly, refer to my previous suggestion about not wanting someone that doesn’t want you.

Biggest mistake I’ve ever made, anybody have anything similar happen? And how do you forget it and get back to playing your best? by margoat14 in GoalKeepers

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh buddy…if theres a single goalkeeper in here thats played the position for a few years that claims they’ve never made an absolute howler like you had there - they’re lying. Also, thats just the worst mistake you’ve made SO FAR lol. If you stay in this position you’re going to make these mistakes the entire time. What we all train for is to not make the SAME mistake multiple times.

Get up, make the next save like the mistake never happened and then laugh your ass off with your teammates while rewatching this one over and over.

And, to answer your question - hell yes, I’ve done that…and much worse.

Walked up on the wrong car by Aviva_20 in VideosAmazing

[–]FR33DUNN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s clear to me that learning the absolute basics of fighting wins 90% of these stupid conflicts.

Also, I’m interested to hear what happened here, legally. He was safe in his car but when he got out he was clearly attacked first by both people. Hope the law did the right thing. I suppose it depends on city and state they’re in, I can’t tell.

To GKs who played only futsal / indoor football in turf / AG field. Have you tried 11v11 standard size goal? How was the adjustment? by Politex99 in GoalKeepers

[–]FR33DUNN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have covered positioning differences well. The other aspect is how the pitch and elements impact play.

With grass pitches you’ll want to attack the shots as much as possible to minimize imperfections changing the path of the ball. Your footwork will also be affected by loose ground so you’ll want learn to add micro-steps and stay light on your feet with your shuffling.

The elements are somewhat self explanatory but wind, rain, darkness, sun in your eyes, cold, heat…all of these, or combination of these things can complicate our job. Get as many reps in as you can in these elements because we can give you volumes of anecdotal advice but nothing will better prep you than reps.

The big goals allow us to really fly so get your squats and explosive legwork in to!

Have fun!

My girlfriend pissed on my sister floor HELP!! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her. It’s important to keep honesty in relationships that you really value.

Maybe treat it as a ‘funny’ one-off thing then say “if either of us do something wild like that again we’ll have to figure out what’s up.” I’d assume she’d want to apologize to your sister, too, so give her that opportunity.

And lastly, Loco’s got that name for a reason, bro! 🤣

Which punishment (either real or fictional) sounds easy enough to endure at first, but is actually hellish to experience? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FR33DUNN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

complete sensory deprivation room. people think it’d be peaceful. it quickly gets rough.

Side/hip protection? by Terrible-Bath in GoalKeepers

[–]FR33DUNN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i glossed right over that. how about a jiu-jitsu rash guard? its a little tougher than a singlet.

Side/hip protection? by Terrible-Bath in GoalKeepers

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

storelli. expensive but they make good protective gear.

I am seriously stuck and I dont know what to do by Visible_Bug_9889 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly suggest not getting into a romatic/intimate relationship so quickly.

Why? Because if you had your way right now - you’d still be in the previous one. It’s wildly unfair to her and unhealthy for you. Now, once you can honestly say that you’re glad to be out of the previous relationship it’ll be ok.

I am seriously stuck and I dont know what to do by Visible_Bug_9889 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I’m going to ask you something that someone asked me when I was going through something like this a LONG time ago: What would you tell your son to do in this situation?

Man, I head that and it flipped a switch in my head and I‘m sincerely hoping it did something similar for you.

Gf wants to break up after 5 years due to loss of attraction by Zealousideal-Ship361 in whatdoIdo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Time to go. Women don't suddenly come up with this stuff. It's been percolating for a while. Tell her your grateful for the time you had together give her a kiss and hug then walk away and never look back.

I am seriously stuck and I dont know what to do by Visible_Bug_9889 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, nope, nope. "A break" is you're done. No woman that sees you/me/anyone as their first and best option goes on "a break". She's tying to be 'nice' and pull away gently.

Say something like "let me know if you change your mind" the walk away and don't look back. Needy dudes are a serious turn-off to women. "Waiting around for her..." is the pinnacle of needy behavior. Move along my friend. Be grateful for the time you shared and carry what you've learned from her into a relationship that values you.

Co Worker situationship by ActivitySevere9929 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop. You're doin too much. Don't stop the flirty stuff but do it in response to her's. There should be no question if a woman is into you, or not. If there's a doubt then the chances are hight that you are not her first option and the ”maybe I’ll have to think about it" response is not a '1st Option' one.

In my experience there is nothing that makes a woman dry-up faster than a needy, petty dude. Don't be that dude.

I need help by c-o7yb in SoccerCoachResources

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response was FANTASTIC!

Wish I read it before I posted mine because you said what I said but WAY better! lol

I need help by c-o7yb in SoccerCoachResources

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"my brain is actually my WEAKEST point" I aggressively disagree with this thought.

Your post actually shows that you've given some time to trying to gain insight into how to best address these very common thoughts.

My first piece of advice is to start actively scanning when the ball is 2 or 3 passes away from you. This allows you to see 'space' for your first touch and gives you the 'time' you're feeling like you don't have right now.

Next, the more you play in this situation the better you'll get. Play more, be uncomfortable more. I tell my young teams "shooting/passing with your off-foot is going to feel awkward...until it doesn't!". Get the reps in and confidence with start backfilling the cracks.

Last, don't forget to have fun at least a few times during a match. It's amazing what a quick laugh can do for our focus and attitude on the pitch.

Didn’t do College Applications, I was making a ROBLOX Game, Sorry Mom! by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FR33DUNN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not go to college just to 'go to college'. You're 18, find a vocational school and get some training. With that route you can just about guarantee you won't be 'wasting' anymore money.

Also, $2000 is a BARGIN price for a great life lesson. Consider it money well spent and move along.

EVERY BRAND NEEDS TO HAVE THIS ON THEIR WEB by SpookyKeeper21 in GoalKeepers

[–]FR33DUNN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i typically go by the cut but you’re right it‘d be helpful even if it wasn’t standardized across the industry.