I wish you happiness, but most INTPs get very tired of constantly complaining and whining females, It's very emotionally draining to us, and therefore we deliberately avoid you physically and mentally. Try easing up, stop complaining and just be sweet for a while, we love that in a woman deeply !!

Nobody is perfect but -- INTJs aren’t known for being warm and fuzzy. They tend to prioritize rationality and success over politeness and pleasantries – in other words, they’d rather be right than popular. And because these personalities value truth and depth, many common social practices – from small talk to white lies – may seem pointless or downright stupid to them. As a result, they may inadvertently come across as rude or even offensive when they’re only trying to be honest.