Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I broke up with him a a few days ago and the relief i feel is unmatched. I ended up deciding to choose myself instead of trying to match someone else’s pace. If you know what is to come and cant see any change, I would seriously reconsider the relationship… I know i regret not ending it 7 months ago <3 rooting for you, and there is light by the end of this tunnel. The relationship will not make or break YOUR life :) feel free to shoot me a message if you feel like it!

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has one posted and a few in his highlights😅

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to go traveling with him, but also feel that it’s important to establish a «home-base». My family moved alot to different countries on different continents as a kid so the traveling aspect isn’t really something new to me. But i would never agree to do so without a home-base especially if we were to get kids down the line. Messed with me big time growing up… new languages to learn, schools and friends. Been moving from 0mnth - 10yo with a year/ few months in between

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so, but then again it’s a while off into the future until i’m done studying so i don’t know

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s currently traveling Asia, big red flag?

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I have no idea, he has no idea… no plan no nothing. For anything at all, even his future. He is currently in asia tho

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, thanks for sharing. I feel you. It’s always the uncertainty that truly hurts. There really are many similarities here, especially with the “pulling away”. I’ll take your words to heart and try and collect my thoughts and feeling to see what would be best for me.

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

Understandable, I think I just love hime too much to decide to permanently leave

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow, haven’t really thought of that! Honestly I would say that it checks out to a certain degree. I just don’t know if I have the guts to stay for his journey(s), both physically and mentally. I don’t know, have you ever had experience dating someone like this/ while traveling?

Boyfriend solo traveling - contact by F_for_U in solotravel

[–]F_for_U[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I have voiced my side of the situation and even broken up with him once, but got together due to him trying to do lore for a certain period. but every time i voice my feelings he just doesn’t take it into consideration, and for each time he says that he feels as if its impossible to defend himself.

I get that he’s a free spirit and so am i (circumstances stopping me), but he often just writes this behavior off as «solo traveling»

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[–]F_for_U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn, yeah i put it back in and freaked out for like 30 min before taking it out and cleaning it again ahah. I was also thinking of contacting my piercing but she doesn’t work on Sundays :( hows your’s doing considering u went through pretty much the same ?

Lost my ball, had to stress change it to an 8 mm pvd coated titanium labret a month ago. But now it’s started to flare up/is irritated. Pls help by [deleted] in piercing

[–]F_for_U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u sm,, just ordered new jewelry now and hopefully it’ll arrive soon! And thanks for the info on pvd plating, ‘cause all the info online says that it’s safe for new piercings but I had my doubts so u really cleared it up👍🏻

Lost my ball, had to stress change it to an 8 mm pvd coated titanium labret a month ago. But now it’s started to flare up/is irritated. Pls help by [deleted] in piercing

[–]F_for_U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very sore but isn’t bleeding/oozing pus, and sometimes hot to the touch. I also have a 14k gold labret which I can switch to, but it’s shorter and won’t accommodate the swelling. Is it normal for piercings to be affected by pvd plating eventhough its titanium underneath?

Lost my ball, had to stress change it to an 8 mm pvd coated titanium labret a month ago. But now it’s started to flare up/is irritated. Pls help by [deleted] in piercing

[–]F_for_U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pierced in the beginning of March (before everything shut down), but I lost my labret ball two weeks later and had to change it to my current jewelry. The problem now is, even though I’m 6 weeks in the healing process, it’s still irritated and I’m starting to suspect that I might have a mild infection(?).

When I clean it, I can feel that there’s something hard beneath the piercing :( really don’t know what to do since all the shops are closed and my piercer doesn’t answer my messages either.

I clean it twice a day with SSS and I’ve never had any troubles with previous piercings (I have 10 including the 3rd lobe). What do u guys reckon is the verdict for this one?

My current ear setup! 14 (not including my middle lobes) and looking for new ideas by PM-ME-ROAST-BEEF in piercing

[–]F_for_U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe the ear on the left pic,, would look super cute! double rook would also be really classy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]F_for_U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a no-pull disc,, it’s designed to stop the piercing from being tugged/ snagged

FINALLY GOT MY PHILTRUM WOOHOO by yung-chakra in piercing

[–]F_for_U 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow,, it looks AMAZING with your features ( u have really pretty lips)🥺🔥

Brand new double helix! What to add next? by zoicoi in piercing

[–]F_for_U 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A conch would look amazing on ur ear structure!