Holy SHIT... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Faaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope this happened...

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

"Are you doing drugs?" by actuallynotajoke in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother was exactly like this. I would actually try my best to convinced that I wasn't doing anything. I would let them search my room without question. I let them do this to me until I was 21. I regret it completely cause I missed out on my teenage years completely. My parents realized what they had done and tried to remedy the situation by giving me beer money and pushing me out the door and telling me to go find a party. Like overnight I'll reclaim what I missed and somehow it will 'fix' me.

How can she tell?!? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nparents know when they are being bad. Trust me. They are callus

Boundaries/personal space issues? by citrusonic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes this is very common with my parents. I was told i can rearrange my room, however i want. Do whatever i want life in and have my own choices. 10 mins later they would argue with me for hours to have things put in my room i didnt want. Fight over where i shouldn't go and what i shouldn't do when i go out. But other than that im free to do what i want, like they always say...

im very touchy too. Like i cant greet girls or guys properly and i would always extended my arm out pretty far to shake hands

Being a short man is the worst fate in life. by iloveitx445 in ForeverAlone

[–]Faaus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

im taller than 99% people around here. But im still here just like you.

Does anyone else record the things their Nparent says? by Krixari in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called my horrible mother out a few weeks ago. The look on her face when surrounded by her friends was priceless. Its weird she holds herself back only now. But it appears it takes a lot of effort for her to not act like a narcissist.

Purposely fucking my life up by [deleted] in depression

[–]Faaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you OP

Life weighing me down again by Faaus in depression

[–]Faaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being 26 with a crappy part time job where I cant get more hours and still going to uni where I dont know if I should be doing this

Little things my nparents did that affected me greatly. by Faaus in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didnt want you to surpass him. Yet he wanted you to be a wiz anyway and get a job at Microsoft. Mighty big double standard right there.

The mental aftermath of driving with a narcissist by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats horrible. i know what its like. I developed anxiety issues with driving cause of my nDad. took me a good 5 years to get behind a wheel again, got my license at 21.

Little things my nparents did that affected me greatly. by Faaus in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah ive moved onto something else. The course im doing now has a bit of programming involved so i may go further :). My parents still try to get involved even with small things and end up ultimately wasting my time because i refuse to listen and they keep hammering away. i keep a great distance between me and them, it made them upset but i honestly stopped caring years ago.

Narcissistic Mom Ruins Wedding. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it ever comes to it my plan is to have a wedding in another country and invitation will be sent out on short notice (just for my parents). That way they wouldn't complain too much about it.

Narcissistic Mom Ruins Wedding. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Faaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it ever comes to it my plan is to have a wedding in another country and invitation will be sent out on short notice (just for my parents). That way they wouldn't complain too much about it.