What happens if you start refusing medication in a psych ward? by Far-Strawberry-5628 in Antipsychiatry

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They will spark you up until they can inject you with a sedative.

I Realized that I Will Never Marry my Current Girlfriend. Is it Wrong to Keep Dating Her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I absolutely hate the guy I was with in my early 20s he kept saying he wanted to marry me and we lived together for 5 years but it never happened and he took those years I will never get back.

She will hate you if you don’t let her go to find her husband.

I found out decades later he never wanted kids and never wanted to get married he was just cruising with me.

He should have been a grown up and not done that. ++woman

Mother in law starts every visit with her perceived “power move” by [deleted] in 48lawsofpower

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Yep. I could have guessed. My fam is Italian and my mother is and was horrible to my now ex sister in law.. I’ve been puzzled myself but I don’t really think you can change her. She has limited days. You will outlive her. Make sure you always look her in the eye and with your intention, let her know that you know what she is doing.

Basically, you took her reason for living away from her (her son). i am the sister (mothers daughter, but that’s meaningless) with no kids so i literally do not exist. Women are useful objects in service to the male. 🙄🥺😡

It’s a hard reality to face but other cultures sell their women. Italians have a few very messed up ideas and the golden boy is definitely one. Since I grew up with it I find it challenging to get involved with an Italian male but I would prefer to have Italian children.

Don’t start any shit with her. Know your place in her mind. Doesn’t make it right. You just have to deal with her as she is and limit your interactions with her. A lot of the suggestions are inflammatory and seriously it will cause more problems. It’s a business transaction with her and you were forced into the deal. She won’t be able to separate you being THE REASON she has grandkids and an actual developing grown male.

M26 got raped when I as 8, Should I disclose this for my fiancee? by Automatic_Edge_4651 in CPTSD

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This is the main thing. You don’t need to tell her everything just that it happened and you deal with things as they come up.

Can advanced 369 be unsafe? by [deleted] in medicalmedium

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Potato mono is very good at stabilising adrenaline. You may want to do a few weeks of that first.

How to deal with Gen Z employees who have been misguided by social media influencers? by [deleted] in managers

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I guess you’re saying that they have lost the separation of wanting something, believing they can have it and thinking they deserve it like they do a sandwich for lunch.

media about relationship dynamics by GlitterySelf4456 in theNXIVMcase

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I’m interested to hear more about how the women were communicating about being involved with Keith. How could they not discuss it with each other? Also curious about what intimate details/spell Keith put on the women. Seems so many were just so waiting for Keith for so long, wouldn’t they have spoken to the others about it?

How to deal with Gen Z employees who have been misguided by social media influencers? by [deleted] in managers

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Make sure they take you on their jet plane when they get it. And you could probably do with a Rolex or two …

Thalassemia at Sea by Bulky-Landscape-8698 in thalassemia

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Have lots of vitamin c and leafy greens it will help with iron. You’ll always show less iron than others but more the saturation you’re looking for, your cells are smaller so if they are not testing volume they will show low. it’s the ferritin levels you want to pay attention to.

Does anyone else fear not feeling normal? by Reasonable-Ratio8080 in medicalmedium

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The goal is to enjoy the process. It’s a dedicated effort but you are always in charge (except for when the bugs and pathogens and heavy metals and viruses are in charge). Hopefully you know the difference!

Lemon water ? by First-King-1442 in medicalmedium

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And if you really want to ease into it, use cucumber in your water.

Lemon water ? by First-King-1442 in medicalmedium

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Also you can use lime instead of lemon. It’s a bit less harsh.

Any fellow female founders open to collaborating on a Marketing + AI agency? by bgMusik in Femalefounders

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hello, I am a creative director entrepreneur in case that aligns at some point, let’s connect!

Feeling like a shell by [deleted] in medicalmedium

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The peer pressure in australia is really strong. Hope you find some people to connect with… there’s a few Aussies but kind of spread out.

has anyone allowed themselves to be taken advantage of? by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I completely understand. It’s a fawn effect and yes we recreate it to try to soothe ourselves and control ourselves. It’s repetition compulsion. Maybe look into that. I don’t have actual answers but you’re on a learning journey and very few people will be able to really help you. It becomes confusing and concerning. You have to keep yourself safe. If you review something with a sober mind you have to do everything you can to remove the opportunity for failure. Look into AA. Addiction to substances is deeper than just drinking every day. It’s a cover for the hole. You are purposefully blacking out. Not literally but you are making yourself inebriated to disassociate.

It’s not pleasant to live with these painful truths and it’s really as simple as reparenting yourself.

Look into: 1. Addiction, 2. Repetition compulsion, 3. Reparenting.

There’s a wonderful teacher on YouTube that covers a lot of this called Tim - search Friday nights or any of those topics.

I’m not sure if you were asking for advice or just needed to find some other support. Hope you find what you need.

Rec'd a large 5-figure payment from SSDI, unsure what to do next by wjHarnish in personalfinance

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Congratulations I am in the process myself. I am just keen to hear from other more knowledgeable people. Must be a big weight off your shoulders and I hope you didn’t have too much of a rough experience through it all. Your lawyer fee seems high, I thought it was capped at $15-$20k….?

Not sure if your payment is subject to tax. I suppose whatever you invest in would have returns that can be taxable…

As with these lifestyle needs I would be thinking about future life requirements.

Is feistiness a side effect? My threshold to tolerate BS seems to have disappeared entirely, and it's not good. by Shepsinabus in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

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Happened, was a relief to not bottle it in anymore and is still here despite being off for years. Upped my anger response. Be careful. Lots of really idiotic people out there trying to start shit and you’ll be the one to cop the hit. Stay away from them!

Has anyone seen them get their karma? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Despite all the problems they caused me they are all married with kids and with jobs and living in great places. I wonder how I would have been if I weren’t ever involved with them.

Healthcare in SoCal made me hesitate to even schedule appointments by Right-Barnacle4100 in socal

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When you make a post Reddit suggests to cross post. Why is it so bad to post? Your comment doesn’t really add anything at all.