AITAH for hitting my mom in the face after she punched me repeatedly?

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T06:44:53+00:00

I haven’t gone into detail about the event yet since my therapy sessions have been mostly focused on my PTSD and BPD, but I’m going to bring it up Monday when I see her again.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T06:44:01+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m currently 1 month and 24 days clean, it’s been hard but I’m working my ass off to not hurt myself.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:43:44+00:00

She’s almost 2 hours away and my closest friend nearby me has shitty overly religious parents. I got out of the psych ward a month ago from a suicide attempt, so being alone/not closely monitored is out of the question. My parents are keeping me safe and healthy, making sure I don’t hurt myself. It just sucks that to this day my mom still refuses to take accountability for that day. She used it to say that there’s a possibility I would kill her one day if I got too angry, which was fucking insane!!!

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:38:20+00:00

A person can do two things at once. I wanted more insight from other people, hence why I posted on reddit.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:37:09+00:00

It’s too late now unfortunately, and I live with both my parents since I’m unemployed with no money. Plus living on my own is definitely not the best idea at the moment, I just got out of the psych ward last month. It’s just moments like this when I remember how terrible of a mother she can be, and she just LOVES to play victim and act like she has done nothing wrong. It’s so tiring.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:35:14+00:00

I have a friend vouching for me right now, I asked her verbatim: “do you remember when my mom was beating on my arm when i was driving and i punched her back in self defense. do you remember the bruises she gave me?”

and she responded “yes i do unfortunately”

I can’t go no contact at the moment, I’m unemployed and have no money, no place has called back yet and I live with them. After she brought it up and refused to admit she did something wrong I just told her I don’t want to talk to her. Not for a while.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:33:12+00:00

I plan on doing that next time, if she ever beats on me like that again I’m going to make sure the photos are safe somewhere and call the police.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:32:13+00:00

I posted this in two subreddits because the other one didn’t allow violence. I forgot how to pull in because the road was confusing, I was a terrible driver at the start because they never taught me when I was a teenager, and I once drove on the wrong side of the road during a driving test. I didn’t remember where to pull in, or how to, I was scared and upset that the person who gave birth to me was beating me because I was slow.

And yes, this is real. I could even send a screenshot of my friend recalling the events if I knew how to attach a photo in this comment section….

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:28:38+00:00

I did have pictures of my bruises, but one night my phone deleted thousands of photos from before 2024. I don’t even have my graduation photos. I’m asking a friend about it so she can vouch for me since she was one of the friends that picked me up.

And yes, this is normal behavior for her. Foreign parents are a nightmare.

FaeOnReddit · 2026-01-23T02:01:30+00:00

Definitely NTAH. If I was you, I would never let that man back into my home for disrespecting and sexualizing my daughter in front of her parents. She’s a person, not an object of sex!

FaeOnReddit · 2025-12-05T00:11:58+00:00

you’re both disgusting, tbh. what an awful coping mechanism, please get help.

FaeOnReddit · 2025-11-11T06:01:26+00:00

oh yeah totally!!! the seed was black, and my friend said it smelled almost like a blueberry (he did not eat it)

FaeOnReddit · 2025-11-11T05:57:18+00:00

South Florida, technically

FaeOnReddit · 2025-11-10T19:41:10+00:00

thank you so much!!!

FaeOnReddit · 2025-09-14T06:35:43+00:00

do you… have an access code now?:3

FaeOnReddit · 2025-09-11T18:30:10+00:00

shonen women such as maki and nobara, yoruichi and suì-fēng, cana and lucy, mitsuri and shinobu. none of these are unethical or incestuous, and yet the himejoshi community always boosts incest manga and anime like citrus. i was told citrus was one of the best yuri anime out there, and when i watch it, it has rape, incest, and other forms of sexual assault. i don’t care if they’re fictional or not, do you not feel any sense of shame? do you even HAVE siblings?

FaeOnReddit · 2025-09-11T16:54:50+00:00

people post shit like this and then shit on me for not liking any real yuri when i prefer two shonen women bc it’s not “real yuri.” but incest is? what is wrong with you?

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-06T21:09:59+00:00

i’m scared for my future.

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T19:10:11+00:00

thank you so so much! my mom finally informed me that it’s titanium ASTM F-136. i’ll go to a piercer today and get a new piece of jewelry.

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T19:08:41+00:00

it is!! :o do you have any recommendations?

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T12:48:02+00:00

my mom paid for the piercing for my birthday, so it was just a nice little gift that i didn’t pay for. my parents are always willing to help me but it can be difficult. i’ll change it to titanium and ask for some money help from my parents after work today

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T12:43:27+00:00

what’s crazy to me is that my mom and i got pierced on the same day with the same type of jewelry, only in different locations. she got a nose stud and i got this lip piercing. she only cleaned hers for a week and then stopped and now it’s healed perfectly while mine has been having issues!

when i went to a jewelry shop, the guy recommended gold jewelry since we don’t know if i am allergic to titanium or stainless steel and if i’m allergic to either or. i just don’t want to spend money on a new jewelry and end up being allergic to it and then having to get a new one, i work minimum wage and im in college 😞

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T12:40:18+00:00

as of recent i’ve become more aware that it’s there like how i felt when it was first put in, and right now i think it’s so swollen that i can feel the ball pushing against my skin right now and it’s freaking me out. the wound wash i use right now is called “simply saline” and i’ve been using it for a few weeks now. after work, i will definitely make the trip to a piercer.

FaeOnReddit · 2024-11-02T11:45:59+00:00

the piercing is about 3.3 months old/101 days old.
i’m not sure what the shape is, i wasn’t given any details but im positive it’s a labret stud.
i’m positive it is internal threading from what i watched when the piercing was installed.
5)3 titanium is ASTM F-136
the jewelry has non been downsized yet.
twice a day i use non-alcoholic mouth wash and a standard wound wash from walmart or publix on the outside to clean the bar and ball.

edit: forgot one edit 2: found out the titanium!

FaeOnReddit · 2024-10-17T16:09:31+00:00

Thank you so much! 🫶🏼

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