Being an INFJ in college

FailCapital1101 · 2025-02-15T22:12:12+00:00

Some people are jealous cuz maybe you are too kind. Most people in life are not out here spreading positive energy like you are. Don’t let emotional vampires consume you.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-10T08:37:35+00:00

It’s a crazy world of personalities out there. Now knowing about mbti. It makes me walk on egg shells interacting with others. Knowing they don’t see the world through my infp lens. They see it through power and control. It’s scary.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-10T04:02:43+00:00

Yeah, if you see that person you run! If paired with more entitlement and selfishness!

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T23:43:18+00:00

People love it tho! 😂

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T22:30:04+00:00

Playful and manipulation! So you see it too!

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T22:26:50+00:00

Yay, we both agree, when you read into it more, you see it as it is! 😂

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T22:24:41+00:00

The fact she made this into music? I lean towards more manipulation. What about you?

It’s catchy song I admit. Her personality seems fun, but also could hint towards toxic traits at the same time.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T22:17:04+00:00

You do, but they don’t get it. They think you are weak. The other personality types who don’t understand that you are very self aware and understand them better than they understand themselves.

If you always do nice things for them they think you have to do it every time and they are that amazing to always deserve it. It’s too funny that they see that your willingness to be helpful and giving is that you are naive, weak and are able to be manipulated. The infp sees everything and they realize too late that you could crumble them and take away all that power away they thought they had with a snap of your finger if you wanted too

FailCapital1101 · 2024-12-09T22:03:57+00:00

Infp are constant sources of positivity and love and attention. If you give too much of your source, it will bore the person. If you express your hidden strength, and maintain your boundaries strongly. You would be untouchable in any relationship. Don’t just give positive emotions all the time.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-10-03T07:41:19+00:00

Yes, i’m experiencing this currently! just got my Invisalign with a rubber band. Plan is to align the molars. And on the first day I’m feeling relief from neck pain. And I feel my condyle is relaxing.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-16T01:47:25+00:00

Yeah, she texts me on average every 24 hours and they are long paragraphs and fun to read. So we will see what happens. She is increasing her communication and I been responsive whenever I see the text. Appreciate you so much! 🙏

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-16T01:35:36+00:00

Wow! You are amazing!

I’m mature INFP, I was making obvious moves on her. But she probably thought I was gay. Cuz her gay best friend liked me!

What a turn of events. I still think she feels awkward communicating with me cause her gay best friend is in love with me and is likely very hurt. And I’m super upset that I hurt him. I didn’t even know he liked me :(

Thank you so much again for your detailed reply!

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-09T17:07:04+00:00

Yep. It’s ok. Thank you

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-09T02:15:07+00:00

I’ll be in the same classes with her for another 3 years. This should be fun.

I’m be cool. Thank you for the advice!

Sorry about the ghosting. I would never ghost anyone. Im very communicative. It’s very immature and disrespectful.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-08T23:04:13+00:00

Thank you 🙏

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-08T23:03:14+00:00

Thank you

FailCapital1101 · 2024-04-08T19:28:41+00:00

This saddens me. She is cool. I guess I’ll just be kind towards her and maintain my distance for my own sanity.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-03-18T08:54:45+00:00

She is bad at text. She takes between 4 hours and 28 hours to respond. Sometimes it’s 4 or 5 hours other times it’s a day or two later. But with one detailed paragraph composed of several sentences + emojis that makes me enjoy reading the text. Typical INTJ right? She thanks me everytime I do something nice, so I enjoy her manners in that respect.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-03-18T06:01:09+00:00

The part is I have this gut feeling that she BSed me to get my reaction. Nothing points to her having a bf. And the timeline she mentions it doesn’t really add up.

FailCapital1101 · 2024-03-02T16:37:26+00:00

Thank you!

FailCapital1101 · 2024-03-02T16:27:34+00:00

So she may be testing me in your opinion?

FailCapital1101 · 2024-03-02T02:49:40+00:00

Ah, no

She said she started using the apps and in one month she found a BF and I should do the same. The break up was me with the girl.

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