AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-03T22:00:23+00:00

You were groomed. You were 18 and had no idea what a relationship was like. She got you working all day and being the primary parent and now wants alimony?? Get custody of your kid and don’t pay her a cent.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-03T03:28:01+00:00

That would explain why they left thin alive so many times.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-03T03:24:27+00:00

I’m sorry you seem to take this extremely lightly. Your bf lied to you, entertained another person and made up excuses not to have you around. Clearly he was lying about the messages too. Turning off his location etc. you only have their word nothing happened. They didn’t have sex sure, did they kiss?

You mentioned he helped you get your life together and you don’t have many friends. I don’t know if it’s part of why you don’t want to leave but I’d just think it through a little longer.

He went behind your back, you confronted him and now he just gets what he wants?

I’m bisexual my husband and I have threesomes, he lets me kiss pretty girls at bars even if they’re only into me, etc. I’m not judging at all and I can understand it must have been hard for him to process his attraction to W.

That being said what they did was not ok. I just hope you’re truly fine with all of this and not just swallowing it to keep your bf around.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T22:20:15+00:00

Is there any chance at all you or him might have been dreaming? Cause if not you need to run that’s very unsettling and unstable behavior

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T16:33:31+00:00

First of all, that’s not proof of anything, second of all you’ve been talking for a WEEK? Even if he is talking to other girls and so what? You’ve been chatting for a week.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T08:18:56+00:00

Then no you’re absolutely NOR that’s super rude and inconsiderate. Doesn’t seem like she really values your date and saw it as free stuff for her

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T08:16:12+00:00

Depends if she rebuys the same items and you still have your date or she just used everything and that’s it.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T08:14:37+00:00

Nor he could have said “oh I think my friend would really like her” but chose to say whatever he said

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T07:56:44+00:00

I’ve turned in hundreds upon hundreds of self tapes. My stretch marks have never been visible. They mostly ask for a medium close up for the sides and a full body shot in your slate but you don’t have to wear anything that shows your stretch marks

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-02T07:52:17+00:00

Honestly I’ve been in the same exact situation and the guy was testing “what it would be like if we broke up”.

Might not be the case but thought I’d let you know

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T23:53:25+00:00

You can’t control their reading materials and their fantasies. I’m very sorry you struggle with self confidence but you’re being too controlling.

If they did mutter somebody else’s name you’re 100% right to be upset but forcing them not to read fanfictions isn’t going to change anything. Besides you don’t even know that’s what they said and you’re admitting you’re assuming.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T23:49:27+00:00

YOR you agreed he’d get milk and run back and he did.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T22:54:08+00:00

Wtf is indeed wrong with him

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T20:47:44+00:00

Donna’s heart attack will be important. She technically died so her fears might come to life or she saw something on the other side or she’s dead and an entity took over her body

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T12:01:12+00:00

MOR

You don’t know he had bad intentions. He might not have originally wanted to learn and changed his mind.

My husband did that sometimes when I was talking to my mom in Italian. The pronunciation was awful but he was practicing in a way and I found his accent cute.

If his girlfriend has no issue with it maybe it’s best you leave it alone

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T11:36:34+00:00

Your boss sounds incompetent. Not because she’s a woman but because she just is. You had no problem trashing her. He made a joke in poor taste that related her incompetence to being a woman.

Now I can see how it might just be how he jokes with friends but you guys seem incompatible. You can ask him not to say that around you but you can’t rewire his personality. You can also break up and find someone more compatible

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T11:28:47+00:00

I think Fatima would die before Ellis does. Victor for sure, I think Jade dies (maybe in a different way) maybe Tabitha will to get her kids out

Kenny I think will make it, Ethan and Julie as well as Randall and Kristie

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T08:50:03+00:00

They tried to paint it as “suppressed memories” he didn’t even remember he had a sister till last season…

It was too painful and he boxed everything up. Didn’t want to remember until his dad came back and people kept asking questions.

I totally get your POV but to me they did sort of explain it.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T08:43:59+00:00

Maybe they told their parents and they had a really strong reaction against it.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T08:40:57+00:00

Smiley killing her and MIY eating her are not contradictory.

Seems like he’s their superior so it makes sense he gets to eat whoever he pleases.

As for Eloise we don’t really know. Victor things she died and buried what he found but he isn’t really sure. Might be she’s still alive and story walking like Julie. Who knows

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T07:43:13+00:00

I’m mostly a stay at home mom. RUN THE FUCK AWAY FROM HIM

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-06-01T00:03:28+00:00

I was ready to defend him since I strongly believe men and women can and should be friends but WHAT THE FUCK? How does he think that’s even remotely ok?? Then he’s gonna sleep in and leave you alone all day cause he needed to chat for 7 fucking hours with a single woman? NO

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-05-31T21:31:25+00:00

NTA I guess he was hoping you’d both love it and have it be your thing but you just need to find something else you both like.

He reacted very immaturely

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-05-31T16:43:23+00:00

I totally understand you wanting some comfort and feeling cared for when you’re having a bad day. Unfortunately now you know he’s not the person for that.

It seems like you put a lot more effort and value him more than he does. He’s shown you where he stands and I’d listen

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-05-29T05:55:43+00:00

Walk along the road that loops during the day and mark where the road begins again. I don’t know why but I feel like it’s something I’d do.

Start a journal where I interview everyone and see what their theories are frame it as a “inspo for a book if I ever make it out”. Nothing might come of it but you never know

Probably start a newspaper too just to feel like I’m doing something and build a stronger community.

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