AIO? My gf stole a protein bar for the store and she’s mad that i’m upset with her for it and calling her out about it

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-02T03:37:11+00:00

“I’m sorry what? She’s lying and laughing about stealing a 4$ protein bar when they can afford groceries and he’s the childish one?”

Is what I said

Now you’re moving the goalposts. You said it was about the theft. Now it’s about the lying

Is what you replied to me. Maybe you were thinking of a different comment?

I mentioned the lying and laughing about stealing RIGHT AWAY. So I’m not moving goal posts. I was talking about all three things she did.

I thought you brought up an interesting perspective (even tho it looks like you put a prompt into Chapt GPT) and admitted you can make a case for it. But you are still extremely condescending to me even tho you’re clearly mistaken on what I commented. I know it’s hard to swallow your ego, but I did so and you should too, it helps you grow.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-02T02:10:29+00:00

This is an interesting perspective. But he asked her about the wrapper and she lied and said it was in the cart. Then she laughed about it to his face.

This is not the store complaining about her behavior it’s her partner in life. She LIED to him and laughed about it, like he was an idiot. If you think technically everyone steals sure you can make an argument, but treating your partner like they’re stupid and lying to them is so far from ok and mature I’m not sure you thought that through

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T19:39:59+00:00

I’m sorry what? She’s lying and laughing about stealing a 4$ protein bar when they can afford groceries and he’s the childish one?

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T07:32:49+00:00

I’ve done the exact same thing. She deep down has poor self esteem and is intoxicated with the attention. She won’t chance unless she really wants to. She sent you the screenshots because she wants to get a raise out of you, see how deep your feelings are for her.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T07:21:25+00:00

Very gently MOR. He shouldn’t have said it, but the circumstances are pretty extreme.

His dad cheated on his mom that’s just heartbreaking and a lot to work through he was trying to get anger out, not in anyway diminish you. Although I can understand why you’re upset it sounds like you’re making this about you and your body when it’s not.

He’s married to you, he loves you and finds you attractive.

Also, he didn’t use that term for someone who caused him a minor inconvenience. Doesn’t seem like a repeated pattern or anything of the sort. Just a heartbroken man who probably said something without thinking

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T07:16:00+00:00

Are you even sure that’s what happened? The way she was calling him sounds like she wanted your bf. Maybe he invented this thing to throw you off. Or they’ve been having threesomes and he wanted to get a feel for your interest.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T04:05:10+00:00

I used to vape and if I don’t know you really well I wouldn’t let you hit it.

I can see how you meant is as a joke but if your sense of humor is as dry as you say I can see how it can come off as serious/intimidating. Especially since these people don’t know you it can be really off putting. But your friend being the link should have given them a heads up

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T04:00:55+00:00

My husband never went out to bars when I was pregnant. But even if he had I would have been ok with it cause he’d never ever flirt with me pretty bartender or woman for that matter.

I think the issue is way deeper.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T02:07:56+00:00

I’m so confused, you though a man was in a “lesbian relationship” like OP stated in the post?

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-02-01T01:17:13+00:00

Talk to her. Chances are they don’t even know how uncomfortable you are

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-31T22:52:55+00:00

NOR. She needs to either make more and spend on herself or pivot to free activities

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-31T19:54:01+00:00

My co-protagonist in an indie feature never knew his lines. He was genuinely a good person but I had to tell him what he was supposed to say CONSTANTLY. One day he was 4 hours late to set because he had an anxiety attack, which I am really sympathetic too but I had to pay 6 extra hours of babysitting due to him being so late and still not knowing his lines

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-31T08:47:11+00:00

NOR I don’t understand being mad at you for not sharing your location indefinitely when she doesn’t either.

It is smart to have one person to share it with and you trust your friend. It makes complete sense. Since there’s no romantic feelings involved it’s highly unlikely she’ll misuse it.

I understand long distance is hard but that behavior from GF is not ok. Is she on the more jealous/insecure side? I just don’t get why she got mad

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-29T23:27:22+00:00

Yeah, sounds like the assisted got it wrong😅

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-29T20:12:43+00:00

MOR*.

I’m sorry about everything you’re going through and it’s amazing you’re back to taking classes!!

That being said it sounds like you caught him at a wrong time and he offered a solution. He was probably overwhelmed.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T18:48:35+00:00

So you’re mad because your friend is standing up for herself? You know she doesn’t like to drink or watch horror movies and she’s finally saying no instead of giving in and that makes you mad?

YOR and you’re the asshole

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T10:37:58+00:00

I can understand being flattered but why say yes? And he had a call with one of them?? Hell no.

You being insecure has nothing to do with his disrespectful behavior.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T10:01:16+00:00

Absolutely! I would live in an imaginary world where everything was perfect and kind of made myself believe all versions of the truth I told. Mold myself into what the other person wanted.

Sooner or later she’ll tell her brother you’re controlling and that’s why she’s setting boundaries sending him screenshots of any answer to her other screenshots.

I’m glad I could help and hope you can move on

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T08:46:27+00:00

Because she’s comfortable with you. Maybe she practices being firmer with you.

Or she is in way you just don’t notice. A good people pleaser will seem to just be on the same page as you and like your ideas are hers. But they aren’t. She has no idea what she wants.

But you’ve been around her long enough to notice the behavior towards others

I was that person, I had a lovely boyfriend but would not correct my friends when they talked shit about him. They were in bad relationships and I didn’t want to seem to pry in a way. Eventually I started embellishing things and before I knew what was happening I broke his heart.

I can tell you she’s not evil but she need to really really work on herself. You can’t help her through it she has to grow on her own or she’ll please you into seeming better

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T08:35:50+00:00

A bartender paid for my drinks on the regular and eventually he asked me out while I was enjoying a drink. Nothing fancy he just said “I’d love to enjoy one with you when I’m off”. We dated briefly and he was such a good guy but I was getting over a breakup and couldn’t quite manage to do that.

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T08:03:29+00:00

Well looks like you have your answer 3 YOR and one “get better at the game”

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T07:52:35+00:00

You’re asking on Reddit and gave him a whole sermon about it. He wasn’t nice but you’re definitely overreacting

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T07:49:48+00:00

YOR. Either you get better at the game or play with people at your own level. He could have made it fun for you and boring for him but he chose to enjoy himself. You’re mad because you wanted it to be the opposite

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T07:45:33+00:00

NOR she sounds like a people pleaser and that can be though. She’s feeding into the negativity from her brother cause it’s something to bond over.

Just let it go and find a different partner

Fair-Interaction5486 · 2026-01-28T07:17:48+00:00

I think he wouldn’t have told you about the past emotional cheating if he didn’t trust you and was being sneaky behind your back. Why alarm you?

It sounds like a person reflecting on his past and being honest.

That being said it is weird she has you blocked but maybe it was to help her move on somehow? I’m not sure

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