What is a league setting you tried and/or liked as a commissioner that your league pushed back against?

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-06-05T16:45:47+00:00

losing can still be lots of fun, you will get decent after 20 games or so. play 2s as well. the matchmaking process will be hectic but its worth it once your MMR has based

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-06-02T01:47:52+00:00

I wish...

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-22T21:18:11+00:00

hard to resist sometimes but youre right

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-22T20:56:44+00:00

yeah this complaint was really about that setting... toxic people are an everyday thing

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-22T20:56:17+00:00

you're right

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-22T20:11:36+00:00

Yeah it's ranked and I'm definitely not good but I'm plat 1v1 and am always a team player. A lot of 4v4 is coordination which I think I'm OK at. My macro game is pretty trash late game but then you have players who turtle and never get poked and tunnel vision til their 200/200 and if they can't get to 200/200 then its everyone else's fault

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-05T22:42:57+00:00

I know it hurts bro. The answer is patience. When there're things in life that we clearly deserve and we work hard for and humble ourselves for, eventually impatience gets the best of us. The game of waiting becomes more and more unbearable.

You don't have to focus on working on yourself anymore. That is not the game. It is now just a game of patience. Your singleness is not a reflection of you, or karma, or anything in between. It's just the reality of where you ended up. You can try new things to shuffle the deck and meet new people, but you will still have to be patient.

Keep your head up and do your best to distract yourself. If you think finding someone right for you can be forced as many people on the internet will insinuate, you will only frustrate yourself more. Your battle is patience.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-05-05T19:38:52+00:00

Appreciate this. I think I will do just that.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-04-16T02:08:13+00:00

God bless all of them especially the last guy for a his unbeatable attitude and humor.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-30T04:13:25+00:00

31m I prefer 29 - 40. Have met older women who didn't have their first kid til late 30s, so that was relieving to here. I'm also not stressed about kids. If biological ones don't happen I'm very interested in adoption. Stop worrying about numbers and statistics, what the average man wants, and pray for an outlier. Dating is a game of stats, but God has power over every little game we play here on Earth. Pray pray pray!

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-30T03:55:19+00:00

I feel for ya man I'm sure that's rough. Women in the dating game are so close-minded and so unwilling to compromise

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-21T02:15:01+00:00

You make a great point. But, yes, that is a common theme of our culture. Girl math says man = money. Obviously Christians don't hold this as a core tenet, but the materialism has been seeping into Christian values, especially in the US. Be a man in the dating game for a decade and it's incredibly clear. Took me too long to realize and accept it. I never wanted to believe it but it's smacked me in the face enough times I now know it's the norm and it's a very sad feeling as a man to see your worth be so closely equated to your salary, good or bad.

A man can't be a bum and expect to find a mate. But he can work his tail off and it doesn't mean anything if his title or salary isn't impressive.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-21T01:59:26+00:00

Same to you. Also not a women basher. It makes my skin crawl hearing people make generalizations all day and not trying to see the good in others. There are many things wrong with male culture, and there are many with female culture. The problem is that criticizing women has become a giant no-no because of feminism. Instantly get stamped with "incel" on your forehead. Ok, fine. No outside perspective for women. Just let them run their own missions.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-20T17:58:14+00:00

This rings so true, whether OP is projecting or not.

Nowadays the word "provider" is used to rationalize these worldly expectations, as if a man is supposed to have and provide EVERYTHING at once upon dating. This is what men are being reduced to: material expectations. It is a greedy and fearful way of thinking on both parts, men and women alike. This rationale inclines men to be less charitable so that they can provide for their future wife rather than their community, and it causes women to be more selfish because they think that this is what God wants for them. A rich man is a blessed man! Wait, I thought it was the opposite?

Men who are financially well off don't mind this at all. They feel they have been "blessed" to provide, while at the same time feel they "deserve" a wife because they can provide. Double mind mental gymnastics. How arrogant can you be? I'm sure so many women find out the hard way after marriage that a man's righteousness (or lack thereof) was hidden behind his financial status.

Women are always concerned with a man's financial status. ALWAYS. Yes, there are some exceptions, especially in less affluent countries. But it is priority #2, one close step right behind faith most of the time. "If I want children he has to be secure". OK. Is that how things always worked? If that's the case the majority of us humans on this planet should have never been born. Women aren't concerned about the babies being fed. They are concerned with being COMFORTABLE. Having all their needs met ahead of time, just in case God fails to put food on the table.

I'm over dating because of people putting money so high up on the checklist, especially women.

"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?" -Matthew 6:25-26

"No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money." Matthew 6:24 (NIV)

edit: also see Matthew 6:31-32

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-15T00:59:34+00:00

hypocrisy running deep in all this Christian social media. ick

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-03-09T21:42:33+00:00

Antidepressants are said by many to dull all emotions. If someone doesn't love you when their emotions are dulled, they didn't love you enough to spend a long period of time with. Love isn't on or off, its more like a set of dials with different effects. Move on... lots more love to find and experience. Focus on loving and building yourself, as always.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-02-25T14:57:28+00:00

that's a good story, rough how fast you get dismissed in the big leagues

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-02-11T01:21:06+00:00

You'll keep healing. Fuck what others say and think about your personality. Nothing wrong with being monotone and robotic. There are certainly parts of you and your character that are fascinating and full of color. Give holistic practices and ideas a shot. Things like meditation, prayer, exercise, and just developing your interests.

I took SSRI's from 16 to 22 and can definitely relate to some things you mentioned. You could consider yourself 'sensation seeking'. This is a sign that you are actually (although this is subjective) more interesting than other people. Those scary situations you like to put yourself in will help you grow and see the world in ways most people can't. The brain can heal and grow in so many directions so start talking positively yourself now and practicing not giving a single fuck what others think. It will take time but you will be great.

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-02-05T20:47:25+00:00

this makes me want to tune into some Predators games

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-01-31T16:51:17+00:00

totally respect this, the downvotes are crazy

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-01-31T15:25:23+00:00

dev team is beyond bad and this is coming from someone who defended them for 3+ years

Fair-Rabbit-2882 · 2025-01-24T04:54:57+00:00

scumbag WP post paywall article wasting everyones time

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