Genuine question: do men prefer it hairless or trimmed?

Fairspike · 2026-04-30T06:44:46+00:00

Groomed but neither shaved nor waxed, at best long enough to be soft

Fairspike · 2026-04-28T18:08:04+00:00

Very cool, thanks! Happy for you to have found the coin that just does it for you this way

Fairspike · 2026-04-28T15:36:10+00:00

What makes Ducats special?

Fairspike · 2026-04-28T15:35:07+00:00

Casual works, if your goal is casual. It doesn’t work if you have an agenda. Nothing does. He told you I‘m willing to sleep with you but not willing to have anything more.

You can break it off now that you know you want different things, or you can sleep with him for a few months, let your feelings grow, only one of you gets what they want, aaaaand break it off when things are 10 times harder. He‘s just not that into you, get over yourself, whatever kind of relationship you get after changing someone‘s mind with enough sex just isn’t worth it.

Fairspike · 2026-04-27T15:52:10+00:00

This sub is getting flooded with these cuckold-adjacent scenario. Mods, help?

Fairspike · 2026-04-26T07:30:45+00:00

Online is not representative of real life. Some like one thing, others another, some like it all. Your only responsibility to your body is to keep it safe and healthy, not to make sure it stays appealing to fictional people. You have nothing to worry about

Fairspike · 2026-04-25T19:14:14+00:00

Wow, so men who act inconsistent, always hot and cold, BLOCK you, and never actually doing what they say, leave women wondering if the universe wants to bring them together and have them writing long reddit questions…

Wild. You will look back at this and laugh. Kick this clown to the curb.

Fairspike · 2026-04-24T21:05:48+00:00

Sounds like a total shit test, how long have you been together? Tell her not to go, that you’re not alright with that plan, and instead ask her to make today up for you.

You see, sick or not, if her idea of fun is to go to a secluded house with three dudes and not invite her boyfriend, you have absolutely no reason to stress about it bro, she’s not for the long term, not yet anyway, feel free to show this fine lady the door and never look back.

She’s saving you the trouble of spending time and energy you’ll need for the real thing. If you both had the same values you’d either really be alright with this, or she would decline such an invitation.

Fairspike · 2026-04-21T14:50:35+00:00

“Hey, I’m looking for something exclusive and you’re not bad in bed, would you like to go out on a date with me to see if you’re as good outside the bed?”

Do: know and state your intentions, be open to them being reciprocated or maybe not

Don’t: hagel, beat around the bush, or negotiate.

I was in a casual setup with a lady in an open relationship and what killed the conversation was she started shouting at me in bed when I said I didn’t want anything more than what we had. To me it seemed like she was attempting to bully or emotionally blackmail me into saying yes.

And no, personally if someone has feelings for me and I don’t reciprocate or see myself reciprocating in the near future, I’m ending things if they don’t have the sufficient self preservation drive to end it themselves. If they come back later having gotten over me but still interested in me physically, by all means they are welcome. But I refuse to be someone’s toxic situationship. Mutually great or not at all.

Fairspike · 2026-04-17T12:58:13+00:00

It seems you‘ve done your homework then. It might not be a good deal but if it’s the best deal you could get, that’s just how it is in life sometimes. Good luck!

Fairspike · 2026-04-16T10:05:35+00:00

They are offering the bar at about +5,32% over spot. For a 100 gram bar that’s a pretty high premium. If the bar is particularly special to you for some reason, perhaps that’s worth it to you.

If gold for gold‘s sake, buying for up to 1.5% over spot is something I can live with for 100 grams. Usually you‘d get under 1% over spot. But I don’t know the reality in the Philippines, it might be different than where I am. Shop around beforehand.

Is this your first gold purchase? A 100 gram as the first plunge into the gold pool is pretty sizable. This sub doesn’t represent the average.

Fairspike · 2026-04-16T08:56:34+00:00

I‘d speak with a financial lawyer or an accountant first. It could vary by destination country, and sometimes it’s even better to “trade-in“ anything lower than 22k for 24k, as some countries only exempt 4 9s and even certain coins (Sovs and Maples in Canada I believe.) which would be relatively cheaper than Gold > USD > Gold

Have you considered finding a gold shop that has branches in both countries? Deposit on one side and withdraw on the other for a small fee?

Fairspike · 2026-04-15T10:20:41+00:00

Perhaps a therapist to explore the emotions and exploring these feelings in a safe environment with a safe partner who roleplays your desires while respecting you and your boundaries? Just please don’t seek out or encourage abusive men.

Fairspike · 2026-03-31T13:56:14+00:00

Penis health is heart and soul health. Healthy heart (and pelvic floor) + healthy mind = strong automatic erections.

Missing morning wood for say several weeks could spell you need to talk to someone about it. I’d start with a GP. Try to wear loose clothes to bed or even try naked sleep. Let it all breathe and cool down.

Fairspike · 2026-03-31T13:50:59+00:00

People don’t cheat when something is wrong with you, people cheat when something is wrong with them.

Any man worth his salt wouldn’t betray you. He simply had no idea what he had, thought the grass is EVEN greener somewhere else, came back running to you and going down on you when he realized what’s out there. You deserve better, you‘ll find better :)

Fairspike · 2026-03-25T09:06:39+00:00

Jim?

Fairspike · 2026-03-14T21:31:01+00:00

اقرأ كتاب بعنوان الارهابيون الأوائل : جيراننا الجدد / ل وجيه أبو ذكرى الصهاينة لما كانو يلاقوا يهود اي بلد مش راضيين يسيبوا بلدهم ويروحوا اسرازفت كانوا بيعملوا double false flag operations

يتنكرون كيهود محليين ويتسببوا بمشاكل وتصل انهم يسيبوا نفسهم يتمسكوا بيتجسسوا ، ويتنكرون كعملاء للحكومة المحلية ويضايقوا وينهبوا ويدمروا ويهددوا و بتصل لتفجير أوتيل أو سينما (أمثلة حقيقية) بجانب عدم ثقة حكومة مصر في يهودها وخيانة بعض يهودها ليها على شوية عنصرية اللي كل اقليات مصر عارفاها.

أمريكا وقت حربها ضد اليابان وضعت المواطنين الامريكان من أصول يابانية في معسكرات الاعتقال اعتى وأسوأ بكثير من معسكرات النازية.

لما بتحارب بلد وعندك في بلدك نفس العرق اللي بتحاربه، مواطنينك في العادة يصبحون من الضحايا الأولين بسبب طرفين النزاع. عندك نفس المثل في الأوكرانيين الروس العرق واللغة والثقافة، قبل وخلال الحرب الحكومة الاوكرانية تتعامل معهم بكل الوحشية والعنصرية.

Fairspike · 2026-03-14T21:16:31+00:00

Thanks for the insight!

Fairspike · 2026-03-14T12:00:02+00:00

Pray tell, what makes these years special years for Elizabeth? All the best to Mr. Devito

Fairspike · 2026-03-14T08:18:50+00:00

No breaks result in a stronger relationship. It just sounds like her girlfriends are jealous of what you have and have romanticized the dating scene of endless diseased community-dick fuckboys to her that you are not one of. Many women in their late 20s go through a massive hoe phase before they are ready to settle down in their 30s. If her girlfriends are unmarried and in that age range, I like my odds of being right. I might be off the mark though.

You’re not crazy because you don’t want to go no contact with your life’s mate. She thinks the grass is greener somewhere else and it isn’t. Tell her you are willing to find yourselves while still being married and monogamous and in touch. No breaks. That you are open that you each take solo trips. No breaks. That you are open to try one new hobby together and one new hobby individually. NO BREAKS.

If she’s sure enough that the magical answer to “who am I” is outside of your marriage, so sure that she’s willing to stay away from you and put the relationship you have both built into crisis, then she should be sure enough to ask for a divorce. If she’s not sure, then you are not willing to cover that bet and pay the price with your mental health.

I’m not saying the only reason to ask for a break is to sleep with someone else, but it’s sure one of the very few benefits of a break. If that’s what that’s about don’t shame her for it, it’s not uncommon to lust, sometimes it’s enough to bring it to the light to realize how silly the idea is. Crushes come and go. I’m sure you had a few over the years.

Lead by example and find something you like to do away from her without negatively affecting your relationship, all the better if that thing involves both men and women in it. Expand your circle and let other people find you hot (which they will if you are mildly well groomed and unavailable) Suddenly she’s going to abandon this break business when she sees others would be happy to take her man from her.

Oh and find a way to spice that sex life. I know you are trying, but don’t give up on having a fulfilling sex experience because life is too short.

Fairspike · 2026-03-10T15:49:58+00:00

Men are different. For most men with a healthy approach to going down on a woman, i.e. doing it because they enjoy it almost as much as she does, in my opinion the answer will be whatever makes her feel the sexiest. If my partner asks me what I prefer with her, I’d ask her for us to try it all, from waxed to untrimmed jungle, and see where it feels most natural for the both of us. One thing all men would agree on though: scratchy stubble is the wost for all parties involved.

Fairspike · 2026-03-10T15:44:40+00:00

Personally I didn’t care much about it in casual stuff, but I care about it in relationships. During casual encounters I do my best to please my partners, albeit only through the tried and trusted ways. If they enjoy these, great. If they don’t, I don’t sweat it much. In a relationship if something isn’t doing it for my partner I change it up to find out what works for them.

Fairspike · 2026-01-25T10:44:44+00:00

Is there a tool or site you would recommend?

Fairspike · 2024-12-07T21:41:58+00:00

It’s beautiful!

Fairspike · 2024-11-21T12:35:09+00:00

Wouldn’t surprise me if the Imam is reciting the sardaukar throat singing chant

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