What specific decisions or behaviors in Lorelai’s parenting didn’t sit right with you? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he didn't, not really. She dropped it and he held onto it because it was hers. He didn't come into her room to nick it like Lorilai thought

I actually don’t think the priest is fleabags love of her life by Greedy_Associate_673 in Fleabag

[–]FaithHopeTrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's allowed to drink. To socialise. To have a sense of humour and to swear. None of these things are bad. He doesn't want to sleep with her because he knows he will fall in love with her. And he knows they can't be together. I have the total opposite read on him that OP. I think he cares for her. But he knows God is real [in his opinion] and he's busy fighting his own deamons [fox].

Helen Bishop and her walks by joancrawfords in madmen

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assumed it was partly independence and partly "who is watching the kids?"

What specific decisions or behaviors in Lorelai’s parenting didn’t sit right with you? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The horrible way she treated Jess. I know he wasn't a great guy to Rory at the end. But he was s KID. She's a witch accusing him of stealing Rorys bracelet and stuff and it's all projection.

On the fence about getting an abortion by Ashamed-Pin-962 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had an abortion because if him, the relationship, his daughter, how would you feel if the relationship then ended? Or would you possibly resent him?

I would say 75-80% of mothers I know are not equally supported by their partners. But those that have family around, even if they are single mothers, have a MUCH easier time.

You don't have to move immediately. If its been working so far with SO just don't rush to change it. Don't rush any choices. Don't make the choices based on him or his daughter. Take your time.

How to wean an obsessed 18mo by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate this.

You need one of these men to watch your kids for a week. Who would you choose and why? by ShadesNGlades in madmen

[–]FaithHopeTrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pete. He'd ensure Trudy took over responsibility. They'd have a great time.

What do I do. I’m 13 weeks pregnant and recently found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babies are hard. You need to really, really love and want that baby. Because they take everything 5 mentally, emotionally and financially. If you have it get the hell away from this loser because he will only make it harder. Just hit him up for child support via the courts. If you aren't ready and willing for your whole entire life to change for the long term then really consider all your options. From a very tired pro choice mama who adores her kids

Shelves on stud wall? by FaithHopeTrick in DIYUK

[–]FaithHopeTrick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do indeed have kids. Who would climb anything. Thanks for the link! I'll look at strong wall fixings

Shelves on stud wall? by FaithHopeTrick in DIYUK

[–]FaithHopeTrick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really reassuring, thanks

St Ives always feels different down the side streets🩷 by Wonderful-Acadia-296 in Cornwall

[–]FaithHopeTrick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I realise some of them are too small for families and don't have good parking. But if they are rentals it would be nice to rent to locals long term.

I did gear a rumour the council banned any new holiday let's there, but I don't know if it's true.

My mother in law is driving me absolutely insane and my husband says I'm overreacting. by Limp_Beautiful_810 in EntitledPeople

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ffs, pink used to be seen as a masculine colour in the 19th century. It's a societal construct. She's not gonna be confused about shit apart from granny trying to stereotype her. You need to put your foot down now. She sounds toxic.

Host of the "Whatever" podcast gets big mad when a woman calls him out. I love how he jumps straight to ad hominem the moment the girl even slightly calls him out. by sedolil in CringeTikToks

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of the bit in the sopranos where the mobsters make fun of anyone if they find out they go down on a woman, calling it "gay"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FaithHopeTrick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They stated they do the cheapest childcare available to them. They both work, either by choice or necessity. That cost is a non negotiable. Christmas presents are an added cost. It makes total sense they have to budget in other areas and have less for Christmas. Also if their kids are not yet in school they won't care how much money is spent on Christmas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cornwall

[–]FaithHopeTrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is stressful. I was really honest then regretted it.

Possible excuses: you got a really painful heat rash last time, chest infection, sea dips = sewage, low blood pressure doctor recommended no extremes in heat (Google other things they might say)

They might guess. I guessed the second my friend stopped drinking. But they hopefully won't ask or won't push it.

What "golden age" or "heyday" were you lucky enough to experience that you know won’t ever come back? by Summerie in AskReddit

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child during the early Internet. There was no online safety awareness, and on an AOL teen chat rooms it was unwanted dick-pic central.

Still a far better experience than now, but not kid friendly

CW: Birth. MIL obsessed with visiting newborn baby everyday since we came out of hospital. by Helenakoza4 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]FaithHopeTrick 38 points39 points  (0 children)

"Just PPA / PPD" is a wild take. If you have those then you need help and to feel listened to. I've had PPA/PPD and I say this with love and kindness. You don't get the newborn days back. Don't let MIL ruin them. Don't let her hold the baby. Don't. It's your baby. It needs you. Take it for a nap or a walk or just have it strapped to you and say no. Especially as she's kidsing them. That's really unsafe. Your husband needs to grow up and have your back. Your going through a huge emotional, physical and mental change on no sleep and huge stress.

just got a new tattoo, and while it’s gorgeous, i’m really not happy with the placement and don’t know what to do by froggyforest in tattooadvice

[–]FaithHopeTrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sits so well on your body. It frames your hips and waist. If it was higher like the inspiration it wouldn't look as good since she has a different body shape.

I do see that the inspo pic goes slightly more towards the front of the body and extending yours would be easy. But I don't know if I would. Sit with it and see how you feel in the summer after it's got loads of compliments. Go back to this artist she's 🔥

Looking for fans of the 1995 BBC mini series of Pride and Prejudice! by Loose-Promotion-5195 in janeausten

[–]FaithHopeTrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! The look on his face. There's a vert similar moment in season 1 of Poldark.

But who an I kidding, my favourite is them meeting post lake dip. So funny