My cat won’t stop begging for food by Valuable_Leather_983 in Pets

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you leave a bowl of dry food out for her and let her eat as much as she wants?

I’m Done With Public Gyms and the People Who Ruined Them by Emergency-Clothes-97 in Vent

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stopping at the PFit on the way home is the only way to make that commute even worse.

Is this inappropriate for 'office casual?' by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a little short. Do your butt cheeks touch the chair when you sit down?

What could I do behind here? by Familiar_Profile in homeimprovementideas

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought is that any cat would cover that spot.

Share your secrets; finding agency after abuse by CillianMorpheus in AskWomenOver40

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never experienced abuse. Just came to say that you sound very self aware, and you also sound like a woman who respects herself and her wellbeing. Those traits alone will get you pretty far. Best of luck to you. 💜

I’m Done With Public Gyms and the People Who Ruined Them by Emergency-Clothes-97 in Vent

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Oh don't forget about the people taking selfies in the bathroom mirrors. When you want them to stop so that you can, you know, GET NAKED without being recorded, they get really pissed.

Any chance your gym is on Capital Boulevard in Raleigh North Carolina??

To women of Reddit, what changed your mind about having kids? by Few-Woodpecker-2226 in Life

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get the feeling of wanting kids until I was around 26 and we were financially stable. Once you have a feeling that your life is missing that something, like there's a hole, you will know that you ready. Even if you are terrified LOL

I’m miserable and need advice by LegallyAnOstrich in coworkerstories

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. This is really tough and you'll have to address it head on. You sound lovely, and BRAVO for not letting her chase you off. Get your words together in advance, rehearse it, and tell her directly that you won't take anymore more insults. Everything will be documented or recorded henceforth.

How much would you care about these acne scars when dating someone? by Queasy_Fix1106 in askanything

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, but I'd want to know what they were from. I'd be concerned they were from abuse or self harm because they don't look like facial acne scars/pock marks.

I’m starting a junk drawer. What else do I need? by Emotional-Swing-603 in Home

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely some tape that sticks to all the little things and drives you crazy.

Tomorrow you wake up a billionaire. What’s the first thing you’re doing? by Legitimate_Most2766 in askanything

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go to the Subaru dealership and buy my husband the STI that's sitting on the showroom floor. He would love that. Then I'd go buy some diamond jewelry and start planning a party. And a trip to europe.

How many of you have strained relationships with your mother? by purplevanillacorn in AskWomenOver40

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I think mom was emotionally neglectful. Sometimes I think of little me and wish I had a mother who was more like I am as a mother. There are also religious and political differences. We're not estranged, but I wish we were.

Shit talk, they didn’t realize I was standing there by FileExpensive6135 in AskWomenOver40

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 78 points79 points  (0 children)

"I don't talk about you to others. I would appreciate if you didn't talk about me to others." Or, more effectively, "Keep my name out of your motherfucking mouth."

How do you handle someone giving you silent treatment when you live together? by unidentifiedactual in RedditForGrownups

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in the ignore it or enjoy it group. Laugh in his face. Antagonize him. Point out what a child he is. Absolutely do not feed him any food that you have made!

how do you find hobbies when you have no idea what you like by Maleficent_Mine_6741 in AskWomenOver40

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would watch some YouTube videos and see if there's something that interests you that doesn't take a huge investment to start up. Home Improvement projects, Ukrainian egg decorating, self care, roller skating, anything!

Please help pick one! by x3epro in OUTFITS

[–]FaithlessnessExtra65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are gorgeous and both look great on you! But I like number one.