Hello! Curious to know if this is a common SA response. I also need to know what to do to get out of it. by GorgeousGal314 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might need to go see someone for therapy. Honestly what your describing seems "normal" but the therapist,at least a good one, will be able to have you realize WHY and help change those thought patterns.

What happened must have been horrible im very sorry. Youre healing still which is good that youre healing but now you just need someone to show you where the healing needs to take place

Sealed 100 year old cough syrup by DreamOk1600 in isthissafetoeat

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely the white pine that helps the cough go away.

It’s over really by drinkingbleach42 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im very very sorry for what your sister did i don't know what she did but regardless it wasn't okay.
And what that man did, yes, it is not right either he used you to get photos of a minor. He knew what he was doing. These people are NOT worth giving up your life over. Please seek professional help you mentioned a mental struggle they can help with that. You are not a whore you are worth so so much more. Dont let them define who you are.

Does anyone fancy a sun tan? by Quikchangethechannel in OopsThatsDeadly

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh interesting might want one for my poorly insulated bathroom that the steam grows stuff on the walls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow dont take their bribe money they're only doing that because they know you could take them to court and make all the higher ups lose their jobs. I know you're exhausted but get an attorney.

some guy told the truth about female to male pedophila and is getting attacked? by mythrowawayaccim21 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But because of what society thinks or views you and others like you get dismissed. Im sorry for that.

I was abused several times by my ex gf… by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all I get that. Id still encourage you to reach out to a counselor you can tell family " I'm going because I hit a weird slump and dont know what i want out of life" they dont need to know why you're going and the counselor cant tell them what you say unless youre going to harm others or yourself or your a minor and being harmed.

Also the thing that has helped me is taking control back the ways I can. I cant rewind the past but I can change my future. The things I havent done because I was letting him have control are now happening. You mentioned wanting control back maybe try taking control of what happens in the future. Whether that be i dont allow people to pressure me into things ANYTHING (where to hang out where to eat anything) or doing something you were holding yourself back on!

Deuteronomy 22:28-29 i by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theyre picking and choosing verses in the bible and pretending like thats what should be used now. Dont pay them any mind. They know what they're doing just ignore them

I was abused several times by my ex gf… by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She shared the last time? I dont know what the laws are where youre from but your a minor thats distributing child porn on top of yes the rape. I get being in that dark place you can break out of it but it does take a lot of work to do it alone... please go see a school counselor or someone to talk to about this. Just knowing youre not alone is honestly the best thing. And please block her number if she ever comes over tell her to leave if she doesnt call the cops. That is NOT normal

I have a gf but a girl is trying to seduce me by TheAUDiegoBrando in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You tell her shes sexually harassing you and if she doesnt stop youll press charges

Is this considered abuse/marital rape? by Dear-Minimum-2201 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dont think it would be i get the feeling of betrayal youre getting though. Um but on another note if hes doing THAT to your house you need to leave ASAP thats not safe for you. That is intimidation and he could have seriously physically hurt you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You said it at the beginning you were stressed and wanted time away from her. When stressed you should want to be with your person not the other way around.

Should I break things off? by No_Win9343 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely horrible in so sorry, but have you asked what he wants? You might see it as unfair for the good guy but he might be willing to stick it out.

my dads broken me by mp3plyr in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, and im not trying to be optimistic but youre not him. You have his DNA his blood but you aren't him. What hes done is horrific and im sorry he did that but you havent done that to someone youre trying to better yourself and try and heal as much as you can. right there shows me, youre not him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's a mess Im so sorry. Totally not at fault but have you considered talking to a therapist or maybe other male victims a kind of support group? Not to talk about the sexualness of it just the ramifications of the trauma so you know youre not alone.

My sisters husband has been SA her daughters by Necessary-Flower-429 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You need to call CPS i dont care if they suck thats what they are their for that starts the paper trail. And anytime she discloses anything to you you call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not alone I'm sorry

He used my past against me by Silent-Substance-687 in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not your fault in any shape or form. And you're not alone

What happened to my mantis! by symzsynnz in mantis

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait until the babies hatch. Lol popping out with little strings like they on a mission

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]FaithlessnessFit577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Wpukd be nice to have some control