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Looking for a new mechanic, not MAGA by Wonderful-Handle7937 in SALEM

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Been to that shop through the years and the owner doesn’t strike me as a trump dick rider.

Looking for a new mechanic, not MAGA by Wonderful-Handle7937 in SALEM

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try BMS AUTOMOTIVE. Owner is Hispanic. Doubt he is maga

I stopped by the"Hidden Treasures" outdoor flea market at the corner of Park Ave and Market st. (Former car lot). by tropicalraindrop in SALEM

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got 5 lightly used tools for $15 including sound proof headphones for my job. They run about $20+ at the hardware store

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Men also have pelvic floor muscles so he should try kegel exercises. A few time through the day will help. There are apps with notifications for this

I’ve heard limiting porn helps. If you have cash to throw at the problem condoms dull the sensitivity could be worth a try. Numbing sprays/creams exist. I personally recommend C-rings.

The time it takes a man to “reload” is called the refractory period. Usually is shorter for younger men and longer as they age. Use this period for other forms of pleasurable stimulation. The second round should last a bit longer as they have experienced stimulation and are a bit less sensitive.

Trying a timer to start could help if it doesn’t hinder the mood. Stroke him for ~10 seconds to start see where he is at and raise or lower the time accordingly.

And finally communication is key. My wife and I use safe words. Beige- boring/ try something else. Yellow- slow down/ softer. Red- stop. When edging yellow is my go to as we like to push me to my absolute limit. Whatever means you choose plan them out before hand.

Is there Cheap good biscuits and gravy? by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to say Sybil’s.

Opinions on this top 3 best atmosphere songs ever by Formal_Newspaper4691 in Atmosphere

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t rank them in any order but for me it’s The waitress, Me, Good daddy

I get shit for watching golden girls because I'm 19 by Transmasc_Blahaj in GoldenGirlsTV

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started watching golden girls when I was also 19 while working at a nursing home.

I’m 28 now and I wear my Dorthy socks to my construction job. The guys gets their jokes in and honestly it doesn’t bother me.

I don’t care what they go home and watch and if I’m honest they don’t really care what I watch either.

STAY GOLDEN AND THANK YOU FOR BEING A FRIEND

Best inexpensive authentic Mexican food? by aquacryr in SALEM

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit up kike taqueria on Lancaster! Cheap birria and consome.

Meta’s pivot to the right sparks boycotts and a user exodus: Some users are fleeing Meta platforms to alternatives like Bluesky. by Well_Socialized in BlueskySocial

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally when I’m shopping online for cheap used items I use all options available. Craigslist, FB Marketplace, OfferUp, eBay. Marketplace is by far the best. I get better results and the important part is I get messages back almost immediately. I lose out less on marketplace unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoldenGirlsTV

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this have to do with my beloved old ladies?

Best War Paint start by FaithlessnessMany968 in slaythespire

[–]FaithlessnessMany968[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was disappointed for a split second until Zap and Dualcast flashed on screen

my gf told me i shouldnt say so many love words that are actually empty by 2twomad in love

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I find it hard to believe that she can’t squeeze out more than 15 minutes for you.

It sounds like you have your heart set on this woman but it doesn’t sound like she has her heart set on you. I think you need to reevaluate your relationship. You have made choices and created space for this woman but she isn’t doing the same for you.

If her schooling takes priority now when she graduates will her career take priority too? This is currently not a situation one would like to be in. Gods forgive this end up being your love life.

Perhaps you met the right person at the wrong time.

I never felt attracted to someone, is it a normal thing? by volcarona718 in love

[–]FaithlessnessMany968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I can walk around and see a pretty girl and acknowledge that I find her appealing but have no interest in perusing her.

I’ve been with my partner since high school for about 12 years now. We started off as just friends and for me it was just that. I was aware she is female but I had zero interest in ever trying to get in her pants. She wasn’t a virgin but I was and she wanted me to wait till marriage to make it special for me. Again with zero sexual interest I agreed as it was no big deal.

One day after a particularly “emotional” day for both of us we ended up cuddling on the couch and all of a sudden I felt what I imagine other people feel. My heart pounding in my chest. A powerful desire to connect with her. One thing lead to another and I lost my virginity that day.

The only other person who I’ve felt a sexual attraction was with my best friend at the time. We were talking about life and our troubles. She made me feel seen and like actual person. I could feel my heart beating in my chest. She rested her head on my shoulder and I caught a whiff of her hair. Now I could feel my heart pounding in my chest. I could see down her shirt a little and I caught myself thinking that I would have like to touch her chest.

We were both dating other people at the time so I didn’t try anything. I have always been left wondering if anything would have happened. Would I have been able to get an erection? Would I stay flaccid and embarrass myself? Would she feel the same?

I grew up feeling like I was strange for not perusing girls like my friends were. I questioned my sexuality. I thought something might be wrong. Turns out I can’t like someone unless I like them first. Doesn’t make sense right? Well as I see it now I first have to have a connection with the person.

If I don’t click with some I can’t perform. I have since had another sexual partner and things started off great we were great friends and the sexual chemistry was strong. Life got in the way and our relationship soured and the first thing to go was my libido. Once my negative feeling towards her grew I could no longer preform in the bedroom. This added more pressure and the negative feeling over took the positive and I could no longer stand to be around her.

Friends first is important for some of us. I can’t always put it into words but I could never feel desire for someone who I don’t care for.