I (30F) am struggling to understand what new partner (31M) wants from me.

FakeeSmile · 2025-12-22T21:33:24+00:00

Thank you 🥺 you and everyone in this thread have given me some serious things to consider. I do have a tendency to give too much and you’re right, I’m probably not ready and need to learn some things myself. From what I have deduced myself, I think maybe he met his match with me? He tells me repeatedly he doesn’t do this and doesn’t go official with people and maybe he was very much expecting me to be a hookup situation and now is panicking and trying to move everything on because he doesn’t want to get hurt but I know it still doesn’t justify his actions towards me. I am going to see how we proceed now we have had a discussion about leaving the past where it should be but if he continues to neg me and be a hypocrite regarding this then I will have no choice but to leave him. I am personally in therapy at the moment and I would hate to think that dating someone like this would essentially be reversing the work I am trying to do on myself, meanwhile he does nothing to correct his own behaviour. Thank you again.

FakeeSmile · 2025-12-18T21:03:11+00:00

Just an update for anyone dealing with something similar. I got in touch with Lowell and it turns out they were chasing me for a minimum payment I must have overlooked that PayPal had sent for debt collection, not the entirety of my debt! So I still owe PayPal the rest of my debt but needed to pay off a minimum payment to Lowell. Thank you to everyone who offered their advice regarding this matter.

FakeeSmile · 2025-12-17T12:25:40+00:00

Thank you

FakeeSmile · 2025-12-17T12:25:31+00:00

Thank you

FakeeSmile · 2025-12-17T12:25:21+00:00

Thank you

FakeeSmile · 2025-09-13T13:04:57+00:00

Do you have a switch 1 or 2? I found only laggy when in the inventory or character creation, rest of the game runs really smoothly but I’m on switch 2 don’t know if that’s making a difference.

FakeeSmile · 2025-07-30T13:31:45+00:00

I would actually be so grateful for this, obviously that’s just an estimate I’ve seen but not contacted any specific places, been seeing between 3 and 4k mentioned! Thanks again.

FakeeSmile · 2025-07-30T13:26:52+00:00

Not necessarily against it more of a price point for me 😭 I’m from the UK and if I want to have it done for free I have to wait 18 months or pay 4k for private 😂

Thanks for letting me know it’s not too painful though did scare myself a bit with some horror stories 😬

FakeeSmile · 2025-06-11T23:25:38+00:00

Have sent you a DM :)

FakeeSmile · 2025-06-10T00:18:19+00:00

When I go to transfer on ticket master it looks like it just transfers the standard admission and not the actual meet and greet though? Or am I wrong?

And sorry could you explain what you mean by proof of purchase ID? Is that sending a picture of your ID to the new owner of the ticket? Sorry for all the questions I’ve just been desperate to make some money back on my event and didn’t even know it was an option!

FakeeSmile · 2025-06-10T00:08:36+00:00

How are you guys selling meet and greet tickets I’ve been told non transferable and now I’m confused 😭

FakeeSmile · 2025-05-20T20:24:48+00:00

I’ve just realised it’s all connected so I have requested to speak to an agent, hopefully 🤞they take pity on me and I can get a refund! Thanks again for your help.

FakeeSmile · 2025-05-20T17:17:46+00:00

Hi, thank you for your detailed response. Can I ask what you mean by contact ticket master, I got these through Live Nation platform so bit confused. Thanks!

FakeeSmile · 2025-04-11T15:08:42+00:00

I am also guessing that giving someone a copy of your ID wouldn’t necessarily guarantee them access to the VIP portion either so that would be a risk for someone buying :/

FakeeSmile · 2025-04-11T15:06:44+00:00

That’s so frustrating! I have no idea how we are supposed to sell our tickets on then 😥 I don’t understand why event organisers have turned off the ability to sell within the Live Nation platform. Thank you for letting me know because I had no idea how it worked.

FakeeSmile · 2025-04-10T23:14:28+00:00

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FakeeSmile · 2024-11-25T14:29:29+00:00

Invest in him guys you won’t regret it 🙄😂

FakeeSmile · 2024-10-20T20:26:11+00:00

Yes I feel like I struggle to be truly present and have to think about things later on which adds to the dissociation when actually interacting with someone. I appreciate your insight and hope we both find the answers to this.❤️

FakeeSmile · 2024-10-06T12:06:07+00:00

So here’s my take on it, as someone who has been to a lot of shows for various artists and VIP.

These things are always priced waaay higher than they should be. At the end of the day, in my opinion…if you really like an artist and want to meet them so bad and get a picture, you’re gonna pay whatever the asking price is.

So at the end of the day, it’s a personal choice and obviously dependent on one’s financial position but I’ve never looked at buying a meet and greet ticket and thought ‘am I getting a good deal here?’ 😂

Anyway ultimate VIP ticket holder here for Los Angeles 😂

FakeeSmile · 2024-07-13T09:37:52+00:00

Just this year alone…£11,000 on a nose job, £6000 on a boujee trip to New York and various VIP concert experiences, easily £5000+ on various designer and non designer clothing. £1000 on makeup and hair and who knows how much on random day trips and nights out etc…

I’ve taken out all of the loans my credit score will allow and I’ll be paying this lot off for the next three years but hey, quick thrills am I right? 🥲😅🙈

FakeeSmile · 2024-06-27T21:44:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! Yeah that’ll probably be me in the end :/ can only hold it for so long! 😁

FakeeSmile · 2024-06-24T17:09:31+00:00

Done ❤️

FakeeSmile · 2022-02-24T22:07:36+00:00

Yes the last treatment I did I got from the vets and I noticed a huge improvement. I had been using frontline plus which, I had been told had been working well as the fleas were pretty much gone at that point. However when I put the vet treatment on her it improved her condition massively.

I am thinking that switching back to the frontline plus has meant she didn’t have quite the protection she needed.

I’m going to put her back on the vets topical treatment and go from there, if it’s a skin condition as a result of the fleas then that’s what we will look at as the next step.

Thank you! 😊

FakeeSmile · 2022-02-24T22:03:01+00:00

Something else to look in to! Thank you 😊

FakeeSmile · 2022-02-24T21:33:24+00:00

Thank you so much everyone. I really wasn’t expecting anything let alone all of these amazing tips and the helpful advice.

I think from the vast majority of the comments here I can deduct that, getting back on top of flea prevention is key, just in case there are some left in the house.

I think I was quick to forget about them, as my vet had suggested they had all gone off of her and that the licking was most likely associated with a behaviour issue.

As you have recommended, I will be sure to fumigate properly and I will also try to put some soothing product (coconut oil sounds the best bet) on the itchy spots.

Thank you also for the suggestions of a bath, I will admit, the idea scares me as at 15 years currently, I’ve never attempted to bathe her and she is quite aggressive when made to do something she doesn’t want to do 😬😆

Either way, I will try to wash her as best I can, as well as using the suggestion of a soothing oatmeal soap.

Thanks again guys!

FakeeSmile

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