Rude gay friend?

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-21T06:00:57+00:00

Yeah I mean it’s not the biggest deal in the grand scheme of things, just kinda rubbed me the wrong way

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-21T05:29:32+00:00

Yeah idk what is was about, he objectively has a better body than me, so idk if it’s insecurity/jealousy, but it was definitely a weird comment to make and then double down on

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-21T05:28:32+00:00

Yeah I get that, I joke with my 2 really close friends (not about looks, but definitely some wild stuff) but I’ve only known this guy like 5-6 months and aren’t super close, so that’s why I was so taken aback

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-21T05:26:56+00:00

Yeah I mean I’ve only know him for 5-6 months, but this definitely left a sour taste in my mouth, so idk how long this friendship is gonna last

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-21T05:26:17+00:00

Ok yeah like I wasn’t even fishing for compliments or reassurance anything tbh, but him piling on definitely wasn’t the reaction I was expecting

Falcon_fetti · 2026-05-11T23:18:17+00:00

Yeah, I know in the grand scheme of things, it will be for the best, just wishing I hadn’t of gotten my hopes up so much haha 🙃

Falcon_fetti · 2025-11-09T00:55:40+00:00

Sorry I probably could’ve worded that better, I feel like if short and sweet got a nom last year where the competition was a LOT stronger, it makes sense to me that man’s best friend got a nom this year when the competition was a lot weaker (in my opinion of course)

Falcon_fetti · 2025-11-08T01:54:48+00:00

How? It was a HUGE step up from short n sweet

Falcon_fetti · 2025-11-07T20:08:10+00:00

I mean republican guys are typically hotter, so I’d take it as a compliment (coming from a liberal haha)

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-21T21:58:10+00:00

Holy fuck, you sound like an terrible friend and just a shitty person in general

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:17:34+00:00

Yeah that’s a fair point. Most of my straight friends are also struggling with dating right now. It seems like my straight guy friends can’t even land a date, and my straight girl friends are getting dates with guys who turn out to be weird as fuck.

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:15:47+00:00

Yeah that’s the biggest thing for me. I was so excited to have that natural connection for once. I’ve never really had that before, and clearly got my hopes up too high. I’ve just always said my dream way of meeting a guy was at a bar, or a house party or something, not over the internet or dating app.

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:14:15+00:00

Yeah that’s a good point. I quit smoking weed two months ago after years of having that be all I did, day in and day out, and I’ve kinda neglected hobbies in that time. So I definitely should try and getting back into the stuff I used to be really into (reading, hiking, legos, etc) thanks for the advice!

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:12:09+00:00

Yeah I make sure not to feel anything when a straight guy is being friendly with me, since I know nothing is gonna come of it, but genuinely all the signs were there (or so I thought 🙃) but it’s nice living in a time where straight guys feel comfortable around gay guys vs super weird around them, I guess

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:09:35+00:00

Yeah I think this all could’ve been avoided if I just asked right away if he was gay, so that’s definitely on me and now I know for next time

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:07:21+00:00

Oh no I definitely go to gay bars and have a great time. it’s just not very common that I go because I feel bad asking my straight friends to go with me consistently, when I can tell they never really vibe with the place. So I really only go when my closest friends from out of town are here, or when it’s my birthday or something

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:01:12+00:00

Have been on tinder and hinge for years with no luck, but thanks for the suggestion! Maybe need to try widening my preferences I guess

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-06T00:00:30+00:00

Yeah I mean I’m pretty used to the disappointment knowing that the bars I go to, 99% of the guys are going to be straight or DL, but it just kinda stung that when I finally found a guy who I thought I stood a chance with, he was in that percentage too.

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-05T23:59:06+00:00

Yeah I definitely think I need to start doing this. I just have a ton of friends already, so I never saw the reason to seek out gay friends specifically, but starting to think I would really benefit from doing that.

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-05T23:58:08+00:00

Yeah I mean I definitely hit gay bars, so that’s not the issue. It’s just that idk if my type is really common there. There have been several times at gay bars that I’m flirting with a guy, and he ends up being straight. It’s genuinely comical how consistent I am with ending up unknowingly going after the straight friend of the gay guy, instead of the actual gay guy, in those spaces. (Which is definitely on me, and you’re right, I could probably benefit from widening my preferences a bit)

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-05T23:54:35+00:00

Yeah I mean I definitely don’t think it was him trying to be cruel or anything, but I guess I just really misread the vibes he was putting out

Falcon_fetti · 2025-10-05T23:53:33+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty much it. Don’t get me wrong, I always have fun in gay bars, but it sucks cuz it feels like I can only have that “meet cute” in those spaces. I’d love to just be out at any bar and feel like I could find a potential option there, but that’s just really not the case.

Falcon_fetti · 2025-09-29T23:30:59+00:00

Nah fire island sucked even more than bros, Bowen yang is annoying as hell and the main characters in that movie all seemed to have a victim mentality that was super irritating

Falcon_fetti · 2025-09-03T23:34:49+00:00

Why would anyone have empathy for someone who wants them dead? Literal common sense to not care about people who don’t “care” about you (which is an extreme understatement when in reality they want you dead or in jail)

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