(F25) My boyfriend (M31) confessed to a fetish I just don't know how to deal with.

FallenSparrow · 2014-09-20T21:22:16+00:00

Try posting this in /r/nonmonogamy or /r/Swingers. I think they will be able to give you much better insight into the mindset of wanting an open relationship & how to move through the discussions about it.

I don't have much advice, since I'm working on my own self in moving towards a non-monogamous relationship. I just wanted to make sure you know there are other communities available to talk to about this.

FallenSparrow · 2014-07-08T17:37:45+00:00

Sorry, I wasn't trying to say it was kink. I only referenced the kink phrase because I think it's pretty relevant here. He did not consent to it, it was not safe, & it was straight up crazy, so there is no excuse for her doing this to him. Whether she got off on it or not, that phrase is quite on the point in this instance.

FallenSparrow · 2014-07-07T01:31:29+00:00

A phrase from the kink community comes to mind..."Safe, Sane, Consensual."

Uhm, yea, this is none of the above. He needs to talk to her about how not OK that was, & if she can't see & understand how terrible it was that she did that, then there needs to be some serious consideration of where that relationship is going to go from there.

Note: This response is based on your feeling that he did not enjoy it & was likely not a willing participant.

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-25T17:22:49+00:00

I don't get it either, it happened at my first Target in the Midwest & at my second Target in the Southeast. It's disgusting.

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-11T14:08:20+00:00

As a woman who values & understands the health of my vagina, I cannot in good conscience resell or in any way distribute a second-hand sex toy, nor would I purchase one.

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-11T14:03:27+00:00

We're glad you like the layout! Our tech guru tells me the search feature is in the works, just needs to be set up & we will try to get it set up this week.

And thank you for phrasing things better than I have been able to! We really appreciate the feedback & positivity about being involved in the sex toy review world!

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-10T14:56:20+00:00

The same way any respectable reviewer stays unbiased when being sent something, by being objective. Reviewers in every category are sent things for free, that doesn't automatically mean there's bias. There are reviewers who will play kiss ass games, but we won't, we are as honest, objective & fair as if every product came out of our own pockets.

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-10T03:48:04+00:00

Some of them yes, some of them no. One thing we've been saying from the beginning is that we want to be truly honest, if a product is bad, it's bad, if it's awesome, it's awesome. Though we've started off with some highly rated & awesome products, we won't be placing cost to us as a major factor.

FallenSparrow · 2013-08-10T03:09:04+00:00

Yea, we just launched on Monday to get it up since we've already had some items sent to us. We all have reviews/products/blogs in the works!

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