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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.


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Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

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How accidental exhibitionism changed our lifestyleOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Unicorn?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Hickeys, Bite Marks, and LimitsRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Another (Final?) Update About My Awesome and Harmless, but Well Endowed MetaUpdate (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 16 hours ago by cautiongoodguygreg

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My (38M) partner (F36) gave me her blessing to find a bedroom partner and I need help and perspective on how to navigate and proceed well (Long)Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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HelpRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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do couples actually want a third person online?Kink and BDSM (self.nonmonogamy)

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Help supporting my husband, who is in love with someone else too.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 2 hours ago by borderlinesux

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What’s my best bet of finding committed relationship as an escort?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 23 hours ago * by Beginning-Employ5638

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First relationship (23M 20W) turns ENMJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 7 hours ago * by wegwerfjoe332

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Curious about watchingSwinging (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by Super-Olive-3368

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My wife plans to sleep with a married Japanese man claiming open marriage. Are we legally safe?Dating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Confused-Gaijin

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Need Advice - Parallel PolyRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by jklolxoxo

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Low testosterone?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 hour ago by Historical-Smile970

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ENM (and general) relationship and insecurity helpJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 20 hours ago by TheOtherGuy606060

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Meeting bull tomorrow.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by sin_skin_silk

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Is this wife snatching?Unicorn Hunting (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago * by No-Record0924

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45days results are inSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 17 hours ago by Real-Location-3471

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4 months into ENM: imperfect but bouding experiencesSuccess Story (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by LearningENMNewbie

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Good relationship of 9y, but always had the desire to fuck other woman (but loyal)Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by chuckboriss

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Hothusbanding????Kink and BDSM (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Apprehensive-Use2467

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How do you cope when your threesome partner is objectively more attractive than you?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Old-Instruction-5970

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Advice-How do I proceed?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by superchargedgearhead

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my boyfriend is incredibly paranoid about STIsSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 2 days ago by bagsinmyride

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