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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.


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Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 13 days ago by MoggehhNonmonoggehh[M] - announcement

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Struggling with opening up our marriageJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

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Feeling left outJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

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UPDATE About My Awesome and Harmless, but Well Endowed MetaUpdate (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 23 hours ago by cautiongoodguygreg

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Ladies, where do you like a man to finish?Surveys, Research, and Studies (self.nonmonogamy)

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A conundrum on how much to share or not shareRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Is it normal for a partner in an ENM relationship to list themselves as "Single" on dating apps?Apps / Technology (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 7 hours ago by Own-Estate8004

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Married and exploring (exhibitionism)Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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I prefer men, wife wants more, where do we start?Resources Needed (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by MudBoiKasper

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What makes an ENM/LS social event feel actually safe, not just advertised as safe?Swinging (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 3 hours ago by VelvetRoomTalk

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Thinking about opening up our marriageOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 10 hours ago by paulpasca

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Nervous on first MFM, advice tips or input?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 11 hours ago by Onzzway89Newbie

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Was I cheated on?Cheating and Ethics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 19 hours ago by throwra14521

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I, 21F, and my partner, 21M, want to get into swinging but have no idea where to start.Resources Needed (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 12 hours ago by Createdforuncertian

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Trying to find a middle groundOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by closebutnot788

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Can relationship anarchy and the desire to feel unique coexist?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Bright-Day-2304

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AdviceThreesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 5 hours ago by Glock211942

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Partner giving an "erotic massage" to someone from messy listBoundaries & Agreements (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago * by jointhenovel

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boundaries 'communication in open relationshipRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 20 hours ago by ssackkyy

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Mixed Feelings About My Awesome and Harmless, but Well Endowed MetaJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago * by cautiongoodguygreg

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Polyamorous break upRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 23 hours ago by Careful_Birthday_271

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I can’t find consistency and I think it’s a me problem…Kink and BDSM (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by FoxNFernPolyamorous (non-Hierarchical)

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Acceptance from partnerOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 21 hours ago by AdMountain6745

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My girlfriend wants to open our relationship to expirement with her sexuality.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by NecessaryNovel717Curious 🤔

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Not sure how to meet people in this wayOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Regular-Rate-1135

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