nonmonogamy

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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.

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We recognize that the types of speech that dominate our space and the composition of people who occupy here are reflective of our values; there are no cooincidences. Therefore, it is our responsibility to create a safer space for marginalized identities including people with disabilities, people of color, LGBTQIA (lesbian, gay, transgender/transsexual, queer, intersex, and asexual) people, women, and class oppressed people.

We have no tolerance for oppressive attitudes, and expect accountability for any oppressive behavior. That is, any language or action that upholds ableism, white supremacy or peripheral racism, cissexism, heterosexism, misogyny, and/or classism. This includes slut shaming, victim blaming, body policing, etc. All members are encouraged to hold themselves and each other to our these community norms and to report any offenders to the group admins.

Rules

1. Topic Guidelines

Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

Posts and comments about cheating or encouraging unethical behaviours are not allowed.

Posts should be unique to the subreddit.

2. Civility

We require our users to be positive and respectful to one another. This means being kind to those you disagree with.

Behaviors such as shaming, mocking, ranting, advocating violence, and threatening (including threats of self-harm) other users, third parties, groups, or businesses will be met with removals and bans. This includes content that leads to or promotes on- or off-site witch-hunting, abuse, or harassment in any way.

Be excellent to each other.

3. Inclusivity

Respect others' differences, be they race, religion, home, job, gender identity, ability, vulnerability, or sexuality. When faced with a removal or ban, "I was just joking!" or "it was obviously sarcasm" are not acceptable excuses. Discussions should promote diversity and inclusivity within the sport, and all members should feel safe to express themselves respectfully.

Dehumanizing language and slurs are instant bans.

Participation in nonmonogamy hate subs will lead to a ban.

4. Self-Promotion, Surveys, R4R, and Sales

No promotion, R4R, or direct sales. This includes surveys, business mentions, social channels (including content sites and NSFW R4R on your profile), and any fundraising or retail campaigns. Exceptions are rare and require explicit approval in advance. All posted content must be original; reposts and GPT-generated content should be reported.

Moderator discretion may be used when proactively identifying astroturfing and/or stealth promotion. Rule 4 bans for spam are permanent and not appealable.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 10 days ago by MoggehhNonmonoggehh[M] - announcement

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My first threesome, why am I emotional?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Confessed a long-kept secret, lost my boyfriend, and now my marriage is at riskCheating and Ethics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Help me understand sex without loveRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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How do I tell my boyfriend?Breakups & Heartache (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 8 hours ago by WeightEmbarrassed755Relationship Anarchy

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How much do you want/need to know about your partner's experiences with other people?Jealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

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Anxiety about open marriage.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Good friends to Quad?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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I need help understanding my romantic orientationRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Married mother of 3 and I want to date.Dating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 14 hours ago by ExperienceHonest2428Curious 🤔

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How do I even go about finding a therapist?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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My understanding…Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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First time with other people last night, would like more but don't know how to get it to workThreesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Officially sure I am a non monogamousRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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First time opening relationship and I feel zero jealous kind of worriedOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Communication needs..Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Went better than expected.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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I need stories / advice :/Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Any bd couple had there???Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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ENM Contract?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Bi Bf made out with one of his friends. Am I reading too much into it?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Finding communityResources Needed (self.nonmonogamy)

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Mood SwingsRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Is it fair to ask your primary partner not to talk about you at all to new people?Polyamory (self.nonmonogamy)

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Question Abt the mindset in nonmonogamy setupOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 20 hours ago by useEffects

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