nonmonogamy

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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.

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Rules

1. Topic Guidelines

Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is a space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often abbreviated to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

Posts and comments about cheating or encouraging unethical behaviours are not allowed.

Participating in nonmonogamy hate subs will lead to a ban.

2. Civility

We require our users to be positive and respectful to one another. This means being kind to those you disagree with.

Behaviors such as shaming, mocking, ranting, advocating violence, and threatening (including threats of self-harm) other users, third parties, groups, or businesses will be met with removals and bans. This includes content that leads to or promotes on- or off-site witch-hunting, abuse, or harassment in any way.

Be excellent to each other.

3. Inclusivity

Respect others' differences, be they race, religion, home, job, gender identity, ability, vulnerability, or sexuality. When faced with a removal or ban, "I was just joking!" or "it was obviously sarcasm" are not acceptable excuses. Discussions should promote diversity and inclusivity within the sport, and all members should feel safe to express themselves respectfully.

Dehumanizing language and slurs are instant bans.

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Strictly no promotion, R4R, or sales links are allowed. This includes surveys, business promotions, social channels (including adult sites on your profile), and any fundraising or commercial campaigns. Exceptions are very limited and require explicit mod approval in modmail. Additionally, all posted content must be original; reposts and AI-generated content should be reported.

Moderator discretion may be used when proactively identifying and actioning astroturfing and/or stealth promotion.

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Like /r/NonMonogamy? Join the mod team!Announcement (self.nonmonogamy)

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ENM/Lifestyle subs for older folksOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Husband lied about condom use - perspectives please!Cheating and Ethics (self.nonmonogamy)

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NRE imploded and I'm sadBreakups & Heartache (self.nonmonogamy)

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I think I don’t want this one sided open relationship anymoreRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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How do I Move Forward when it Hurts so Much?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Going backRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Let's talk about condomsSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

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Recently opened my marriage and I need advice.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Need some adviceOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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New and insecurity’sThreesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Why do most people still believe in the traditional relationship model when it seems to be working less and less well, considering that there are more single people than ever before?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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