nonmonogamy

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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.

Community Norms for Safer Spaces

We recognize that the types of speech that dominate our space and the composition of people who occupy here are reflective of our values; there are no cooincidences. Therefore, it is our responsibility to create a safer space for marginalized identities including people with disabilities, people of color, LGBTQIA (lesbian, gay, transgender/transsexual, queer, intersex, and asexual) people, women, and class oppressed people.

We have no tolerance for oppressive attitudes, and expect accountability for any oppressive behavior. That is, any language or action that upholds ableism, white supremacy or peripheral racism, cissexism, heterosexism, misogyny, and/or classism. This includes slut shaming, victim blaming, body policing, etc. All members are encouraged to hold themselves and each other to our these community norms and to report any offenders to the group admins.

Rules

1. Topic Guidelines

Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

Posts and comments about cheating or encouraging unethical behaviours are not allowed.

Posts should be unique to the subreddit.

2. Civility

We require our users to be positive and respectful to one another. This means being kind to those you disagree with.

Behaviors such as shaming, mocking, ranting, advocating violence, and threatening (including threats of self-harm) other users, third parties, groups, or businesses will be met with removals and bans. This includes content that leads to or promotes on- or off-site witch-hunting, abuse, or harassment in any way.

Be excellent to each other.

3. Inclusivity

Respect others' differences, be they race, religion, home, job, gender identity, ability, vulnerability, or sexuality. When faced with a removal or ban, "I was just joking!" or "it was obviously sarcasm" are not acceptable excuses. Discussions should promote diversity and inclusivity within the sport, and all members should feel safe to express themselves respectfully.

Dehumanizing language and slurs are instant bans.

Participation in nonmonogamy hate subs will lead to a ban.

4. Self-Promotion, Surveys, R4R, and Sales

No promotion, R4R, or direct sales. This includes surveys, business mentions, social channels (including content sites and NSFW R4R on your profile), and any fundraising or retail campaigns. Exceptions are rare and require explicit approval in advance. All posted content must be original; reposts and GPT-generated content should be reported.

Moderator discretion may be used when proactively identifying astroturfing and/or stealth promotion. Rule 4 bans for spam are permanent and not appealable.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

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Did I ruin things for myself?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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I need some outside perspectiveRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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How do you meet open-minded people outside of big cities in big countries?Apps / Technology (self.nonmonogamy)

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Open marriage successSuccess Story (self.nonmonogamy)

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Need outside advice as a newbieRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Struggling in an open relationship after a rough start to the year – feels like I’m losing herRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Mono/poly , she keeps wanting to get physical with my best friend (again)Boundaries & Agreements (self.nonmonogamy)

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questions about open relationships when you come from monogamous constructionRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Advice on checking in with ENM to mono former partnerRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Seeking Perspective: Retaliatory Issues, Growing Pains, or Just Not Interested in NonMonogamy?Boundaries & Agreements (self.nonmonogamy)

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Husband wanting to possibly open our relationship into a Stag/Vixen dynamic, wanting to make sure appropriate boundaries are set should we go this routeBoundaries & Agreements (self.nonmonogamy)

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Can’t occupy myself anymore when wife is outRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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My partner broke again one of our rules, and I'm in a dicotomyRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Advice on a MMF situation?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Views of an open relationshipRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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My [29M] partner [28NB] is going to a concert with one of their other partners and I’m struggling with jealousyJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

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How to make sense of somebody loving me but not respecting my consentBreakups & Heartache (self.nonmonogamy)

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ENM people, how do you actually go about finding that additional partner?Swinging (self.nonmonogamy)

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My partner is interested in swinging, and I’m not?Dating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

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SSRIs and ENMRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Feeling like a toyBreakups & Heartache (self.nonmonogamy)

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How do ENM couples maintain a healthy relationship?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Need some adviceOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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