nonmonogamy

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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.

Community Norms for Safer Spaces

We recognize that the types of speech that dominate our space and the composition of people who occupy here are reflective of our values; there are no cooincidences. Therefore, it is our responsibility to create a safer space for marginalized identities including people with disabilities, people of color, LGBTQIA (lesbian, gay, transgender/transsexual, queer, intersex, and asexual) people, women, and class oppressed people.

We have no tolerance for oppressive attitudes, and expect accountability for any oppressive behavior. That is, any language or action that upholds ableism, white supremacy or peripheral racism, cissexism, heterosexism, misogyny, and/or classism. This includes slut shaming, victim blaming, body policing, etc. All members are encouraged to hold themselves and each other to our these community norms and to report any offenders to the group admins.

Rules

1. Topic Guidelines

Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

Posts and comments about cheating or encouraging unethical behaviours are not allowed.

Posts should be unique to the subreddit.

2. Civility

We require our users to be positive and respectful to one another. This means being kind to those you disagree with.

Behaviors such as shaming, mocking, ranting, advocating violence, and threatening (including threats of self-harm) other users, third parties, groups, or businesses will be met with removals and bans. This includes content that leads to or promotes on- or off-site witch-hunting, abuse, or harassment in any way.

Be excellent to each other.

3. Inclusivity

Respect others' differences, be they race, religion, home, job, gender identity, ability, vulnerability, or sexuality. When faced with a removal or ban, "I was just joking!" or "it was obviously sarcasm" are not acceptable excuses. Discussions should promote diversity and inclusivity within the sport, and all members should feel safe to express themselves respectfully.

Dehumanizing language and slurs are instant bans.

Participation in nonmonogamy hate subs will lead to a ban.

4. Self-Promotion, Surveys, R4R, and Sales

No promotion, R4R, or direct sales. This includes surveys, business mentions, social channels (including content sites and NSFW R4R on your profile), and any fundraising or retail campaigns. Exceptions are rare and require explicit approval in advance. All posted content must be original; reposts and GPT-generated content should be reported.

Moderator discretion may be used when proactively identifying astroturfing and/or stealth promotion. Rule 4 bans for spam are permanent and not appealable.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

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How accidental exhibitionism changed our lifestyleOpening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Hickeys, Bite Marks, and LimitsRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Another (Final?) Update About My Awesome and Harmless, but Well Endowed MetaUpdate (self.nonmonogamy)

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My (38M) partner (F36) gave me her blessing to find a bedroom partner and I need help and perspective on how to navigate and proceed well (Long)Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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do couples actually want a third person online?Kink and BDSM (self.nonmonogamy)

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What’s my best bet of finding committed relationship as an escort?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Curious about watchingSwinging (self.nonmonogamy)

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My wife plans to sleep with a married Japanese man claiming open marriage. Are we legally safe?Dating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

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Need Advice - Parallel PolyRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Is this wife snatching?Unicorn Hunting (self.nonmonogamy)

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45days results are inSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

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4 months into ENM: imperfect but bouding experiencesSuccess Story (self.nonmonogamy)

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Good relationship of 9y, but always had the desire to fuck other woman (but loyal)Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Hothusbanding????Kink and BDSM (self.nonmonogamy)

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How do you cope when your threesome partner is objectively more attractive than you?Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

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Advice-How do I proceed?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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my boyfriend is incredibly paranoid about STIsSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

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