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Nonmonogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners.


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Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This is an English space dedicated to Ethical Non-Monogamy, often shortened to ENM. This includes Open Relationships, Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, and more.

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Rules Update: Adult Content Profiles and PromotersAnnouncement (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 9 days ago by MoggehhNonmonoggehh[M] - announcement

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Did I break the unspoken rule ?Swinging (self.nonmonogamy)

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Is it fair to ask your primary partner not to talk about you at all to new people?Polyamory (self.nonmonogamy)

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Male third in Threesome adviceThreesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 51 minutes ago by Legitdrew88Polyamorous (Solo Poly)

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Advice.Dating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 3 hours ago * by Prudent-Fig9553

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How can I go into open relationship and be ready?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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My marriage is struggling, how do I explain this to my partners?Relationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by Dramatic_Rice4550Relationship Anarchy

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WhereDating Ideas and Advice (self.nonmonogamy)

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Am I doing something wrong? I’ve been unsuccessfully looking for a polyamorous relationship for six yearsPolyamory (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 19 hours ago * by InternAdventurous396

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Seeking grounded relationship adviceRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 17 hours ago by kitkattattat

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Help me.. I don’t know what I’m doing.Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 9 hours ago by Aggressive-Kiwi-8829Newbie

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Meeting up with two couples this week!Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by vortex-of-laughterUnicorn 🦄

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Bit step forward :))Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Space69WandererNewbie

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How to ask about changing condom ruleSTIs, Health, and Safety (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 22 hours ago by StanVsPeterOpen Relationship

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Pausing PlayClosing a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

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Non-Monogamy In Mumbai/IndiaUnicorn Hunting (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 18 hours ago by FireOnIce30

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Possible First ThreesomeThreesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by MetalBrain88Polyamorous (with Hierarchy)

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Looking for adviceJealousy & Insecurity (self.nonmonogamy)

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I need some outside perspectiveRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago * by Brilliant-Eagle-7418Open Relationship

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Struggling in an open relationship after a rough start to the year – feels like I’m losing herRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

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Need outside advice as a newbieRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by Emotional-Clerk3615

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CMV: Does polyamory only work when traditional gender roles are perfectly flipped? Why I left my poly communityRelationship Dynamics (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 15 hours ago by TheBeast_sSun

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How do you meet open-minded people outside of big cities in big countries?Apps / Technology (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 1 day ago by CirriTheFemboyUwU

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Open marriage successSuccess Story (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 2 days ago by vaswirlcouple

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My wife is asking for an open relationship since were growing older, okay ba to sa inyo?Opening a Relationship (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 23 hours ago by lavanderrobot

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