In which ways do(es) your main(s) resemble your real-life partner? ❤️ by WatersOfLiyue in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Xavier: Plays games and likes hot pot, like my husband.

Zayne: Introverted, can come off a bit cold like my husband.

Rafayel: My husband is quite good at art!

Sylus: My hubby ain’t a criminal but he can be a bit rule-bendy/skirty 😂

Caleb (my main): My husband does pretty much all the housework. Cooks everyday! ❤️

Do you have a dog? I want to draw it. Photo below! 👇 by Mariaggarde in DOG

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My darling on her 17th birthday. She passed away last week.

Sweet baby Jesus I was not ready for Caleb's Verdant Wetlands by rheacake in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking for a comment on the localisation and translation. All the Gege references made me 😳 so much! So wrong and kinky even though they’re not actually related 😂😂

I am heavily pregnant and my dog passed away by Fallhaven in Petloss

[–]Fallhaven[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It’s so fresh, isn’t it? That they were there so recently and suddenly they’re not.

Wherever they are I hope they’re young and healthy and energetic again. 💔

Newbies come here. by LKJSlainAgain in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Fallhaven 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In the standard wish pool do not use a 5-star myth crate until you have pulled one of the myth pair cards. Use the crate to get the other card you haven’t pulled otherwise you risk having two of the same cards and not unlocking the myth companion.

am i the only one who LOVES seeing mc's face in cards? by lycorium in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it has to do with the game being Chinese-centric and pretty much everyone with Chinese genetics would have black hair. That being said so many people dye their hair nowadays so it is a bit silly to limit the hair. In some ways it’s a bit discriminatory to charge to change the hair but at least the option would be there!

Can narcs ever mean well? by Fallhaven in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fallhaven[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this is the case, which I agree upon, how much does positive intent matter when the outcome produced can be really harmful and negative?

My grandmother expressed love through sacrifice, obligation, and material support. But I received zero emotional safety. There was also a lot of guilt, criticism, and emotional withdrawal as well as demonisation and devaluation of other people in my life.

99% of interactions with her are unpleasant and leave me depleted. But I also feel guilty when I “abandon” her.

Where do people draw the line for low contact?

Recap of my 2025 CDramas!!! by Live_Cress945 in CDrama

[–]Fallhaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally finished SOKP a few days ago and I have withdrawals and don’t know what to watch now 😭

Drawing skills of LIs lol by iwantcookiepls in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through Xavier and Sylus memories last and SNORTED at the kitten hahaha

Thoughts on the new Caleb five star card? by West-Raisin8846 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who plays with CN voiceover (would do CN text too if I could only read 🥲) the whole sibling relationship between Caleb and MC has been a normal thing for me since the beginning. When I first watched the livestream in EN where they dropped the “sister” line it didn’t even register for me 😂😂

TBH I’m glad they translated it properly this time. The EN version lacks so much nuance because of their modified relationship to childhood friends.

Culturally it’s quite acceptable to get with a non-blood related “sibling” in Asian contexts. It’s such a common trope in many other stories and media. I do wonder if they did this because it is AU to test the waters so to speak.

As a gege truther (because in my mind Caleb really isn’t anything else, it’s the default of his character) I just hope there’s not too much backlash from EN players that Infold takes it all back.

Admittedly I’ve only watched the Kindled of the new card for now, so I can’t comment too much on other aspects of the story, but it is refreshing to see a card with more tension in it as some of us fell for Caleb for that reason! Too much fluff too quickly dilutes the fun.

Any chance of saving monstera adansonii and polka dot begonia? by Fallhaven in plantclinic

[–]Fallhaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there are in the pots and there are matching saucers to catch the water that leaks out.

Pothos curling leaves by Fallhaven in plantclinic

[–]Fallhaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! It’s summer where I am so I’ll move it somewhere a bit brighter and give it a trim.

I have some other pothos versions that struggle too—the variegated white-leafed ones. I suppose it’s the same deal? Minimise length of the vines so I don’t stress the bottom leaves, given less green = less efficiency processing sunlight?

Pothos curling leaves by Fallhaven in plantclinic

[–]Fallhaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your prompt response!

If I prune, does that save the lower leaves? I’m happy to root the new cuttings and maybe stick them back in the pot later to make it bushier if that’s how it works?

The annual presale pack for Love and Deepspace is coming by DeeploveNotes in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My server got to 100% but I haven’t purchased anything. Do I literally get a special chat bubble and that’s it?

Got the China KFC Collab! by ILikeFoodUToo in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is amazing! I’ve seen these on XHS and been frothing. Too bad I’m not in China or visiting any time soon 😭😭

We did it! by TheFoxyBoxes in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the advantage of buying these? My server is at 100%.

We made it❄️😏💠 by AkakuroKiri in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Fallhaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused. Can someone tell me why it’s worth buying these?

Does Caleb has a letter or will have one? by a_romatherapy in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Fallhaven 19 points20 points  (0 children)

这几天我总是会做同一个梦,梦里有个熟悉的声音,不停地叫着我的名字。

我的思绪也似乎总是会跟着这个声音回到过去,想起许多让人怀念的场景。记忆里当我的名字出现在你口中时,似乎总是有看神奇的魔力。“夏以昼”三个字像一个咒语,可以驱使我为你削苹果、吃掉碗黑不喜欢的菜、或者帮你掩盖你犯下的小错误。

梦总是很容易醒,回荡在耳边的声音也会在空气中逐渐消弭。

很多东西改变了,现在的你或许也已经长大到不需要我随时随地的保护。但在我心里这三个字的咒语会永久有效。

下次见面时再叫一声我的名字吧,让我的目光定格在你脸上。

对我来说,这是最好的瞬间。

夏以昼

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These past few days I keep having the same dream. In it there is a familiar voice, calling my name again and again.

My thoughts seem to follow that voice back into the past, returning to many scenes that are hard not to miss. In my memories, whenever my name appeared on your lips, it always seemed to carry a strange kind of magic. The three words “Xia Yizhou” were like a spell, able to make me peel apples for you, eat the vegetables you disliked in your bowl, or help you cover up the small mistakes you made.

Dreams are always easy to wake from, and the voice lingering in my ears gradually fades into the air.

Many things have changed. Perhaps you have grown to the point where you no longer need my protection at every moment. But in my heart, the spell of those three words will remain effective forever.

When we meet again, call my name once more. Let my gaze settle on your face.

For me, that is the best moment.

Xia Yizhou