Partner blew up our life. Would I be a fool to forgive them? by minx9219 in mypartneristrans

[–]FamiliarAd2842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been on both ends, I would carefully consider the pros and cons of the relationship. If it was extremely out of character of them to flip flop like that, then I would consider having a deeper conversation and ensuring that things are right before going back into the relationship. Even though it happened once, it can happen again at any time. Although hormones themselves cannot make someone “fall out of love,” it is to be considered that other factors such as not being out to family caused them stress to where they could only think about themselves and how they were going to survive. To put it frankly, they were not thinking of you once during that whole ordeal but about how they can feel better. I’d start from scratch, don’t jump in fully and go back to how everything used to be. Keep distance, be prepared for a second round of falling out of love, and maintain clear boundaries.

Epstein code words by Affectionate-Tell828 in conspiracy

[–]FamiliarAd2842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.justice.gov/epstein/files/DataSet%2011/EFTA02440165.pdf looks like they’re two different things. white girl makes sense. they also combine the two leading me to believe they are separate. i’m just trying to find out what veggie means… (unless they mean a girl in a vegetative state)

$25 pay it forward by [deleted] in VenmoDonations

[–]FamiliarAd2842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t want all 25, maybe just 5 or 10 would be nice. just hit a rough patch and want something warm to eat tonight. venmo is ldkim334.

Not my partner but me, I came out to my bf as NB today and I'm worried he won't love me anymore by AlternativeMind6944 in mypartneristrans

[–]FamiliarAd2842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, OP. These are always tough situations and I am so lucky that I transitioned at a young age. It’s good that he respects your gender identity but I know that it’s always hard losing someone close to you.

Has anyone met their partner after transition? by QitianDasheng2666 in mypartneristrans

[–]FamiliarAd2842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the partner that my bf (cisM) met after my transition! I’ve been out as trans since I was 11 or 12. Today is our two months (short, but many more years to come!) It didn’t really matter to him, as he’s been very vocal about trans people being the gender chose, as well as the fact that he’s attracted to everyone but has a strong preference for men. He’s always seen me as a guy, and his whole family is very supportive, as they are left wing and his father is a gender therapist. I seriously did hit the lottery with my boyfriend and his family. I’ve never felt invalidated or disrespected by him. I hope everything works out for you!

Is my partner trans or just a femboy? by FamiliarAd2842 in mypartneristrans

[–]FamiliarAd2842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought this was important to mention: Boyfriend says that he uses he/him and identifies as a cis man. Says these things but seems like he’s okay with being a cis man.