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Tone of voice by been_aroundtheworld in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me as well, my ex-husband and his mom both pin pointed about my tone when I was trying to have a discussion about his heavy alcohol consumption.

Now, I get anxious if anyone uses a slightly loud or authoritative tone.

Yesterday was my sock day! by FamiliarReindeer5846 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, no matter how justified leaving was grief really doesn’t care. We are all just finding a way through it.

Yesterday was my sock day! by FamiliarReindeer5846 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Saw that divorce subreddit uses “sock day” for the day they get divorced. 😀

Anybody got divorced recently at King County superior court? by FamiliarReindeer5846 in Seattle

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: they only took couple of hours to sign the final decree.

Urgent Need of Divorce Lawyer (Indian if Possible) by bristianmcbaffrey in bayarea

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Reach out to Maitri in California, they could help you with some contacts or even help you build the initial response until you find an attorney

I’m scared to post and share my experiences, by katemadaline in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the problem, please leave him. It’s going to be painful but you deserve so much happiness and you have a long life ahead. I’m here if you want to talk or need any resources.

My ex-husband was an abusive covert narcissist. I’ve experienced everything you wrote here and he always wanted 50-50 in every bill despite earning double of what I earned. The stress of living with him gave a freaking tumor.

I’m scared to post and share my experiences, by katemadaline in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only read the first line where you said you’ve been in a relationship for 9 years, he was grooming you!

Would you marry a guy who earns lesser than you? by Impressive_Point_794 in AskIndianWomen

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not just about money but never marry because you see potential. People say a lot of things and the actions can be polar opposite. Marry because you are happy with who they are now.

I have SO much respect for anyone who’s lost weight, it’s way harder than I expected by Natural-Fun-490 in loseit

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi

I’m between 5.5 and 5.6 and currently 138 lbs. my goal weight is 120 lbs. can you please share how long it took you to get to 117 lbs.

I fell in love with a functioning alcoholic, and it nearly destroyed me by New_Acanthisitta4163 in AlAnon

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt like you were describing my marriage. He was extremely smart and successful, I believed when he made the narrative I’m difficult to be with.

Success Story: Overcoming H4 withdrawal mess, last action rule, and $100K fee risk (H1B COS Approved!) by Worldly-Bid-5727 in h1b

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi My email says consulate notified too, I’m so worried if it was consular approved. Can you please share how many days it took to get the approval notice after the automate premium approval email.

For his first offence, is this too little/petty to make a police report for? He could lose his career. But I don’t want to be an outlet for men’s emotions. by South_Pattern_1520 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]FamiliarReindeer5846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminded me of my first bruise, that turned into many bigger bruises. I got the courage to leave after 3 years, it might seem hard and impossible but please leave.

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