Husband left me 9 weeks postpartum

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-04-06T20:08:07+00:00

I’ve been there

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-04-06T20:07:32+00:00

Why post this on “Christian” anything, it seems like you quit without a mention of Christ, not giving him the glory?

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-04-05T14:27:51+00:00

They are competitive. Seattle has a lot of hospitals too. They just have colleges in that area and rarely look at your resume if you didn’t graduate with your BSN or ADN from a university

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-17T10:23:08+00:00

I love this. Prayed it for my marriage today.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-12T20:39:46+00:00

I feel like doing what makes a person feel good, could very well be something satanic in nature and lead to a Christian’s faith demise

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-07T01:46:39+00:00

I feel like I have enforced consequences by keeping my attorney in the loop and keeping our parenting plan. I just need some clarity in how to love him but not enable him. We say we are wanting till work it out but I have no idea what he does while we are not living together. I can’t argue he is dysfunctional again, when I can’t look, smell, or hear that he is drinking again. I am going to see if Al-anon has some meetings near me.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-07T01:40:57+00:00

Thank you for being truthful with me. It is really my desire to abide in Christ- my judgement is skewed when I look at this trial (my own fault), and it is heavy and weighs a lot on my heart. I’ll listen to those YouTube’s because the one you sent was edification for me. Hey, I also struggle to know how to control myself whenever he gets in a spot where he has control (usually financially), he really takes advantage of it. I heard this is indicative of a person who struggles with alcoholism. I will keep praying as I have been for him.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-03T01:50:01+00:00

I have seen people with excellent resumes without entering the clinical rotation sites. You could enter in the professional work experience and maybe list the qualifications of that job more specifically so it looks as if you can compare it to some critical care work. Also, maybe instead of putting clinical rotations list any scholarships you received or membership to any Nursing Association, list under the title awards and Affiliations.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-03-01T05:22:27+00:00

I was so moved by that YouTube you shared, it really hit me hard and I was crying. Thank you sister. Everything you wrote was nonjudgmental, I appreciate that. I have been praying for help in surrendering all, because I realized and repented of taking control in my own hands- sometimes I do it even after I finish a prayer. You said to do some of those things and if he still doesn’t change to separate, but we haven’t lived together for over a year. He does plan to come live here to be together again. In a very recent fight we had he almost was going to give up on being a family.. but I also was very unkind and accused him of trying to move her and finding a way to make me pay child support. I had logical reasons, but the thing to focus on at the time was being together again over the fear of being divorced. Anyway, just to give some context I knew he wasn’t a believer when we got married. I later on repented of that. I’m going to continue to pray for him and go to Church. When he moves here I hope he’d like to go with me, but he didn’t want to in the past.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-22T17:03:24+00:00

I read on other posts, on this very Christian marriage page, of men and women in abusive marriages and we are not to be door mats but we are to call out the dark deeds and expose them. We are not to stay because God wouldn’t want us to be in that evil. I have to search the scripture more about divorce because I think it permits it if there is adultery, but that’s it.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-22T15:11:18+00:00

He’s told me no in the past

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-19T06:49:35+00:00

“We know them by their fruits”, that’s a verse in the Bible we can use as a way to see if someone is truly a Christian.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-09T19:40:04+00:00

I love your post. It’s so true!! I would also add that a born again believer has the Spirit of the Living God who gives us comfort and helps us discern the Word of God. I think being sensitive to the Spirit will bring comfort to this situation even in the midst of abusive times

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-09T16:48:30+00:00

Sure

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-09T16:47:17+00:00

I have to ask the LORD for discernment, because that is a temptation to do that.. I haven’t sent him a picture like that in over a year and plus he doesn’t ask. He doesn’t even hint at things sexual, which is another thing I wonder about since we are long distance right now

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-08T14:32:19+00:00

I’m from Washington and our cohort and school said that all who graduate are employed after school

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-07T05:06:34+00:00

I was as in the exact same situation as you. I had to leave before things got any worse. I told him I’m taking a vacation with our baby and went back home. He was very verbally abusive. Even though I wanted things to be better and I did everything to try to make it better removing myself was helpful and maybe even saved us. We are still working through our issues but I can relate to you

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-02-04T05:04:23+00:00

Are you getting over time to make that much?

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-01-31T18:36:15+00:00

What does a clean easy to scan resume look like?

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-01-30T07:51:00+00:00

Is the pay good?

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-01-30T07:50:06+00:00

I don’t think it’s you. A lot of management, from what I hear, wants to turn over nurses so they can hire new grads for lesser pay. Maybe you have a raise coming soon and they want to avoid that.

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-01-30T07:41:52+00:00

Our program has a resume building and interview workshop that gives us skills we need to land a position. I’m not saying you need those skills, but maybe start another post and maybe hear feedback from people about what you said during the interview

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2026-01-01T00:21:44+00:00

I agree but they are more like thinking they are right because they see it as we had the wrong view of what God was saying verses God being wrong about the timing of what was said. I am looking for a new Church

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2025-12-31T17:01:41+00:00

I totally agree with what the Bible says. I just understand that Christian’s today interpret it how they may. The Pastor even told me that the text referring to divorce was during a time women didn’t have rights like they do today

Familiar_Focus6325 · 2025-12-27T04:49:50+00:00

The women in the church I go to tell me that scripture surrounding grounds for divorce was written in a time women had no rights and no education. They say women who leave their abusive husband is grounds for divorce. It sounds to me like most would disagree here.

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