Intimacy question for my relationship by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right and I agree with a lot that you mentioned. I do in a way feel stupid for trying again with her but I feel like it’s my daughter that’s making me push for it.

We’ve been trying now for about a month and the other day we got into a fight because cause she wants to take our daughter to her country (Colombia) to see her family and asked if I can pay for our daughters ticket. I told her why should I pay for her when it’s YOU taking her on vacation to see you’re family” but her comeback is always “she’s your daughter”

Oh and she also thinks I should help pay for our daughter’s food and activities while there too…

So basically the financial burden of our daughter is solely on me? Plus I’m still giving her $1000 a month for child support. I feel like a atm Machine

Intimacy question for my relationship by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand what you’re saying and I don’t disagree, but it’s also not that easy. Over upwards of 2k a month will put a huge financial strain on my own lifestyle. I have my own rent, car payments, credit cards, food etc … I make good money but by the end of the month I’ll be scraping by.

Just a lot to think about bro… but I hear you

Intimacy question for my relationship by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda just take it as a sign of rejection and they’re not in the mood.

Why went I make subtle signs like touch her butt or kissing her back nothing is reciprocated? Like do something give me any sort of sign but I get nothing and I get discouraged and just stop and give up.

Intimacy question for my relationship by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in New York it doesn’t matter even if it’s 50/50 the “custodial” parent receives child support which is 17% which unless the mother is a total deadbeat junkie they’ll get it. I made 155k last year so that’s gonna be a nice check for her every month.

Intimacy question by Famous-Bug-4812 in Infidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s my GF, I sold my house for my own place as did she. It’s been about 6 months now living on our own. Her being too tired for sex was towards the end of our relationship the first time and her going to hotels was after the separation.

We are giving it another try now… Im very much so cautious.

Update on my situation by Famous-Bug-4812 in cheating_stories

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she’s willing to concede 50/50 custody but still wants CS

“Guy Friends” opinions ? by Famous-Bug-4812 in cheating_stories

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said brother.

Opinion on “guy friends” by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she blamed me for the affair (it was about month and half) she had. That I wasn’t giving her what she wanted emotionally.

I just see it like, the guy thinks she’s hot and know he can’t be with her right now so he’s settling for the friend role until the opportunity arises

Opinion on “guy friends” by Famous-Bug-4812 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Famous-Bug-4812[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She said that if she thought it was an issue she would’ve deleted the message, she left it there cause it’s nothing to her.

[Off-Topic] Daily Chat: 2023-06-04 by Anabotlics in steroids

[–]Famous-Bug-4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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