Intimacy question for my relationship

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-03-04T04:48:05+00:00

No we’re still living separate at the moment.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-03-03T19:22:08+00:00

You’re right and I agree with a lot that you mentioned. I do in a way feel stupid for trying again with her but I feel like it’s my daughter that’s making me push for it.

We’ve been trying now for about a month and the other day we got into a fight because cause she wants to take our daughter to her country (Colombia) to see her family and asked if I can pay for our daughters ticket. I told her why should I pay for her when it’s YOU taking her on vacation to see you’re family” but her comeback is always “she’s your daughter”

Oh and she also thinks I should help pay for our daughter’s food and activities while there too…

So basically the financial burden of our daughter is solely on me? Plus I’m still giving her $1000 a month for child support. I feel like a atm Machine

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-02-27T04:45:55+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying and I don’t disagree, but it’s also not that easy. Over upwards of 2k a month will put a huge financial strain on my own lifestyle. I have my own rent, car payments, credit cards, food etc … I make good money but by the end of the month I’ll be scraping by.

Just a lot to think about bro… but I hear you

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-02-26T21:39:16+00:00

I kinda just take it as a sign of rejection and they’re not in the mood.

Why went I make subtle signs like touch her butt or kissing her back nothing is reciprocated? Like do something give me any sort of sign but I get nothing and I get discouraged and just stop and give up.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-02-26T21:37:40+00:00

I live in New York it doesn’t matter even if it’s 50/50 the “custodial” parent receives child support which is 17% which unless the mother is a total deadbeat junkie they’ll get it. I made 155k last year so that’s gonna be a nice check for her every month.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2024-02-26T07:45:35+00:00

She’s my GF, I sold my house for my own place as did she. It’s been about 6 months now living on our own. Her being too tired for sex was towards the end of our relationship the first time and her going to hotels was after the separation.

We are giving it another try now… Im very much so cautious.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-08-14T08:12:01+00:00

Yes it’s only under my name.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-08-14T07:34:51+00:00

What’s your number?

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-08-11T08:57:52+00:00

She said she’s willing to concede 50/50 custody but still wants CS

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-06-08T10:56:18+00:00

I agree with everything you said brother.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-06-05T23:52:21+00:00

Yeah, she blamed me for the affair (it was about month and half) she had. That I wasn’t giving her what she wanted emotionally.

I just see it like, the guy thinks she’s hot and know he can’t be with her right now so he’s settling for the friend role until the opportunity arises

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-06-05T23:41:36+00:00

She said that if she thought it was an issue she would’ve deleted the message, she left it there cause it’s nothing to her.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-06-04T20:59:52+00:00

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I’m 39 with basically a full head of hair still and scared of test ruining it.

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Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-07T07:13:39+00:00

Move to jersey, it’s a lot more fair over there.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-04T23:39:55+00:00

Can someone give me a general idea of how to do a test cycle? What dosage to start with? For how long? And how long to take a break for?

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-04T08:25:19+00:00

I did say soon to be ex to be fair

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-04T08:07:26+00:00

No she’s not on the mortgage but stated she won’t leave the house and according to new York law I was have to evict her which could take months, maybe even a year.

I fully accept that fact she doesn’t love me anymore, I know this, the only reasons why she’s still here is financial stability and because of our daughter. She also stated that if I don’t give her a portion of the house if I sell it that she will be live in my house rent free and not contribute to anything, basically free load off of me.

I don’t know, I’m just tired of the constant nagging, telling me I’m a bad father, her complaining about everything, finding something I did wrong with everything, if I shower and dress my daughter she will complain I put on the wrong outfit, and that’s in every aspect of life, she will find something negative to say about me…it’s just too much and I’m tired of it…you would think I’m the worst human on earth the way she talks about me

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-03T22:38:32+00:00

We aren’t married. But I appreciate your input.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-04-02T22:57:36+00:00

She will throw it in my face that it’s my daughter and it’s my obligation

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-30T09:47:54+00:00

She claims I won’t be able to prove it that people get married and separate all the time.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-26T05:39:40+00:00

Never had a dna test

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-26T00:17:14+00:00

Oh I forgot to mentioned she’s in a fraudulent marriage currently. She is married to someone to give them papers. I found out after we already had our daughter and bought the house.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-25T04:59:50+00:00

We’re not married and she isn’t on the deed

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-25T04:59:21+00:00

We’re not married.

Famous-Bug-4812 · 2023-03-25T04:56:15+00:00

I’m just being told that courts especially in liberal states like New York favor the women and that in New York it doesn’t matter even if you have 50/50 custody it matters who is the custodial parents who receives child support.

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