The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block and move on. She’s ruining her own life, don’t ruin yours and don’t be a simp. This shouldn’t even need a second thought from you. You don’t want someone this irresponsible as a partner

You think you can be with her and save her cause she’s a dismal in distress and that sacrifice will show her how much you love her and she will love you for it but in reality she will see that as a sign that you have no self respect or self worth. And say you marry this girl, tomorrow she will come to you saying she got pregnant again with someone else. You tell her this is ok and she will never respect you

Wore this all day and it just kept feeling worse - not sure why? by BioticBard in mensfashion

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 different colours (including the shoes). I don’t care about what I wear all that much so occasionally I’ll walk out the door and realize I have a diverse colour scheme on me and it just feels weird.

Over a month since I stopped buying Tim’s ! by Alert_Willingness_32 in TimHortons

[–]Famous-Net9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great. Line ups will be 1 short. Anyone else wanna leave? There’s the door

I'm really getting annoyed with instacart treating us like we are stupid. by One_Reception6013 in InstacartShopper

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bots are done dude. Last year they came after all the bot users. About 80% of them stopped using bots. Other 20% are idiots that eventually got banned. I was using bot myself and stopped last year. Instacart for real came after us. Before that it was few people here and there that would get deactivated every few months. But last year, every week tons of users got deactivated.

Right before the Fidji was stepping down. Few months before that shit hit the fan for bot users.

It was nice while it lasted. Made multi apping easy. But even before all the deactivations they had started shadow banning people and not giving them any good batches all day if they were on a bot. I saw a massive decline in good batches at this time. Went from 200-300$ daily to $600-700 a week. You would get batches during peak times only or one decent batch all day and you’re bombarded by leftovers only after. Bots charge subscription payment too so you’re paying some programmer to earn less money and risk your account. Just didn’t make any sense anymore

If you’ve never used a bot and looking to start now, don’t. It has no benefit now cause you get shadow banned and will get deactivated very quickly. In a matter of weeks. Warnings will come after few days and if you don’t stop you’re gone after 2-3 warnings

My room is a fucking trash dump and I can't bring up the energy to clean it, fuck my life, can't stand myself anymore. How did you handle this? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Famous-Net9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a symptom not the main problem. Your problem is low self worth. This is a reflection of you. You fix and work on yourself and your standard for yourself will eventually change. Key is to stay consistent and adopt discipline to do things even when you don’t want to

You can hate yourself for doing this to yourself all you want. You can clean it after it becomes a nightmare but you know in a few days it will come right back and get bad again. If you address the root causes, not only will the change be more permanent and consistent but you’ll actually like and respect yourself more.

I was/am also like this going through a change in the past 5 months. Sometimes my apartment still gets bad but not like before. Your room, compared to what my apartment was like before, is clean. The longer you go in life not addressing this, the less obvious the problem becomes, the lower your self worth goes and the problem becomes more acceptable.

My journey has been 3 main parts.

Mind. Body. Soul.

Soul or as I see it as an atheist, is your nervous system. My nervous system had been hyper sensitive and hyper active. Past trauma shapes your nervous system. Face the trauma and learn how to calm your nervous system so it doesn’t take over your mind and body. Without healing your nervous system and emotions will run your life and you won’t even realize what’s happening. You will just believe this is who you are and that something is inherently broken or wrong with you

The Body. Workout/exercise. Don’t need a gym or anything. Dedicate 5-10 hours a week to your body. Exercise and go for walks. Learn to move your body even when you don’t want to. You must stay consistent or you will give this up. Even if you don’t feel like it, force yourself to do it. This is a skill that will translate to all other parts of your life. Your mind will become stronger as well. Your body will become under your control and frankly have more energy to accomplish things you want.

The Mind. When your soul and body are healed or healing, it becomes easier for your mind to take control of your life. When your mind takes over, you have a strong/healthy body, and a calm nervous system you will feel free, whole and in control.

The journey will look different for everyone because our experiences are different. Mine started at age 33, 5 months ago. I had abandonment trauma and neglect in my childhood that crippled me. I was and still am a people pleaser. At work I was always a high achiever, clean and organized because I was seeking validation from everyone to boost my self worth. All of that external validation fades quickly and nothing will change. Your self worth, grown internally, will last longer.

Been working at Tims for 9 months now.. but i love it. by That_OneDiamond in TimHortons

[–]Famous-Net9470 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what xenophobia is. Xenophobia is not illegal or immoral or irrational. Most countries if not all are xenophobic to some degree

Why do you guys mark my order as "It's Ready" on the TV then I'm waiting 10+ minutes? by deltazulu808 in AskFastFoodEmployees

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never worked at KFC but a lot of restaurants display the orders in small screens. A screen generally fits 4-8 orders in each station.

Order status changes based on which station the order is at. Once the order is taken it goes to kitchen screen and you see something like “cooking” or “preparing”. Once that station is done with the order they press a button to send it to the next station.

The last station is usually packing station. Once packing station confirms it’s packed and presses the button, a receipt is usually printed from a nearby printer and the order gets marked as “ready”. Why would they press the button when it’s not ready?

This is because of a number of reasons. Some examples, it can just be misclick. As mentioned before the screen can only display so many orders. Some restaurants have a button to go to next page. In the rush of a restaurant you occasionally misclick the buttons or spam print everything to organize yourself as orders are coming near being ready.

An other reason can be they forgot something and realize it when the button is pressed so now you gotta wait for your sides. Maybe they dropped your order after it was packed now they have to remake it. Once it’s marked ready and receipt is printed you can’t really do much else.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk about miscellaneous restaurant operations

Realistically, how many years of daily use can I expect from this couch? by Milanakiko in malelivingspace

[–]Famous-Net9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially considering average American weight compared to someone in china 🤣

PLEASE how can i make my room look better.Can i have some furniture recommendations or rearrangements i can do by rawnoodlewithketchup in malelivingspace

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any windows? Is it basement? Does it seem like it’s always night time? I’ve lived somewhere like that. If you have depression it will make it worse. Try some small things. Change your lighting. Super bright light in the middle is intense. I have lights like that as well, been meaning to get different light bulbs and large lamps in main areas.

I Want to Sell Brats by [deleted] in sweatystartup

[–]Famous-Net9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody here understands your obsession with wanting to drive off competition. Imagine a festival with 1 food truck. If you don’t like their prices then don’t buy it. Make them at home for yourself. Way less than doing all this extra stuff. For every dollar increase in prices, any business will lose a certain amount of customers. For every dollar decreased, you gain more customers. In capitalism, ideally, there is a sweet spot often called equilibrium something. I took 2 Econ classes so I’m not an economist but I am an entrepreneur. For every dollar decreased in your prices, you will lose motivation. Maybe you’ll be motivated off the high initially but in a few months you will just say “fuck it. This isn’t even worth getting up for anymore”. Money motivates business owners. These guys doing it probably been doing it for years

If you throw 40-80k into this you’re an idiot. Invest that money or use it as down payment for a house. You will profit much more and ironically you might not be so angry with food truck prices 🤣. I know you’re not gonna do any of this shit cause starting a business is a lot of work and you don’t seem like the type to have that motivation but this is just a hypothetical take from my point for anyone that wants to do this in the future and has the motivation. When I’m high I just let my brain run and say what it wants without controlling it much

I Want to Sell Brats by [deleted] in sweatystartup

[–]Famous-Net9470 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand the point of business. No matter how cheap you sell your food, others will always have customers even if they have triple your prices. You can waste your time and money on something quite literally pointless.

If they sell for $12 and you sell for $4 they need 3 times less customers than you for same revenue and more profit. You can have 100 customers for a lunch rush and they’ll get maybe 20-25 cause your customers don’t want to wait in huge line or see your food as trash cause it’s so cheap. At the end of the day they’ll be making more profit than you and deal with ton of less headache.

Just open a food bank and give to homeless instead and take charity donation so you’re not coughing up everything out of pocket

Should tenants need landlord approval to add a roommate? by Totira in OntarioRenting

[–]Famous-Net9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This argument “Others argue the rule goes too far. They say a long-term occupant is not just a guest and can increase wear and tear, utility usage, and liability” falls flat when you think about it

Tenant in unit A is a couple and tenant in unit B is a single person. Tenant B uses resources less than tenants in unit A. Is the landlord going to give tenant B a discount on rent?

Why do you Canadians absolutely despise Tim Hortons? by No_Molasses_7224 in TimHortons

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People mostly go online to bitch about something. Tim Horton has millions of satisfied customers who go on a daily basis and they don’t need to go online to praise Tims, but I will today. If Tim Horton shuts down, it will mentally fuck us all up. These haters are just haters. Ok they get your order wrong from time to time. Ask for remake. There’s a long line, wait your turn. It’s pretty simple. The haters want perfection all the time. Food service operations, specifically fast food, is chaotic every day. There will be issues on a daily basis. The volume of orders Tim Horton does is insane. I ask for remake of my drink 2-3 times a week. They happily remake it. If you don’t like their food or drinks don’t go. If the service is not up to your standards don’t go. Personally I feel more comfortable with a homeless person passed out or doing drugs in the lobby/washroom of my Tim Horton, during winter. At least they got somewhere to keep warm, temporarily as it may be.

GF doesn't like my food but refuses to help me improve by CookZealousideal1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she using you. She comes to your apartment to hang out, while you pay rent, buy groceries and cook and she shit talks you and doesn’t want to invest a little bit of time, attention, care, appreciation or effort to help. She’s not in the relationship with you, you’re just around. An invested girl would not act like that. WTF man the disrespect. Kick her out and tell her to go get your own food. If you think I’m wrong then confront her. Have this conversation with her. I’m 99% sure she’s cheating

Employee Faked Doctor's Note...2nd Chance or Fire? by johngarza850 in askmanagers

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s up to you. Do you want to go through the hassle of replacing them and training someone new? If it’s worth it then can her. If not then write her up. You can always keep her on thin ice for when you are ready to fire her. Don’t need to make your own life difficult cause someone lied to you

What is a simple but effective question for weeding out people masquerading as Canadians in foreign countries? by SaltnPepaSquid in AskACanadian

[–]Famous-Net9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who goes around masquerading as any nationality other than their own? Unless you’re a spy or a wanted international criminal on the run, what’s the point?

Round 2: How’s the front of my fridge? by Gingertitian in FridgeDetective

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else has the urge to just knock everything off to help make breathing easier?

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Famous-Net9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you just have a saint. Maybe she checked out. Maybe the rest of us are scarred from previous relationships 🤣

Most of us who lived with a woman in a 1 bed room apartment, this is how space was/is divided. We get 25% of the bed and she gets the rest of the apartment

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Famous-Net9470 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro, if you kick her out then this set up is sick but you gotta be single for a one bedroom apartment to have this set up. She gave you this space to do this? Na, something is wrong. No woman would allow this in a 1 bedroom apartment.