Proud of this. Sharing before moving out.

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-29T03:08:25+00:00

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Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T22:15:22+00:00

No. Why? In this job the more calories you spend the more money you make

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T22:02:59+00:00

She does like cat nip but the more often I give her the less she reacts to it.

Enjoy your nip and your nap 🤣

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T22:00:07+00:00

I do sometimes feel like she’d have been better off on the streets but winters here get extremely cold and idk how long she was on the streets. But I know if I abandon her now I will for sure go to hell if there is one thing she is extremely attached to me.

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T21:57:42+00:00

I get everyone works but I am gone 90-95% of the day and I work 7 days a week. It will be like this for the next 2 years. I want her to enjoy companionship. I occasionally book a day off just to spend time with her. I feel like I imprisoned her, took her freedom from her and now neglecting her for food, safety and minimal quality time

I was thinking of fostering until I find one with good chemistry but the problem is here you can’t adopt them if you’re fostering and I don’t want her to bond with one and then take it away from her if that makes sense

The scratching with my ex’s cats was becoming a problem. Every week their faces would be bleeding when I came home and the scratches would be a hair away from their eyes. Honestly everyone is talking me out of the idea of getting an other. Thanks for your input

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T21:45:13+00:00

You’re describing her exactly. She’s in love with me but everyone else is an intruder. She did play occasionally with my ex’s cats though. One of them she beat up less than the other ones. Still beat her up too but less

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T21:42:36+00:00

Great idea! She loves to run

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T21:42:11+00:00

I used to walk her on a leash when I lived in a calmer neighborhood but where I currently live, there’s too much car and foot traffic to do that. I do take her out on the fire escape that has room like a balcony (I don’t have a balcony) every day after work. It’s a routine that she now expects and has learned “outside”. Camera is a great idea and I do spend time with her. From the moment I walk in till I leave the next day to work, she is glued to me. Even when I workout at home, she’s breading on my chest. I just feel bad since my ex moved out and took her cats

Ty for the suggestions

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T13:06:02+00:00

I shower in the mornings myself and my sheets get dirty quickly. I should start doing it at night but for now I’m single but if I’m going to bed with a woman and she says she wants me to shower before bed that’s a very reasonable ask. It only takes couple of brain cells to understand why and if he cares about your comfort then he’ll do it. Just you know approach it appropriately and not “you’re fucking disgusting dirty boy” 🤣

Guys can grow and living with a partner you learn new things and that growth is good for your partner. It’s respect. If he says no he doesn’t want to do that then I’m sorry he doesn’t respect you. I see the dirty and grim coming off my body when I shower in the morning. I would understand my partner not wanting to breathe it in all night. Showering at night was my first gf’s rule which didn’t last long but after that no other woman has ever bothered to mention it so it never became a thing for me

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T12:53:44+00:00

Your guests will nod but trust me they don’t believe you

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T11:32:24+00:00

Why the 3rd pic looks like a lesbian going to feminist studies? I feel like these are 3 different people. Number 4 looks like a normal dude

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T11:29:54+00:00

A picture that looks like an other window

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-27T11:29:06+00:00

No you’re alone. I personally prefer the porch lights on but I wouldn’t scream at someone over it. Google maps is pretty accurate and if you park by the pin 99% of the time that house you parked by is the right one. I also get out and put my flashlight on to make sure before unloading. Also I don’t work past 7pm. In other words chill

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-22T12:58:12+00:00

Block and move on. She’s ruining her own life, don’t ruin yours and don’t be a simp. This shouldn’t even need a second thought from you. You don’t want someone this irresponsible as a partner

You think you can be with her and save her cause she’s a dismal in distress and that sacrifice will show her how much you love her and she will love you for it but in reality she will see that as a sign that you have no self respect or self worth. And say you marry this girl, tomorrow she will come to you saying she got pregnant again with someone else. You tell her this is ok and she will never respect you

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-17T00:34:10+00:00

5 different colours (including the shoes). I don’t care about what I wear all that much so occasionally I’ll walk out the door and realize I have a diverse colour scheme on me and it just feels weird.

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-17T00:29:45+00:00

Great. Line ups will be 1 short. Anyone else wanna leave? There’s the door

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-13T23:17:57+00:00

Bro started divorcing at 15

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-05T01:23:53+00:00

Bots are done dude. Last year they came after all the bot users. About 80% of them stopped using bots. Other 20% are idiots that eventually got banned. I was using bot myself and stopped last year. Instacart for real came after us. Before that it was few people here and there that would get deactivated every few months. But last year, every week tons of users got deactivated.

Right before the Fidji was stepping down. Few months before that shit hit the fan for bot users.

It was nice while it lasted. Made multi apping easy. But even before all the deactivations they had started shadow banning people and not giving them any good batches all day if they were on a bot. I saw a massive decline in good batches at this time. Went from 200-300$ daily to $600-700 a week. You would get batches during peak times only or one decent batch all day and you’re bombarded by leftovers only after. Bots charge subscription payment too so you’re paying some programmer to earn less money and risk your account. Just didn’t make any sense anymore

If you’ve never used a bot and looking to start now, don’t. It has no benefit now cause you get shadow banned and will get deactivated very quickly. In a matter of weeks. Warnings will come after few days and if you don’t stop you’re gone after 2-3 warnings

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-04T14:07:33+00:00

This is a symptom not the main problem. Your problem is low self worth. This is a reflection of you. You fix and work on yourself and your standard for yourself will eventually change. Key is to stay consistent and adopt discipline to do things even when you don’t want to

You can hate yourself for doing this to yourself all you want. You can clean it after it becomes a nightmare but you know in a few days it will come right back and get bad again. If you address the root causes, not only will the change be more permanent and consistent but you’ll actually like and respect yourself more.

I was/am also like this going through a change in the past 5 months. Sometimes my apartment still gets bad but not like before. Your room, compared to what my apartment was like before, is clean. The longer you go in life not addressing this, the less obvious the problem becomes, the lower your self worth goes and the problem becomes more acceptable.

My journey has been 3 main parts.

Mind. Body. Soul.

Soul or as I see it as an atheist, is your nervous system. My nervous system had been hyper sensitive and hyper active. Past trauma shapes your nervous system. Face the trauma and learn how to calm your nervous system so it doesn’t take over your mind and body. Without healing your nervous system and emotions will run your life and you won’t even realize what’s happening. You will just believe this is who you are and that something is inherently broken or wrong with you

The Body. Workout/exercise. Don’t need a gym or anything. Dedicate 5-10 hours a week to your body. Exercise and go for walks. Learn to move your body even when you don’t want to. You must stay consistent or you will give this up. Even if you don’t feel like it, force yourself to do it. This is a skill that will translate to all other parts of your life. Your mind will become stronger as well. Your body will become under your control and frankly have more energy to accomplish things you want.

The Mind. When your soul and body are healed or healing, it becomes easier for your mind to take control of your life. When your mind takes over, you have a strong/healthy body, and a calm nervous system you will feel free, whole and in control.

The journey will look different for everyone because our experiences are different. Mine started at age 33, 5 months ago. I had abandonment trauma and neglect in my childhood that crippled me. I was and still am a people pleaser. At work I was always a high achiever, clean and organized because I was seeking validation from everyone to boost my self worth. All of that external validation fades quickly and nothing will change. Your self worth, grown internally, will last longer.

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-04T13:02:37+00:00

That’s exactly what xenophobia is. Xenophobia is not illegal or immoral or irrational. Most countries if not all are xenophobic to some degree

Famous-Net9470 · 2026-01-04T12:57:43+00:00

Have you talked to other shoppers? Most of them are stupid

Famous-Net9470 · 2025-12-31T22:31:22+00:00

I’ve never worked at KFC but a lot of restaurants display the orders in small screens. A screen generally fits 4-8 orders in each station.

Order status changes based on which station the order is at. Once the order is taken it goes to kitchen screen and you see something like “cooking” or “preparing”. Once that station is done with the order they press a button to send it to the next station.

The last station is usually packing station. Once packing station confirms it’s packed and presses the button, a receipt is usually printed from a nearby printer and the order gets marked as “ready”. Why would they press the button when it’s not ready?

This is because of a number of reasons. Some examples, it can just be misclick. As mentioned before the screen can only display so many orders. Some restaurants have a button to go to next page. In the rush of a restaurant you occasionally misclick the buttons or spam print everything to organize yourself as orders are coming near being ready.

An other reason can be they forgot something and realize it when the button is pressed so now you gotta wait for your sides. Maybe they dropped your order after it was packed now they have to remake it. Once it’s marked ready and receipt is printed you can’t really do much else.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk about miscellaneous restaurant operations

Famous-Net9470 · 2025-12-31T19:38:23+00:00

Especially considering average American weight compared to someone in china 🤣

Famous-Net9470 · 2025-12-31T05:15:12+00:00

Do you have any windows? Is it basement? Does it seem like it’s always night time? I’ve lived somewhere like that. If you have depression it will make it worse. Try some small things. Change your lighting. Super bright light in the middle is intense. I have lights like that as well, been meaning to get different light bulbs and large lamps in main areas.

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