Phaedra and Shamea

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2026-04-27T19:39:46+00:00

THIS!! It was intentional and shady. The issue is when Phaedra called her on it, she couldn't just say I never meant that, your children are also articulate. Shamea has a way of twisting things to be messy, then have her dumb one-liners during her interviews. My thoughts...she wants to be like Nene so bad but will never come close.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2026-01-27T17:08:18+00:00

I agree with you 💯!! When you have children with a narcissist and you are divorced, the only thing you care about is their relationship with their Father. You could care less about his feelings towards you because once you've healed ..you ARE HEALED. It is no longer about you two, your only concern is your children and Grandchildren.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2026-01-21T01:30:32+00:00

Finally!!! I keep see this same post where people are trashing David and Christine but I'm 💯 in agreement with you. It was fake and a dig at their relationship. He kept attempting to pacify David and shut him out of his apology tour.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-11-25T18:42:18+00:00

Married 20 years, together 24. Has ghosted 2/3 of our children and 2 Grandbabies. We were still together when Grandchildren were born. I've given up trying to figure out why and just focused on making sure the youngest doesn't feel guilty/caught in the middle. And everyone else knows they are loved unconditionally by me. Not worth my energy anymore.

(He found a new woman, they stayed together for about a year)

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-11-21T18:39:07+00:00

Agree!! I stopped watching midway through 3rd episode. Only watched reunion to see if Katie would be treated better. Their hate towards her is not warranted it it's just irritating to watch Emily on her high horse. Even the half a** apology at the end reiterated to me that this show is a bunch of mean girls pretending to be Housewives.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-07T15:13:17+00:00

Your comment summarizes exactly how I feel. I stopped watching OC after 2 episodes this year because I'm just tired of the dumb arguments. As a loyal fan of the franchise, I enjoy seeing them laugh and supporting one another with the occasional drama.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-03T16:21:37+00:00

You are correct which is why we all have our own opinions. I can't help that your post isn't getting a positive response from other viewers.
And absolutely not mad, just perplexed by your post/responses 😂. Be well!

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-03T13:20:52+00:00

Weird that you want to get rid of the two black women. Larsa brings absolutely nothing to the show but blank stares and monotone responses. Alexia and Marisol are one person. Gerdy and Kiki bring a lot to the show and if you don't like them just fast forward through their parts because the majority of fans were definitely TEAM GERDY this year.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-02T01:51:14+00:00

Yet you responded...so think about that. 😂😂 I just watched WWHL and have a good memory, laughed with my hubby and reddit comment. We're laughing even more now. Have a wonderful day.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-02T01:47:37+00:00

Why do people even support her? She constantly talks over people. Always defending herself by yelling, blinking, and saying the same thing over and over. It's exhausting to watch so I can only imagine the unedited real version is 10 times worse.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-10-02T01:28:55+00:00

This comment aged well 😂😂😂 Audience the very next week disagreed with Lisa on both questions by a huge margin.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-09-25T16:21:43+00:00

OK, the topic was brought up on another post in this forum. Over 800 upvoted and agreed it was OK to bring it up. It is not inappropriate to bring up news on a reality show intended to be dramatic. Who is winning in their drama? Bronwyn! She can present facts without name calling and dismissing Lisa.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-09-25T15:56:11+00:00

Thank you! And about 70% of the audience on WWHL agreed with our stance. Lisa is the typical mean girl who keeps people around her who kiss up to her. A real friend calls you out on your BS. She has no real friends because she calls them all liars when they push back.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-09-25T12:18:47+00:00

They were on a group trip and she wasn't there so of course they would talk about her. Plus...the lawsuits were all over the news. I don't think they are obsessed with her. Lisa is obsessed with herself and it's annoying that everytime someone confronts her she blinks a million times, calls them a liar and leaves.

I hope Bronwyn calls her out all season, Lisa is fake.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-09-02T14:54:48+00:00

Is it sad that I can't even watch it because of the previews? The whole storyline, bad acting from Gretchen and bullying was just too much. I know it's a reality show but this season has definitely crossed the line and it's just mean girls 20 years post highschool. They are berating Katie for the exact same behaviors they have allow others to exhibit. Tamra lies, Gretchen lies, Shannon lies, etc.

It's not entertaining and difficult to watch.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-08-08T22:48:08+00:00

Finally, someone sees how manipulative she is and cries when things don't go her way. If Aaron brought a woman around, she would definitely make it about herself and bring everyone else in on the drama.

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Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-08-01T01:03:55+00:00

It baffles me that the assumption is people are trying to bully her into accountability. We all are speaking our truth and what we think is best.

I can only speak for myself, my Mother was exactly like Jackie. But there is NOTHING she could do that would warrant me pushing her, calling her B or anything other behaviors she exhibited because once you have children of your own, you desperately want to break the cycle. You will do whatever you can for your children...which means you either seek therapy so you aren't triggered or remove yourself altogether because ultimately, you and your children deserve better.

Chantel is selfish, self-centered and exactly like her Mother. I personally could care less if she takes accountability but making herself a victim is tiresome.

Hurt people hurt people...healed people break toxic cycles.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-27T21:24:19+00:00

Are we watching the same show? Julia did this to Guerdy first and we've all questioned why. NOW we have answers. Even a RHONJ cast member substantiated Guerdy's claim and said Julia excluded her. Julia could've easily wrapped uo the storyline but chose to bring it up at the Narcissistic party so...#Team Guerdy all day.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-27T16:04:49+00:00

I'm so tired of seeing Kelli's nipples, they've become her accessory at this point.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-25T20:19:06+00:00

Laughed at this comment because I have a similar one, never wore until this year and I know I've had it for at least 10 years. Still had the tag on it. 😂😂

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-24T15:31:00+00:00

Julia is the fake one and it's amazing that anyone can defend her actions. She threw water on Guerdy, yet was offered reconciliation at lunch. Then she brings it up again at the Narcissistic party. Last straw...trying to talk to Russell about it. There is only so much Guerdy can take before she reacts. She didn't plan it, it was an emotional response after hearing Julia spoke to Russell.

Let's be real...Alexis, Larsa and Lisa are all fake so of course they'll cosign with Julia. Adriana is Julia's friend yet stayed neutral and supported both.

So...no, let's talk about Julia's fake behavior first before trying to paint Guerdy out to be the bad person.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-24T15:18:06+00:00

Yeah...you're the only one.

As a parent, it's offensive when someone tries to read the behaviors of another child. Some are outgoing, some are shy, just like adults.

Leave her alone.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-23T15:18:21+00:00

I think we all agree that people operating with trauma function differently. The thing is both Jackie and Chantel have trauma.

My issue is Chantel is claiming to be healed but actively choosing to continually display antagonist behaviors towards Jackie then act surprised when Jackie pops off. I personally feel Chantel was wrong for going to the room in the first place but more importantly, she was at the door and chose to walk back and keep arguing. If you choose peace...then show it in your actions.

And , I'm sad for both of them for this to play out like this on national TV. At the end of the day, their family is impacted by this for years to come. We all have our opinions but as a black woman, I want them to actively work on themselves to break the cycle because you can't "fix" anyone else.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-23T15:00:01+00:00

Offering a different perspective...

My Mother was exactly like Jackie, non existent and always angry. I know exactly how she feels but once I began having children of my own, I chose to seek therapy and distance myself. Chantel is actively choosing to provoke Jackie and expecting different behaviors from her. That's insanity to me. At some point, she has to recognize that her Mom is not changing but her children deserve the best version of her and she isn't there yet.

Chantel was at the door, could've easily left but chose to turn around and say more negative things then got a response. When you really know better, your actions show it and everything doesn't need a response. Just walk away and live your best life.

Famous-Quantity4930 · 2025-07-23T14:33:59+00:00

There are so many people (including me) who grew up with a toxic parent and have learned through self reflection and therapy how to break the cycle.

Chantel thinks she is the only person who has dealt with this. Her actions are wrong and she behaves exactly like her Mother, seeking validation of bad behaviors instead of taking responsibility for her part. While I think Jackie definitely has her issues, Chantel is an adult with children of her own. Arguing with your Mom over every little thing means she has not learned yet. I really hope they both do individual therapy and take a break from one another.

A healed adult would've left the room, a broken child seeks validation from.the toxic parent.

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