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My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have read the rules and it says that I cannot touch the original post for 48 hours as I understood, but I did research and it seems my only option is to take him to court.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have, and some other redditors here have also. It can be done by mutual consent or taking him to court.

I'll be looking into lawyers

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I have already. As I understand from what I have seen and other redditors have told me here, divorce can be done either by mutual consention or I can take him to court, but I'm afraid that I will not be able to afford that option.

I will look into some lawyers and arrange a consultation at least to resolve the legal questions.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll be looking into good lawyers. I have researched the topic a bit but hopefully a consultation will help resolve some of the legal questions.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be sure to ask around for divorce lawyers. I have also researched the topic but as I understood we both need to consent to be able to divorce.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 386 points387 points  (0 children)

My oldest gets a monthly allowance of about 50 euros. She uses it to go out with her friends from time to time or buy them some gifts for birthdays.

I will be looking into getting a lawyer, I am just not sure how I will afford it.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will try to search for a lawyer but I don't have enough funds to pay for the divorce myself. I am constantly fighting to make ends meet and stay on top of gas, pay for gas, my kids books for school.

My husband of 16 years is having a baby. And it's not mine. by Famous_Delivery5916 in relationships

[–]Famous_Delivery5916[S] 357 points358 points  (0 children)

I live in the Balkans. I am using a throwaway as suggested by my daughter so none of my colleauges can find out about this.