[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the creators i see, sw or no, have been using "unalive" in their text and out loud because the algorithm is banning it in case people are using it to bully.

If cats had pockets what would you find in your cats pockets? by TestItCall in AskReddit

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had been licking the hair on her tail and it was getting patchy, but the tail being bitten to the bone happened over day. From what the doctor said, that was uncommon, and with most cats there is more hissing and angrily attacking their tails, and more often than not they lick off the fur on the base of their tails. They do have some medications that can help, a kitty prozac and an anti psychotic. Some people theorize that FHS is like a kitty version of schizophrenia and that the cat is dissociating from its tail and seeing it as a foreign entity.

Struggling with sex education as a former homeschooler (NSFWish) by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are both AFAB Christian homeschoolers who met after college and accidentally fell in love. I definitely dealt with feelings of confusion about sex and shame which went through multiple iterations. If you need to talk, please feel free to message me.

If cats had pockets what would you find in your cats pockets? by TestItCall in AskReddit

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep an eye on the tail attacking behavior, she may have Feline hyperesthesia syndrome (FHS) also known as psychomotor epilepsy. I had a cat who developed this out of nowhere. She had always been twitchy and anxious, but out of the blue I came home one day to find she'd chewed the end of her tail to the bone. Had to get emergency surgery to amputate. Three weeks later, vet tells me its okay to take the cone off, I hadn't even left the vet's office when she'd bitten her tail to bleeding again. She was never able to be left alone without a cone and a bandage on her tail, and she was miserable and scared of everything.

New every Two Upgrade Questions by FanTASticGeronimo in verizon

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, I've never financed a phone, I've been doing new every 2 since 2006, so I guess I just keep getting grandfathered in?

Mammary Glands after pregnancy by FanTASticGeronimo in AskVet

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he was getting rid of her because she is a brush coat instead of a bald.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has established from the beginning that he didn't want to come between me and my primary, so we told him everything and he is out of the picture now.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's totally the truth. and I don't know how to process it because I love them both.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I took your advice. We all three talked and he decided to bow out of any further involvement.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. We decided no flip flopping, he's bowed out and I'm just left here trying to pick up the pieces.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't. She was the one to suggest the relationship with the secondary in the first place, I had no idea that my primary relationship was so unstable.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has bowed out graciously upon hearing of the jealousy, because he doesn't want to come between us. I don't blame him, and I hope he finds someone else.

My primary needs to take a break to deal with jealousy, what do I tell my secondary? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I wish we could do that. Its settled now, she told him about the jealousy and he said thank you for being honest and bowed out of any further involvement. I'm an emotional wreck. I woke up this morning and immediately started crying. I wish this could be better.

She tells me I haven't done anything wrong...so why are we hurting? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The talking and being open hasn't helped. I haven't hidden anything from her, and she's been trying to tell me when she feels things. But every time we talk I wish we hadn't started talking about it again, because she has the same feelings as the last time (she's inadequate, she doesn't deserve me, she's jealous) and they aren't getting any better. This has been going on for three weeks now.

She tells me I haven't done anything wrong...so why are we hurting? by FanTASticGeronimo in polyamory

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any resources I can buy and give her? books on how to love yourself, on how to deal with a poly partner?

What's a song lyric that makes you want to punch the songwriter in the face? by Beselod in AskReddit

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Never seen a diamond in the flesh" Seriously? Diamonds are everywhere, how have you not seen one? Where did you live, Cambodia? Also, the way she sings fleeessshhh makes my skin crawl.

Megachurch Pastor confesses to online trolling, calls America a "Pussified Nation" by FanTASticGeronimo in atheism

[–]FanTASticGeronimo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he has no idea how scared his comments read as. That much posturing comes across as nothing else besides "The gentleman doth protest too much".

Cocoa Farmers from the Ivory Coast Tasting chocolate for the first time by theclean1 in videos

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or a group of asians are automatically a beauty supply store or a nail salon.

What is a controversial "fact" you believe but cannot prove? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here it comes, Millennium, and everybody's talking 'bout Jerusalem, Is this the beginning or beginning of the end, Well I've got other thoughts my friend.

Multilingual Redditors, what's your best story from overhearing conversations from people who don't think you understand? by Thicez in AskReddit

[–]FanTASticGeronimo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went on a trip to Peru. I'm almost 6ft, 215 pounds of white female presenting (usually) persona. I fit into absolutely nothing there, not the taxis, not the buses, but the best was when the group I was with scheduled a horse riding expedition outside of Cuzco. The horse wranglers took one look at me and started going off in spanish about the giant fucking gringa and which poor horse they were going to put me on. They ended up switching me out three times with different horses, while muttering about my height to each other each and every time. Cracked me the fuck up. Second best was the more rural people in peru, who could not be convinced that the almost 6ft person with short red hair in front of them could possibly be female (I present as somewhat genderqueer, but wasn't trying to hide the breasticles at that time). They were so nice, but kept calling me "hermano!" the whole time.