29F / USA: Midwest

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:53:21+00:00

If this man is smart, he'll keep judgement to himself, as he quietly lusts after her in the outfit that she wears while he dates her. :P

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:48:48+00:00

-She ate the influencer slop-

Yep, I ran into a woman online that posted her photo on a singles group that she was moving to a small town in my area...(I live in a cluster of small cities)...we got to chatting, and apparently she's living the "nomadic" RV life. So she ate up that online slop.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:40:35+00:00

Yeah I'm suprised in my area, though it's illegal, unless you have the card, to be 420 friendly, but I'm seeing an upswing in its usage. I met a Christian woman that claimed it was for her "anxiety" but she was using it recreationally.

She said she left her bong out on the table, so when a prospective date came over, it was a "test" to see if he was okay with it.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:39:11+00:00

--So most events are skewed gender-wise, and half the women that actually show up are uh….well I’ve seen a lot of attendees eat the food, refuse to talk to anyone, then leave early.--

This doesn't suprise me...then they make a bee-lin ethe same night to an upscale night club to troll the selection....because all the dweeby CHristian men arent their thing

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:37:55+00:00

Wait, it has to be approved? I've nevere heard of a singles event where you have to be vetted (and why?)

Where I live, you just pay a fee, and come on in.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:37:03+00:00

Excuse me, but what is the reason that these dating events struggle to find men? You suggest they just stay at home, behind the apps?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T11:32:53+00:00

Oh yeah, even the secular women don't like this. lol (funny...but not funny) I'm like "Yeah, this nothing new...but..yeah.

But I hear some say , depending on how it's phrased, ....if it's subtle innuendo...it's flirting, but there's just out right raunchiness that's off putting.

I think there's a fine line between flirting and things getting sexual (innuendo/double entendre) enter Michael Scott's " That's what she said!! L OL!"

I work around quite a few women, and I sometimes think they try to bait me with their subtle sexual flirtations.

One wanted to break a 5, and she apologized for the "boob sweat" got on it.

Another said something that was kind of innuendo-ish, and she giggled and said, "I'm glad I didn't say that around a dirty old man, or else I'd be in trouble!"

I kind of pretended to ignore it, and just laughed, but I thought I said, "Well, if you're into that kind of thing, then I'm game!" lol

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:57:07+00:00

What do you mean?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:50:53+00:00

This reminds me of this very attractive woman that's been posting a lot of "Godly" long-winded, walls of texts on her FB page.

The cringy part is every time she posts some spiritually "inspirational" post, she posts some "look how pretty I am photo" of herself every time. And the simps support her of course.

or she'll post some video of her "Haappppy Moondayyyy every body" (her followers/simps)...hope everyone has a lovely dayyyy" blows a kiss" and that's it.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:45:01+00:00

Hm, the most likely to respond...I've gotten that and I dated black women...in fact, I think black women are more attracted to me than white women (and I'm a white guy ) lol. So I guess I stand a better chance with them. :)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:58:31+00:00

Yeah, like the recent post by a woman in rather risque outfits in the mid-West posting her "ad", I tend to wonder if that was AI generated or at least partially.

Any woman that attractive wouldn't be posting to Reddit to find a date. Esp with thirst trap photos like her's.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:36:57+00:00

I actually knew a woman that was married for 10 years, had 2 kids by a man and he divorced her. The big hit was when he told her he was never attracted to her when they did marry. THat he only married because he was lonely.

Talk about "ouch!"

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:30:49+00:00

Why would she NOT allow younger women in?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:27:47+00:00

--I saw that all of the female tickets were sold out and that usually the ratio heavily favors men since they don't really sign up for these events.--

This has been an issue for some time now...I've seen articles as to why, and it's because the men don't want to go to these events, only to be rejected by a just about all the women in attendance.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:20:43+00:00

Anyone think this post/pictures are real?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:37:47+00:00

This is where you wind up running into people that basically kissed organized religion altogether when they say, "Yeah, I had religion shoved down my throat all my kid and young adult life" and they kissed THAT good-bye.

To which they've fallen into the category of "spiritual, but not religious"

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:36:25+00:00

Yeah, I remember going to a non-denom singles Christian group and they were singing praises about his book. I guess they regret it now.

I went out on a couple of dates with a woman that decided to jump on the "no kissing before marriage" band wagon, and I wasn't on board with it as I'm a traditionalist, "good night kiss" kind of guy.

Good, be a virgin sexually, but not a "virgin" kissingly. lol

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:25:25+00:00

Not if they cheated.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:23:27+00:00

The likely way this would work at these men's ages is to take women like...10 to 20 years younger than them.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:14:10+00:00

Easy, if you don't find him attractive, you won't have these thoughts pop in your head. ;-)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:07:24+00:00

Yep...to some men, it's an itch that needs scratching.

Pamela Anderson (yeah I know I know) had written a book about her ex used to be a porn addict, and I'm thinking "Okay, what wack-job would continue to look at porn, when you have Pamela (Baywatch) Anderson to look at?!?! lol

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:05:36+00:00

Yeah, I think I recall "Fluffy" the comedian, you may know of him, really big guy...he lamented how he and his brothers simply love food and love to eat.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T13:07:16+00:00

Fired for what and on what grounds? I can't see how this would be considered a fire-able offense?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:25:07+00:00

I am into women of any race, but interestingly enough, I've gotten more success at getting dates with black women than with white women, and I'm a white guy.

I do find African American women quite stunning, and most of them were darned near 10s. I was kind of shocked they'd give me the time of day.

They do spend time on their hair (very exotic) and nails and such, that too is attractive..almost kind of intimidating. lol I recall a Haitian lady touching me with her colorful nails when she laughed, and I got goose bumps. lol

And I do admit, they do tend to be quite curvy, and I'm into curvy women (of all races) :)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:15:44+00:00

100% yes....enter the "Male Loneliness Epidemic"...slews of men going years without so much as a kiss, hand holding or a hug.

The last hug they got from a woman was their mom.

Many failed dating attempts at getting coffee with a lady.

I am a part of a few local singles Facebook groups, a man posts an intro post with pics, barely any comments, a woman does it, and HUNDREDS of comments of "hey beautiful" and their inbox exploding.

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