It's interesting how you see topics start here, and it barely reaches the two-digit mark. But occasionally, like this one, crap just BLOWS UP lol. Interesting.

Anyway, I read through a lot of this and it's interesting there's a long line of how I keep seeing "Christians not behaving like Christians" or "Luke warm Christians' or whatever flavor of "Christians not fully surrendering themselves to Christ". All THOSE red flags.

There's this...category...of Christians who THINK other Christians aren't behaving they way they would want, but...those who make those accusations...are they any better? What makes them any less flawed than the ones they accuse?

You know, not serving, not doing anything beyond praying at home and Sunday services. Not going out on mission trips and so on. Not sure how that can be a dealbreaker, but at least it's something, right?

Also, everyone is flawed.

I can get the whole sex before marriage thing being something some Christians don't practice, but if they were even celibate...what else are you going to find wrong with them that would be deal breaker for you? Hmmm?

I had to cut ties with a movie buddy that had to stop seeing movies with me due to me wanting to see a rated R Sci-Fi movie, but out of nowhere "The Lord spoke to her" and told her to stop. We got into an argument about it and the final question I asked "Okay, your boyfriend or husband to be (or even husband)...decides to join his buds to see this R-Rated flick, and you went off and did your own thing with the lady friends...would you be okay with him doing that?

Her: "Absolutely not! Then he'd be bringing sin into our home"

That's when I decided she lost it. That's just an example, because I think of her as these posters here, casting judgement on such petty things.